Many people see and worry about the current serious population crisis in our country. Many experts have also "outlined" many suggestions, including: give birth to a child and reward one million;

Many people see the current serious population crisis in our country and are anxious. Many experts have also "outlined" many suggestions, including:

, rewarding one million for giving birth to a child; rewarding a house for giving birth to a third child; bonus points for having a third child; extending maternity leave;...

, forgive me for saying that these plans may slightly increase the fertility rate, but it is still useless to solve the fundamental problem of my country's population.

Because these proposals are not painful at all and do not touch the root of the problem.

The author believes that the biggest problem in our society today is that after the disintegration of traditional culture, various indulgences have become popular, including material desires and the relationship between men and women.

In our traditional culture, family is the most basic part of society. As the saying goes, "Men should get married when they are old, women should get married when they are old." "There is no absent man outside, but like a resentful woman inside." Let as many young people as possible form families and have children, so that the country and society can be peaceful.

To achieve this, both men and women must have the most basic trust.

But what we see is that more and more couples are turning against each other, more and more people are no longer willing to get married, and even if they get married, a large proportion of divorces will be divorced. paternity test has become the most profitable business nowadays.

(Parental tests have become one of the most profitable businesses nowadays)

Trust is the cornerstone of stability in a country and society. Once trust is missing, the cost of any relationship is established will become huge, and simple things will become extremely complicated!

Endless desires will increase people's living costs. The more developed the technology is, the greater the pressure on people.

is already so difficult to live. Who is still in the mood to devote precious time, energy, financial resources and material resources to something with extremely low certainty?

Even if a relationship is established and a marriage has become more likely to disintegrate due to lack of trust. Even if it does not disintegrate, the trust between two people will be very limited.

Even if some couples can stay together until old age, their speculations and taboos will still exist like shadows. Such a marriage is really tormenting, so what fun is there?

Even if two people with limited trust in each other become husband and wife, their mental strength, physical strength and energy will not be completely used in the same direction, and the internal friction of the family will be exhausted. How can we better work and study?

(So much happiness in life, and longing forever is the greatest happiness in life)

Some people on the Internet have reflected on why the achievements of Chinese in Silicon Valley are not high. In fact, the exact statement of this problem should be changed to the fact that there are not many successful Chinese from the mainland in contemporary times.

Many people quote from classics, what is China-US relations and racial discrimination, but in my opinion, the answer to this question is actually very simple. One of the fundamental reasons why contemporary Chinese cannot exert 100% strength is that they do not have a stable family.

Nowadays, many Indian family structures are similar to our former family structure. Men and women cooperate with each other sincerely, and most of them are very stable. They strictly retain our traditions.

Because of this, many Indians can realize their huge potential, and their influence in the United States is increasing day by day. Although we Chinese have achieved something, they cannot be fully released. The biggest reason behind this is actually because of family.

A stable family brings huge nourishment and energy to individuals. On the contrary, this consumption is also huge, especially the inner instability caused by distrust and instability.

If the family is not harmonious, the couple's disagreement and rebellion will also seriously affect the children.

The thing that the author doesn't like most is that one man and a woman messes up the family until it is disintegrated for their own selfish desires, then finds a new partner, and asks the child to call a completely stranger to "dad" and "mother" without blood or feelings.

If the child is unwilling, he will be criticized as ignorant and impolite.

Have these people considered their children’s feelings when doing this?

Maybe some couples have not divorced, but they are so in harmony with each other. Can’t the children see that they are so close?

Every time the junior high school entrance examination or the college entrance examination is over, countless people will line up to divorce. These people still feel so wronged, "I didn't divorce him (her) just for the sake of my child. Now that the child's exam is over, I should be relieved."

is really a big deal!

The best love for children is that husband and wife are harmonious, support each other, and family harmony. Only in such a loving family can children grow up healthily.

. Children who grow up in families with discordant parents will also be extremely disgusted with marriage and have an instinctive resistance to having children.

So, the fundamental problem in today's society is to do everything possible to return to tradition and return to the family-centered model, rather than allowing personal desires to expand endlessly.

While rewarding marriage and childbirth, we must also crack down on the brainwashing and alienation of people by capital so that everyone can return to normal.

(House and wife are united, and their strength will be cut off gold! As long as the husband and wife are harmonious, the fertility rate will be essentially improved!)

The man and the woman are wise, trust each other, and the husband and wife are united, and their strength will be cut off gold.

Only when the family is stable can the marriage rate and fertility rate be greatly improved. If you live in an uncertain environment, no matter how high the reward you propose, it will be useless.