Everyone will seek good luck and know how to avoid misfortune, but they cannot control life and death. As the saying goes, "A person dies the most important thing", and there seems to be no more important things in the world than funeral.
Especially when an elderly person in a family dies, as a junior, even if there are huge things, he must give up and return to his hometown to attend the funeral and send the elderly to the last journey.
Even if you are as strong as the emperors and ministers of all dynasties, you attach great importance to your own affairs after you. All kinds of Feng Shui remarks and customs are widely abide by, which is enough to show that since ancient times, the Chinese people have attached great importance to funerals.
After the death of the elderly, their children spend money to hire dancers to perform
0 The customs about funerals are basically different in different regions. Some places believe that the elderly should pay attention to the days after their death and hold a big banquet to let the elderly leave in a glorious manner. Some places advocate cleanliness and neatness, believing that being filial to life is far more true than crying after death.
But no matter which custom it is, it has its own meaning. Just like in Zhangzhou, Fujian, most of the children will spend money to hire a performance team after the death of the elderly. Various dances and songs are never stopped, making the whole funeral lively.
It is not difficult to see from the video footage recorded by the photographer that after the old man passed away, his children and descendants built an open-air spirit shed outside, and they had already sat around the filial son and grandchildren outside the spirit shed, which proves that the old man's family must be quite large, and there are many descendants.
But what many people can't understand is that in front of the monastery, a group of dancers danced gracefully under the dynamic music. Such passionate dance seemed out of place with the solemn funeral.
Dance girls wear cool clothes and can’t hide their bodies
In reality, many areas across the country have this custom of asking a performance team to perform at funerals, but most of them try to dance. First, to relieve the boredom of neighbors who come to help, and second, to let the elderly leave lively.
But the most unacceptable fundamental thing this time is that these dancers are not just dancing, but have a hint of "swallow dance".
camouflage strapless suit, ultra-short boxers, red top hat, black high heels! The outfit of made this group of dancers who didn't look young and became particularly eye-catching. Even many filial sons sitting around the monastery were deeply attracted by this cool outfit and couldn't help but turn their heads and watch them constantly.
After all, no matter how you look at it, such dynamic music and cool and sexy dress are incompatible with the atmosphere of the funeral. If you see such a scene by outsiders, you may not be associated with the funeral even if you want to lose your head.
Some people say that an elderly man died at home and it is understandable to hold a funeral in a grand manner, but such a happy atmosphere is a bit inappropriate.
Some people also think that the customs of every place should be respected. Children may do this to express their filial piety to everyone, and there is no other intention.
Everyone's parents have the day when they grow old and the moment they leave themselves. Although many people are afraid of this day, it is unquestionable that no one can escape this.
When you are alive, you will receive one more bowl of water and one more bowl of rice, which is better than falling tears after you die and crying loudly!
In fact, this kind of thing is not uncommon. Many children cannot see how filial they are when their parents are alive, but are willing to spend a lot of money at the funeral. The crying look makes others think how filial they are. But this behavior that allows outsiders to see is cruel and ruthless for parents.
people, you must be worthy of your conscience at any time. If you have a clear conscience, how can you worry about the guidance of others?
Maybe this custom is not wrong, but it is absolutely impossible to say it is appropriate!
