Even if the two get married, they will have quarrels due to various conflicts after marriage. In serious cases, the marriage may not be solid. After hearing this old saying, are you also curious about what is " Two-end Spring "? I have only heard of the year of widows. Is it true that the year of "two springs" is also the year of widows?
I opened my home calendar and looked at it. 2023 is Year of the Rabbit , and it is a water rabbit. The leap month of February. The year, according to the saying "one dragon controls the water", plus there are two springs, the harvest should be good, but why do you say "widows are everywhere"?
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2023 is Double Spring Year , this spring refers to Beginning of Spring , two Beginning of Spring, the first Beginning of Spring is on the 14th day of the first lunar month of , and the other Beginning of Spring is on the 25th day of the twelfth day of the twelfth month.
People believe that the beginning of spring twice a year means "second spring". From the perspective of time, we can also see that next year will happen to be spring at two ends, and the beginning of spring will appear twice a year. Such a year is also called " Lonely Luan Year ".
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年0年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年年� Moreover, there is a common saying among the people that has been passed down to this day: "The husband and wife themselves are in the same forest, and they fly by themselves when the disaster strikes." So when I met the Year of the Lonely Luan, the custom of remote marriage was circulated among the people, and this custom has been passed down to this day and is still maintained in many rural areas.
So from this we are not difficult to see that the reason why this family is unwilling to marry her daughter in 2023 is actually because they want to choose a better day, and hope that they will have a happy and prosperous life after marriage.
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There is another reason why it is not suitable to marry in the "double spring year".
Double Spring Year, that is, there are two beginnings of spring. A folk saying goes: "Nine of ten cow pens are empty" means that in a bad year, most cows will die from illness, which will cause empty cow pens. In the past, this was a very fatal situation because it was entirely dependent on ox farming.
In the old farming era, grain was the biggest source of income. If the grain harvest was not good, family life would become relatively difficult, and the daily conflicts between husband and wife quarreled and quarreled will also increase, so the probability of a broken marriage will also increase.
From this perspective, it can also be said to be "widows everywhere".
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2023 is the Year of the Water Rabbit. Whether it is marriage or the year, it actually depends on the individual. It is just a natural phenomenon, or a superstitious statement, especially when it comes to saying next year as the Year of the Lonely Luan cannot get married. I think this is completely absurd way.
Whether a marriage is happy or not depends on the relationship between the two people and their attitude towards the marriage. He is more about the mutual trust and careful management of both parties. Whether the year is good or not depends on people's hard work and scientific management. So whether it is a proverb or a common saying, we should treat it rationally when we understand it.
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