2007, Yang Ruoxi cried and said to the reporter: "He doesn't want me anymore, I can't contact him, please help me find him."
The one Yang Ruoxi said was nothing else, but the actress Liu Wei, who was 23 years older than her.
Back then, Yang Ruoxi, who was only 19 years old, met Liu Wei, 41 years old while filming, and the two fell in love with each other secretly.
The young and beautiful Yang Ruoxi, despite the worldly eyes and the opposition of her parents, chased the old man Liu Wei and got together with him.
This love between old and young was once sensational and controversial.
No one expected that after 9 years together, Liu Wei would suddenly disappear, forcing Yang Ruoxi to show up in front of the media, begging him to appear.
So, what exactly happened between Yang Ruoxi and Liu Wei, why did Liu Wei leave Yang Ruoxi and disappear? Why does the young Yang Ruoxi "love old men"?
01
The reason why Yang Ruoxi has a special liking for old men is related to her growth experience.
On December 26, 1979, Yang Ruoxi was born in Chongqing. Her parents have a stable and decent job and have a wealthy family.
Because she is beautiful and cute, she is the only daughter in the family. Yang Ruoxi has been pampering since childhood, so she has whatever she wants.
The only drawback is that Yang Ruoxi is weak and sick, and her parents are worried about her a lot.
Because of her weak constitution, Yang Ruoxi's mother sent her to the Youth Palace to practice dancing. First, she wanted to strengthen her physique and second, she could cultivate her daughter's talent.
Perhaps she is naturally suitable for dancing. After learning dance, Yang Ruoxi's physical fitness was much better than before. Moreover, her dancing talent was extraordinary. She could learn many dance moves and soon she became the top student in the dance class.
In 1988, the Beijing Air Force Song and Dance Troupe came to Chongqing to select dancer Miaozi. The children in the Children's Palace dance class were all excited and eager to try.
Results Among the hundreds of children, 9-year-old Yang Ruoxi stood out and was successfully selected.
Parents were mixed with joy and sorrow when they saw their daughter being selected, and they were both happy and entangled.
What is happy is that if you can join the singing and dancing troupe, your future is limitless. What is entangled is that you should not join the troupe immediately, but you should go to the Shanghai Dance Academy for 5 years to train, and you will be arranged to work in the singing and dancing troupe after graduation.
Yang’s father and mother all work in Chongqing. It is naturally unrealistic to ask them to accompany their daughter to Shanghai Dance Academy for training for 5 years.
But if the daughter is asked to go to Shanghai for training alone, the couple is worried.
There are not so many things in the world that are the best of both worlds. After thinking about it again and again, the Yang family’s parents finally decided to cultivate their daughter’s independence and let her go to Shanghai Dance Academy for training and study.
Yang Ruoxi, who was only 9 years old, left her hometown, left her parents, and went to Shanghai to live and study alone.
When Yang Ruoxi first arrived in Shanghai, she was very uncomfortable. She couldn't sleep in the dormitory and missed her parents very much. The teacher was particularly strict with her. If she had any movements that were not standard, she would just use a stick to suck her. Every day, she would be green and purple, and she would practice dancing for ten hours.
In fact, Yang Ruoxi can tolerate the pain in her body and the hardships of practicing dancing, but what she can't stand was the rejection of her classmates and the sarcasm of some female teachers to her.
Yang Ruoxi has always had good dance skills. She performed well in dance schools and was jealous of many female classmates. Those female classmates united to exclude and bully her.
As time goes by, Yang Ruoxi becomes more and more graceful, with many suitors around her. Many male classmates are jealous of her and even fight.
The female teacher saw this situation and called Yang Ruoxi a "beauty" and a "vix spirit" without saying a word, which made Yang Ruoxi feel very wronged.
Stay away from parents, bullied and excluded by others, Yang Ruoxi lacks love and is sensitive. At this moment, she wishes that she has a generous shoulder to support her and that someone can warm her.
. At this time, there was an older male teacher in the school who cared about Yang Ruoxi very much. He often comforted her and told her not to care about what others said and just live her own life well.
In this male teacher, Yang Ruoxi felt the long-lost fatherly love and warmth.
Perhaps because of this, she has a good impression of older men, thinking that they will love, care about people, and understand people.
02
1993, 14-year-old Yang Ruoxi ended her study in Shanghai and successfully joined the Beijing Kongzheng Song and Dance Troupe.
In the Beijing Kong Zheng Song and Dance Troupe, Yang Ruoxi's life is much better than before, and she and her colleagues get along quite harmoniously.
In addition to dancing, Yang Ruoxi also has a dream, which is to become an actor. When she was a child, she envied those actors, who could play different roles and experience all kinds of life.
While accumulating stage experience, she is looking for acting opportunities, wanting to try whether she is an actor.
The emperor pays off. After three years of training, Yang Ruoxi finally got an opportunity to act.
1996, director He Qun was preparing to film the movie "Boy and Girl". After watching Yang Ruoxi's dance performance, He Qun felt that she was very suitable for the role of "Zhang Meina" in her movie.
So, He Qun threw an olive branch to Yang Ruoxi and invited her to star in her movie.
Yang Ruoxi had the dream of being an actor, and it was hard to get the appreciation of He Qun, so she agreed immediately.
That's it, Yang Ruoxi starred in her first work in her life and made her debut.
In the next two years, Yang Ruoxi had no new acting opportunities. It was not until 1998 that she was appreciated by Zhang Guoli and , starring in Zhu'er in the first part of "Kangxi's Micro Costume", and began to make her debut.
This year, Yang Ruoxi met Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie by chance. Yang Ruoxi, who is sweet and cute, has no scheming and hardworking, is deeply loved by Zhang Guoli and his wife.
Knowing that it is not easy for Yang Ruoxi to work hard in the entertainment industry alone, Zhang Guoli and his wife took good care of the little girl, gave her the role of "Zhuer", and treated her as a real sister.
Yang Ruoxi is also very grateful to Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie for their kindness. Even if the role is small, she will perform with her heart and work hard.
She calls Zhang Guoli "brother-in-law" and Deng Jie "sister". On the show, it is not difficult to see that the three of them are intimate and Yang Ruoxi respects the two.
With the help and cultivation of my sister and brother-in-law, Yang Ruoxi later starred in the third part of " God of Wealth to " and " Kangxi's Private Visit to ", and gradually became famous.
03
If Yang Ruoxi could film well, she would definitely be able to break out of her own world with the help of Zhang Guoli and his wife. Unfortunately, her career was just starting out, and she almost destroyed her future because of the love brain .
When filming the first part of "Kangxi's Private Visit", Yang Ruoxi met Liu Wei. She was in love and suffered a lot of criticism for Liu Wei.
Liu Wei is 23 years older than Yang Ruoxi. He has been working in the entertainment industry for many years. He has starred in famous film and television works such as "The Legend of the Condor Heroes", "The Emperor of Tang", and "The Flying Tigers", and was once very popular.
He and Zhang Guoli and his wife are quite intimate and were invited to play a guest role in a character in "Kangxi's Private Visit".
The two people who were originally unable to fight were met unexpectedly in "Kangxi's Private Visit".
What is even more surprising is that no one expected that the two men, who were 23 years apart, would actually see the right look and get angry. The reason why I got into love is not because of something else, but because Liu Wei is too good at caring about people.
It is understood that Yang Ruoxi accidentally sprained her foot while filming this scene, and she was unable to move, so she turned her way.
After seeing this, Liu Wei not only asked her about her well-being, but also brought ointment to apply medicine to her personally.
Once it rained, Liu Wei directly carried Yang Ruoxi, sent her back to the hotel, and bought her a lot of delicious food.
Yang Ruoxi had a good impression of older men because of her previous experience. Now Liu Wei cares about her meticulously, which makes her feel even warm.
I can’t tell whether it is enjoying this feeling of being taken care of or because of the touch, Yang Ruoxi’s psychology developed a different feeling for Liu Wei.
As she gets along more and more, she feels that Liu Wei is a good man who cares about others and knows how to take care of her own feelings. More importantly, he has a good temper and knows a lot of things. He often tells herself some interesting experiences, and is very warm and fresh every day with him.
Over time, Yang Ruoxi found that she could no longer live without Liu Wei. It is said that men chased women across the mountains, women chased men over the mountains, and she plucked up the courage to chase Liu Wei and expressed her love.
In the face of Yang Ruoxi's true confession, Liu Wei refused at the beginning. In addition to worrying about the age gap, he was also afraid of rumors and saying that he was harming the little girl, which would be really "unprepared for his later years".
But things like feelings cannot be controlled by controlling them. He does have a good impression of Yang Ruoxi.
However, the relationship still defeated Li Zhi and all the concerns. Liu Wei accepted Yang Ruoxi's confession and confirmed her relationship with her.
The two did not hide this relationship at all, and showed their affection for the show with generous expressions, and were both tired of attending various events.
At that time, Yang Ruoxi was only 19 years old, while Liu Wei was 42 years old. Due to the large age difference, their relationship caused a sensation and was criticized for being a "love of old and young".
04
After Yang Ruoxi and Liu Wei were together, their career was hit because 20 years ago, the combination of "old and young" was extremely rare, especially in the entertainment industry where there were many people and talkatives, they would inevitably be poked.
The company felt that Yang Ruoxi's relationship had a bad impact and suppressed her. Zhang Guoli and his wife also felt that she should not ignore her future for love and was deeply disappointed with her.
Even Yang Ruoxi's parents cannot understand their daughter's choice and do not know why she is with an "old man".
However, even though the whole world does not support Yang Ruoxi and Liu Wei being together, she still insists on her choices, sticks to her love, and starts a life of living with Liu Wei.
Under Yang Ruoxi's insistence, his parents were helpless, but just told her that she hoped that she could think more about herself, first do her career well, and then think about other aspects (marriage), and not to lose her wife and soldiers at that time.
Fortunately, although Yang Ruoxi is a love-minded person, she is not a marriage crazy. She had planned to get married and have children after she was 30 years old, so she and Liu Wei have lived with each other for many years and have not gotten married.
In the next few years, Yang Ruoxi was in love and worked hard to do her career. Gradually, people had accepted this relationship between her and Liu Wei, and her career began to rejuvenate.
like "The Legend of Jigong", "The Drunken Hero", "Qin Shihuang", "The Story of the Su Nu", " Lucky Stars, Zhu Bajie ", " Commoner Emperor ", " Vinegar Clan ", " Our Father ", " Our Devil Liu Luoguo ", etc., Yang Ruoxi's wonderful performance. Although
cannot be said to be very popular, it is also well-known.
2005 is the seventh year that Liu Wei and Yang Ruoxi have dated. There is a word called " Seven Years Itch ", but not only does the two have itchy, but their relationship is becoming more and more stable.
At this time, Yang Ruoxi was 26 years old, and Liu Wei was 49 years old. Liu Wei felt that he was old and his thoughts of getting married and having children became stronger and stronger. He planned to propose to Yang Ruoxi.
In fact, before, Liu Wei mentioned marriage to Yang Ruoxi more than once, but every time he refused by Yang Ruoxi on the pretext that he was still young and his career was promoted.
Liu Wei thought the time was ripe and proposed to get married again, but Yang Ruoxi still refused as before.
Although Liu Wei felt uncomfortable, he respected his girlfriend's choice and decided to wait for another two years.
Two more years passed, that is, in 2007, the two had just finished filming " Past of Peking ", and Liu Wei mentioned the marriage.
As a result, Yang Ruoxi was still not anxious or impatient, and asked Liu Wei to wait any longer.
Liu Wei, who had been waiting for 9 years, didn't want to wait any longer. In anger, he left Yang Ruoxi and started playing and disappeared.
05
People seem to always lose and know how to cherish it. It was not until Liu Wei "disappeared" that Yang Ruoxi felt scared and regretful. She called Liu Wei and showed that the phone was turned off. She went to all the familiar places between the two, but she did not see her boyfriend.
I searched for Liu Wei for a long time, but I couldn't find him.
During that time, Liu Wei was like evaporated in the world, "no such person was found".
In desperation, Yang Ruoxi could only borrow the power of the media and cried so hard that she was filled with rain. She begged everyone to help her find her boyfriend Liu Wei in front of the reporter.
However, you can never wake up a person who pretends to be asleep, and you will never find someone who wants to hide from you. Everything is useless.
On October 24, 2007, the TV series "Peking Past" held a press conference. Except for Liu Wei, all the other starring actors were present. At the
press conference, Yang Ruoxi, who had been looking for her boyfriend for many days, officially admitted to the media that her "old-aged and young love" with actor Liu Wei has ended.
At this point, the "old and young love" between the two of them has come to an end for 9 years and aged 23.
The blow to Yang Ruoxi this time was huge. She felt that the two of them broke up because they had misunderstandings.
If Liu Wei is willing to come back now, she can give up everything and marry him immediately. She even has a trace of fantasy in her heart. Perhaps her boyfriend did not want to implicate himself when he encountered some difficulties.
What Yang Ruoxi did not expect was that Liu Wei did come back a year later, but when he came back, he was already married and had children.
In 2008, Liu Wei, who had disappeared for more than a year, reappeared in the public eye. It turned out that in the year when he disappeared, he went to the United States to relax, but ended up meeting a new love, marrying and having children with a makeup artist.
, Yang Ruoxi was sad and regretful when she knew this news. If she had not rejected Liu Wei's proposal at the beginning, she would be the one who was by his side now, and she would have given birth to children for him.
It’s a pity that I can’t go back to everything. There is no medicine for regret in the world. Some things are missed.
06
The love lost Yang Ruoxi, in order to get out of her previous love injury, worked hard to do her acting career and wanted to numb herself through work.
In 2009, Yang Ruoxi cooperated with Lian Yiming and Nie Yuan to co-star in the TV series "The History of ".
During the halftime break, Yang Ruoxi easily thought about random thoughts when she calmed down and couldn't hide her sadness. When she thought of Liu Wei, she couldn't help crying.
The male actor Lian Yiming in the same crew noticed that something was wrong with her. He would talk to her whenever he had time and try to make her happy.
With Lian Yiming's company and care, Yang Ruoxi slowly walked out of her sadness, and her attitude towards seeing things became much cheerful.
As the shooting deepened, Yang Ruoxi and Lian Yiming became more and more familiar with each other, and the two became good friends who could talk about everything.
Later, we developed a mutual affection, no longer limited to "friendship".
Yang Ruoxi was once again confused by love and confessed to Lian Yiming.
Lian Yiming is 8 years older than Yang Ruoxi, and he is not single, but a married man who has already married and has children.
But Yang Ruoxi, who is in love, doesn’t care whether he has a wife and children. She only knows that if you love, you love and you have to say it.
Looking at Yang Ruoxi, who is young, beautiful and understanding, Lian Yiming threw his wife out of the sky and secretly traveled to Chen Cang with Yang Ruoxi, and they were in love with each other.
There is no airtight wall in the world, and the matter between Yang Ruoxi and Lian Yiming was found out by Lian Yiming's original wife.
Seeing that the matter was exposed, Lian Yiming simply showed up and would rather leave the house without a single person than divorce his wife Chen Shi.
2009, Lian Yiming and July 2004, Lian Yiming divorced his original wife Chen Shi, and Yang Ruoxi was together.
On November 12, 2011, Lian Yiming and Yang Ruoxi got married in Chongqing in a low-key manner. On March 13, 2014, Yang Ruoxi gave birth to a son for Lian Yiming.
Lian Yiming and Yang Ruoxi's combination violates morality, so it has been criticized to this day. The resources of the two have been greatly inferior to those of the past after marriage, and their reputation and popularity have declined seriously.
I don’t know if it’s because of too many worries or something wrong with her body, Lian Yiming is in poor condition now. He is only in his fifties, his hair is gray and his face is haggard.
Today, Yang Ruoxi has gained love, but has lost her career and reputation. I wonder if she will regret her choice when she dreams of midnight.
