My old mother-in-law fell into a coma on the first day of the eighth month of the lunar calendar the previous year due to 75% of the area of cerebral infarction. After more than two years of illness, she passed away at 4:10 am yesterday at the age of 85.
The old mother-in-law is from Zhongshan, Guangdong Province. She was born on the first day of the ninth lunar month in 1937. He lost his mother at the age of 4 and went to the United States with his father at the age of 7. Later, he moved to Shanghai to settle down.
The old man went to work in the Shanghai Handkerchief Factory at the age of 16. He met his father-in-law who was transferred to the factory as the secretary of the Party branch. He combined with it despite his family's opposition. Later, he followed up with Zaozhuang to support the construction of the Yishan Steel Plant and finally retired from the city's commercial system.
Although there are always conflicts and entanglements in the family, and although I have complained about the old man's words, monopolizing power, and making my father-in-law feel comfortable for the rest of his life, the old man's death yesterday still made me very sad.
Because my son is all 40 years old, that is to say, the old mother-in-law is a relative who has been with us for more than 40 years! People are not plants and trees, who can be ruthless? What's more, the old man loves her children and grandchildren very much. Although he loves her a bit overbearing, we cannot judge others by ourselves. We should think more about how good she treats us!
The old mother-in-law left with love and regret for her children. It can be said that none of her children follow her ideal path of life. Especially the secrets that cannot be told to others in the family of some children make her angry and helpless. This ambivalence sometimes makes her suffer. When she tells me in tears, I can only sigh and persuade her to hide her heart forever and look forward. ...
The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, the son wants to support but the parents are not waiting. I hope the old mother-in-law will reunite with her father in heaven as soon as possible, and reunite with her father and her biological mother who died young! Also reunited with her beloved grandson and my second son! There is no pain in heaven, no contradictions and struggles in the world, only love lasts forever!
