Chinese culture is profound and profound, with a long history and a wide range of things. One of them is the saying. The saying is both easy to understand and concise. The saying is passed down from generation to generation and has been passed down to this day. The saying has its vitality. In the process of passing on the word of mind, the saying is constantly innovating and evolving. Therefore, many sayings are the crystallization of collective wisdom. Of course, the saying is very down-to-earth, based on life and acting on life. Therefore, it involves an extremely wide range of thoughts, including many thoughts about dealing with people, such as the sentence I want to talk about today - " Good men don't gamble, good women don't dance ". What does this saying mean? Is there any reason?
First, good men don’t gamble
“Good men don’t gamble” makes sense. The old saying also says “Going enemies for a long time” and “getting enemies in a casino”. The right and wrong place in the casino, gambling is a place of interests, full of interests and disputes, and men who like to gamble are not good people, why? Because of quitting gambling, there are two enemies.
One is one's own heart, because most people who like gambling have insufficient self-control, and are eager for quick success and instant benefits, and are more lazy and greedy. Such a heart that remains unchanged will hit walls everywhere in real life, and even lead to various sins. For example, people who like gambling may have a lack of heart and then become a stolen heart. Lust is the leader, and at the same time, all evil is the leader.
The second is the surrounding environment. The story of Meng's mother's three migrations is well-known. The impact of the environment on people cannot be underestimated. Those who are close to red and close to ink are black. Around those who like gambling, most of them gather a group of bad friends with similar tastes. To judge a person's character, you can start with the friends they are dating.
or above is the explanation of the first half of the saying "A good man doesn't gamble".
Second, good women don’t dance
Let’s take a look at the second half of the saying “good women don’t dance”. Similarly, the old saying also says “a lover comes out of a long time” and “a lover comes out of a dance field”. The “dance” mentioned in this saying does not only refer to dance, but its explanation is closer to “dance girls”, referring to women who appeared in dance halls in the old society, or performed dance for people to entertain, or danced as a profession. At that time, women rarely appeared in dance halls.
Women who often appear in dance halls will meet all kinds of men, and most women are emotional. Once they act emotionally, they will inevitably become ignorant, which verifies the old saying "a lover will be danced for a long time."
Summary:
The first half of the saying "good men don't gamble" is very reasonable. Stay away from gambling and avoid getting addicted to gambling. This is something that everyone needs to be vigilant. The saying happens to have the effect of warning and advice. As for the second half of the saying, it becomes unhelpful with the development of the times. Dance no longer appears in the dance hall alone, and the dancing woman is no longer a "dance girl". Dance has become an art. If a woman only takes dance as her career, it is understandable. In short, when dealing with common sayings, we must take the essence and remove the dross. What do you think of this common saying? Welcome to comment and exchange.
