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01. What I look like now
I am a mother and have a lovely three-year-old son. I haven't been to work since I was pregnant. When I was pregnant, I had been lying in bed for more than seven months due to physical reasons.
Three years after giving birth to the baby, his physical strength has not recovered. Until now, my hair is still falling a lot, and my hair volume is only one-third of that before.
I always have endless things to do, one after another. I am busy every day, eating and sleeping like a rush. Looking at myself in the mirror, I would never believe that I was once considered a "civilized" person.
Med foods are often cold and hot, and then they can be eaten. Sometimes I’m obviously sleepy, but I always have no time to sleep. I finally got the baby asleep. It was nothing, but I didn't want to sleep. I hope and wait and wait and wait and finally it is almost March 2022, and I can send the little beast to the kindergarten.
unknowingly, 2022 has arrived. Actually, if you think about it, time is quite fast. 2021 is so fast that it is not too late to calculate carefully, so it is rushing away.
I am born to be disliked by socializing and not good at socializing. I usually only have three or two friends, and the others are just plain contacts. I think that with books as a companion and songs as a companion, this life will be enough!
02. Future plans
In order to avoid wasting yourself in 2022, in order to be self-disciplined and better control my life, I will raise my sails again and start a new journey.
I don’t like the constraints of the workplace, and I don’t like the troubles of the world. So I considered starting to focus on freelancing, focusing on self-media operations and online writing.
I hope to live an ideal life with a laptop in the future!
In order to make money "freely", after careful consideration, I decided to choose this path and give it a try. Things are impermanent, I just want to spend the rest of my life in the way I like.
When I was a student, Chinese was my strength, and my grades could always be the leader in the class. But composition is my weakness! I am not very good at writing but I like to make up stories and write poems.
When I was young, I was covered with pink notebooks with celebrity stickers on every page, and wrote a lot of words that I thought were poems. I often make up all kinds of strange and strange stories in my mind, and then I constantly ponder and improve the plot. When I finally want to write them down, I have various excuses to keep writing them.
This shortcoming I dreamed of finally waiting for today.
It is not difficult for me to support myself. But raising and educating children well and allowing my family to live a better life requires me to work hard.
I know that the path of self-media operation and online writing is actually very difficult to follow. Many people continue to do so, and very few succeed, and most fail.
Anyway, I decided to give it a try!
"The more self-disciplined, the more free you are." Only self-disciplined people can gain true freedom.
If you want to live an ideal life, you must start by doing every little thing:
1. Prepare to buy an laptop
don’t care about the price, you must like it yourself. This is also a great material reward for your hard parenting in recent years.
computers can easily search for information on the Internet. They are the main tool I use to learn, and they can also bring me happiness.
2. Create a corner of your own
Combined with your own reality, choose a quiet and comfortable corner, and focus on doing what you like every day, such as reading books, typing words, and listening to songs.
I believe that if you have the determination to persevere and continue to do it seriously, you may not succeed, but you will definitely make progress.
3, reading
books are nutritional products from the world. In addition to broadening your horizons and increasing your knowledge, reading can also make people cultivate and be more elegant and wise.
"The more books I read, the closer I get to the world, the more I understand the meaning of life, and the more I feel that life is important." People must read at any time!
4. Learning
. Learning this matter does not care whether anyone teaches you. The most important thing is whether you have enlightenment and perseverance.
There are many things I want to learn, such as knowledge in various aspects of self-media operation, methods and techniques of online writing, operations and applications of common software, etc.
03. True self-discipline
The operation of self-media needs to understand and master a lot of knowledge. I, who have been out of touch with society for three or four years, really need to muster up a lot of courage to take this matter seriously. Online writing is a hard job. Read other people's words and write your own stories. As a pure novices, I hope that I can think about every day but never lose all my talents.
In this world, there is a road that cannot be rejected, that is the road of growth; there is a road that cannot be chosen, that is the road of giving up.
Although I am a stupid bird, I have to fly diligently!
wish I can achieve true self-discipline and cultivate into my ideal self, and enjoy the ideal life in my dream happily.
Author introduction:
Moyu's original intention, a full-time mother who strives to improve herself, focusing on [personal improvement] [self-media writing] [female growth] [parenting experience] hard stuff. Let me accompany you to become excellent slowly!
