Best friend is called "Zhaojin". Her real name is not this name, it was the name she changed for herself when she was in high school. zhào is a word created for your name when you were Wu Zetian When you were not emperor, you can tell that it means that the sun and the moon shine on the earth in the sky. What a domineering name! However, many people don’t know that the bigger the name, the better the domineering, the better. Many times, a person’s name needs to be low-key.
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Yang Min is also my best friend, and she and Zhao Jin are colleagues. The two of them started working in the same year, with the same education and the same level. However, a few years ago, the unit had a promotion number and four or five people met the requirements, so the unit had to make a decision by voting. Zhao Jin really wanted to get this opportunity, so she canvassed votes behind her back. Everyone may have encountered this incident of canvassing, and no one would say silly, "I won't vote for you." But Yang Min is so stupid. Yang Min said, "We are all so young. Give this quota to Sister Luo. She is about to retire and let her advance to the next level."
If you choose Sister Luo in the end, maybe Zhao Jin wouldn't be too angry. The ending is very bloody. Yang Min has the highest votes, and Zhao Jin is only 1 vote less than Yang Min. Zhao Jin was unhappy now. She thought: If Yang Min didn't help Sister Luo canvass vote, she would be stable; maybe Yang Min did not vote for Sister Luo, but herself.
Zhao Jin feels more and more uncomfortable the more he thinks. In the end, all her resentment is spread to Yang Min. Zhao Jin broke up with Yang Min. Yang Min didn't know that Zhao Jin would think so at first, nor did she know that she was angry. After she advanced, she invited everyone to dinner and Zhao Jin. Zhao Jin didn't go to have a meal, so he sent Yang Min a WeChat message: "Put your hypocrisy! If you wear the mask for a long time, bedsores will develop on your face."
After receiving this WeChat message, Yang Min realized that Zhao Jin had a business dealing with her. She wants to reconcile, but how to reconcile? Yang Min advanced and his salary also reached the next level. This is not something that can be reconciled by language, unless the quota is given to Zhao Jin. However, this kind of quota cannot be given by giving up. This is a collective voting and is a foregone conclusion.
Since then, Zhao Jin and Yang Min have become strangers.
One day, Zhao Jin asked me: " Hezi , have you heard of the story of "The Fate of Two Apples Praised and Cursed"?"
The story is very classic, of course I know. It is said that someone put two fresh apples and picked at the same time together, praised one of the apples every day, and cursed the other hard. After doing this for a month, he found that the praised one was still fresh and the cursed apple had rotted. I don’t know the truth or falsehood of the story, but I know the concept of the story very well: only with a good attitude can one have health.
Zhao Jin said: "I hate Yang Min more and more now. I want to use this method to make her suffer retribution!"
I thought Zhao Jin was joking. Unexpectedly, what she said was true. But she did not take the "curse" method to frame Liu Min. She took another more cruel method:
That day, Zhao Jin pretended to let go of his past grudges and went to chat with Liu Min. During the chat, Zhao Jin said, "Amin, you are now a deputy department. You must seize the opportunity and get a real position. If you have a real position, our sisters' faces will be shining."
Liu Min said politely: "Thank you for your support from sisters, I will work hard."
Since then, Zhao Jin has gone to provide information to Liu Min every few days, hoping to force the real leader away in partnership. Every time, Liu Min would sincerely accept her information and enthusiastically cooperate with Zhao Jin to plan together, looking forward to and looking forward to it together.
One day, Zhao Jin called me to take a walk together. I know that she would not go to the Three Treasures Hall for nothing, and would not call me for a walk if she had nothing. Sure enough, while walking, she told me: "Liu Min went to Changsha to get diagnosed." I was shocked, what's wrong with Liu Min? Zhao Jin said that there was a problem with Liu Min's gynecological examination, and that PVC was positive, and that the cancer was very likely. ”
I felt very heartbroken when I heard this, so I quickly called Liu Min, but I didn’t dare to ask directly. I just asked how she was doing recently.Liu Min was very calm. She said, "PVC is positive, I came to Changsha for surgery."
has been operated, isn't that cancer? I dare not continue asking.
From that day on, Zhao asked me for a walk today. She looked very good. During that time, the topic of her chat was basically locked on Liu Min.
Zhao Jin said: "I see, Liu Min's disease is achieved through comparison. She only wants to climb up. She has been promoted to the deputy section level, but she is not satisfied and wants to take a real job. What do she think about every day?"
I agree with Zhao Jin's concept of what he said. Because a person who likes to compete will feel depressed and become sick. I sympathize with Liu Min. I want to visit him, but Liu Min doesn't want me to go. She said, "Don't worry, I won't die. I'll be fine after chemotherapy."
or above was the year before yesterday. It’s strange that Liu Min has never taken sick leave since the operation. She went to Changsha for surgery and used the annual leave time to go to the annual leave. Why did she bear it so much? Zhao Jin said: "She is showing off her positive performance. She wants money but not life. She has cancer, why are she still fighting so hard? If she fights hard, she can't climb a few steps."
I also agree with Zhao Jin's words. However, I still feel strange and always feel something is wrong. Later, I went to visit Liu Min and asked about her condition, but I got a shocking secret.
Since then, I no longer have a walk with Zhao Jin, and later, I have less contact.
Last weekend, Zhao Jin called me and cried and asked me to go to her house, saying that he had written a suicide note to me. I was shocked and rushed over. She was filming a video at home. She photographed all the corners of the house and all her honor certificates, and cried while filming.
Zhao Jin told me that she was diagnosed with advanced breast cancer.
I don’t know what’s going on. When I heard that when she was late cancer , I didn’t have a trace of sympathy in my heart. On the contrary, I felt a trace of pleasure after karma.
I don’t know where the courage comes from, so I told her the truth in my heart:
"Do you know, why do you get cancer? Because you like to compare! Your cancer is caused by comparison."
She refused to admit it and said, "I have no comparison. Liu Min’s cancer is caused by comparison."
At this time, I really wanted to tell the shocking secret, but I still held it back. If I said that, it would only aggravate Zhao Jin's condition. I cannot be so cruel.
The shocking secret is: Liu Min's PVC positive is benign. She took annual leave surgery and had knee meniscus.
That day, after Liu Min told this secret, he told me not to tell Zhao Jin.
Liu Min said: "Zhao Jin likes to compete. From childhood to adulthood, she has been comparing with me. In the past, she could not beat me; later, she compared her position, but she was not. When she reached middle age, what else can she compare? Comparing her health! I told her that I had cancer, and I just wanted her to feel more comfortable."
Yang Min also said that she did not win any votes in advance that year, and she did vote for Sister Luo herself, and she didn't know why others voted for her more.
From the condition of Zhao Jin and Liu Min, I had a deep understanding in my heart:
comparison will really cause various diseases, even cancer! I hope everyone will take fame, wealth and power indifferently, let go, do their own every day, do their own every thing well, and end up with God’s fair arrangements!
Dear readers, are there anyone around you who compete? How are their bodies? If they still look so good now, then wait three years before seeing him.
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