Most people have their own interests and hobbies, and a person without hobbies lives empty. Of course, interests and hobbies are divided into high-level and low-level, or some interests and hobbies can cultivate sentiment, while some interests and hobbies make people even more decadent and degenerate.
Some people have a wide range of interests and hobbies, like outdoors, fishing, photography, singing and dancing, etc. Of course, some people like to play cards, drink, play games, etc. Some people regard interests, hobbies and fun as side jobs, some people regard interests, some people’s main jobs, some people like but are not addicted, and some people are addicted to it and cannot extricate themselves.
Interests and hobbies are to enrich your life in your spare time, but they cannot affect your normal life. Once it affects normal life and marriage relationships, you should adjust it. After all, interest is just an embellishment in life, not a subject of life. Smart people know to arrange normal life and interests reasonably without conflicting with each other, but there is also a special situation, such as the man below.
1 Coordinate: Heze, Shandong Province, a man went to court because of his addiction to fishing. On the day of the trial, the man was delayed in the trial because of fishing. After seeing this, netizens were also puzzled by the man’s behavior. Some netizens asked: What is the fun of fishing? Can you forget about divorce?
It is understood that the man and his wife have been married for more than ten years and have given birth to two children. The family of four could live a happy and happy life, but the man has an interest, which is fishing. Fishing is a hobby that many men prefer. Fishing in their spare time can pass the time and cultivate sentiment.
But this man is more professional and addicted to fishing. Not only does he spend a lot of money on fishing gear, he also fishes outside every day, regardless of daytime. Housework and children become the wife's business. The wife has to take care of the children every day and do endless housework. She is really tiring.
The wife asked the man to go fishing less and spend more time at home to spend with his children and do housework. But the man didn't take it seriously at all. He still did his own thing and could not see anyone every day. The wife's communication was invalid for many times, so she filed a lawsuit for divorce in court. However, the man was indifferent to the divorce and agreed immediately.
On the day of the trial, the wife couldn't wait for the man to come and divorce in court for a long time. The judge called and asked, and only then did he know that the man had gone to the reservoir to fish early in the morning and then forgot about the divorce. When the court notified the man to divorce, the man quickly packed up the fishing gear and rushed to the court.
The man signed the divorce without hesitation, and said that he had had enough of these ten years and never wanted to listen to his wife's nagging again. Now that he is divorced, no one cares about him fishing anymore. Seeing the man walking out of the court as if nothing had happened, his wife was speechless. The couple has been married for more than ten years, but they still have no nostalgia when they divorce.
Netizens were also confused after seeing it. They had seen people who like fishing, but they had never seen people who would rather not marry for fishing. Some netizens said: As the saying goes, there is a certain truth to marry a fisherman, and a wife who doesn’t marry a card gamer. This man is too addicted to fishing, and such a man can't stand it.
Some netizens said: Maybe this wife is really nagging. She dislikes men every day and blames him, so he runs out to fish in annoyance. If a family cannot give her husband warmth, his wife does not understand him, and does not communicate well, the man will definitely not want to go home.
Some netizens said: It is normal to have some hobbies, but if you ignore family harmony for your own hobbies and ignore your wife's efforts, such a man is really selfish. Such a marriage is a widowed marriage and has no meaning of existence. The wife proposes a divorce as the right choice.
Zimo Chat Fun News: This couple has reached the point of divorce, which is not just a problem of fishing. Fishing is just a fuse. In fact, it is because of the lack of communication and understanding between the couple. When encountering problems, you do not sit down and coordinate well, but choose to escape and are unwilling to face the problems that arise in your marriage.
This man is not only a man who ran out to fish because of his wife's nagging, or his wife's dissatisfaction because of fishing all day long, the conflict between them and their husbands exists. It's just a reproach that likes endlessly, and the other who can't stand it and likes to run out. Such a marriage will definitely not be maintained.
There is no problem with having a hobby, but the harmony and stability of a family requires the joint efforts of both husband and wife, rather than being dumped by one of them and the other as the boss of the hand. This is something that no one can bear.
