Today is the third day of 's "yang" . I took my temperature early in the morning and it finally returned to normal. My body is still weak, but compared to the first day when I was lying in bed unable to move, I am obviously feeling better. When I woke up, I checked my phone and looked at all kinds of news. I couldn't help but sigh: The epidemic is like a mirror looking into the devil.
Illustrates a heart-warming child: When a family is unable to move, the child who recovers first takes on the important task of feeding the whole family.
On the other hand, the shadow of human nature is revealed: A father couldn't help the pain of fever and even drank all the ibuprofen suspension for his child. The wife scolded her husband, but the husband was so angry that he had a big quarrel with her and was about to get divorced.
On the one hand, it also reflects the wife's "revenge" act: The husband had a high fever and could not get out of bed, so he begged his wife to buy antipyretic medicine. The wife is perfunctory and "bears it" with her husband and continues to do what he needs to do. This mother said that it was not that she was heartless, but that she was in so much pain when she gave birth that she asked for painless injections but was rejected. She really couldn't get over this psychological hurdle, so she took this opportunity to let the person next to her feel the "pain".
In response to this, netizens praised: did a great job!
Yes, under the epidemic, the situation has suddenly changed and become complicated, and supplies and medicines are scarce. Therefore, the truth, goodness, beauty and evil of human nature are clearly reflected in this bright mirror.
Whether it is heart-warming or sad, the epidemic is not over and life still needs to go on.
Many times, people's hearts often become sensitive and soft when they are fragile, only then can they see the beauty that is ignored in daily life, and they will also remember the pain of being stabbed.
In the past few days in Yang, I deeply felt that if you can meet these three types of people in your life, you will be lucky and happy.
1. A partner who knows how to take care of
After the hormones of love fade away, the most precious thing between partners is the word "companion" . You may not notice it in calm days, but the critical period is precious.
My husband and I were diagnosed with "Yang" on the same day, me first and him last. That day, I was in pain all over and couldn't get out of bed. The husband immediately packed up the child's clothes and sent him to his grandparents' house in the countryside to "shelter from the limelight". On the way back, he did not forget to purchase a bunch of supplies.
After carrying heavy objects upstairs, he was sweating profusely and said that the muscles in his lower body were aching. When the body temperature was measured, it was about the same as mine; when the antigen and were measured, there were two gorgeous lines!
Although everyone was positive, in the next few days, almost all of my daily life was taken care of by my husband, who had milder symptoms than me. Three meals, breakfast, lunch and dinner, plus washing dishes and wiping tables. When he had a poor appetite, he was fed by various "threats" from time to time.
personally feels that there are two completely different appetites if there is someone around you who can help "feed".
The day after I got positive, my husband had to go to work due to work needs. I simply ordered a few frozen dumplings for lunch alone. I had no appetite. It was purely to fill my stomach and replenish energy. On the third day of Yang, my husband rested at home. Although it was simple, when he served a bowl of hot vegetable and rice cake soup, his heart suddenly felt warm. In order to supplement protein , he cut a large piece of roast goose ingredients early in the morning.
I think I am lucky because I have met a husband who can take care of others. He will take care of me when he is sick and vulnerable. Those trivial and unsatisfactory things in daily life are really not worth mentioning.
Holding hands and growing old together does not mean how much we love each other when we are healthy, but what is more important is how much patience and attentiveness we have when we are sick and bedside?
2. Healthy elderly people
all say "An old person in a family is like a treasure" . During this epidemic, I deeply realized this. It really makes a difference whether there are elderly people helping at critical moments.
When my antigen test was positive for and , I was most worried not about myself, but about my son who lived in the same room. After a phone call with my parents-in-law, I immediately decided to take my children to the countryside more than ten kilometers away to "shelter from the limelight." In the current epidemic situation, there is no way to escape. Just looking for a slim "in case of missed" opportunity, even if it can be postponed for a few days, it is a good thing.
When my son arrived at his grandparents’ house, even though he was confined to the house, at least he had a spacious yard for him to play around, and he had a room to avoid each other.
In the past three days, I have called my son several times every day. The first sentence is nothing more than: How is your health? How are your grandparents doing?
Every time we hear the child’s crisp reply on the other end of the phone: “Very good!”
We are relieved.
"The child is with us, don't worry! You two should take good care of your health, unless we fall ill..." The mother-in-law's voice sounded on the other end of the phone, and it sounded particularly considerate at this moment.
In the epidemic, the most threatened are children and the elderly. In the past period of time, we have heard too much sad news. How can we be content if we have healthy elderly people at home who can still help us take care of our children? How could you not be lucky?
3. Self-disciplined children
In the current epidemic, parents always want to send their children to a safe place. If the children are not with them, it is really important whether the children can be self-disciplined.
Before departure, I brought some homework for my son. After sending it out of the door, I said to my husband worriedly: "What scares me the most is that the child is left alone by his grandparents. He doesn't do his homework and just watches TV and plays..."
"You should take care of your body first. If your child cannot discipline himself, he should take a holiday to take care of himself!"
I have no choice but to comfort myself in this way.
later found out during the follow-up phone call that although the child was playful, he was still able to allocate time every day to finish the homework he brought. He also found time to watch TV every day, but fortunately, he still liked to have fun in the yard most of the time. He brought 4 books and finished one in a day. After finishing each, he wrote a reading note. After all this calculation, I still have self-discipline. Although I don't have the energy to pick up the child yet, I feel a lot more at ease.
A self-disciplined child knows how to properly arrange his study and life no matter what the situation or environment is, so that his parents will not worry.
A partner who knows how to take care of others, a pair of healthy elderly people, and a child who can reasonably manage himself. Although, in the vast world, they are all inconspicuous dust, but their appearance in my life is the luck and happiness of my life.
Especially now, I am extremely grateful: The world is very big, and fortunately you are there.
I am Noma. I focus on research on parent-child growth, talk about parenting, and write parenting tips. Follow me and grow and improve together
