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He could write thousands of Chinese characters at the age of two, finish junior high school at the age of 8, and take the college entrance examination at the age of 13, and successfully entered Xiangtan University with 602 points. He entered at the age of 17 and studied for master's and doctoral studies in the Chinese Academy of Sciences. However, such a prodigy was immediately dissuaded from his post and doctoral degree, and was scolded by his mother: Why don't you die?
Why did his life have such a reversal? How will he end in the end?
There is an unknown small county town in Hunan, Huarong County . If you come to this county town and ask the local residents if they know who the county party secretary is, most people probably don’t know. But if you ask them if they know Wei Yongkang , then everyone must know it.
But this is such a genius known to the whole county, when he was about to finish his master's and doctoral studies at the Chinese Academy of Sciences, he was persuaded to give up by the Chinese Academy of Sciences. The reason why I was dismissed from
was beyond everyone's expectations, and cannot take care of myself in .
has been a genius child who has been skipping several levels since childhood, but he can't take care of himself. Is this possible? No one believes it, but it is true.
Wei Yongkang was 17 years old when he was admitted to the Chinese Academy of Sciences. He was not only a genius with high IQ, but also a normal person with good health. This time when he went out to study, he refused his mother's proposal to accompany him to study. He thought he was an adult and could take care of himself.
But after arriving in Beijing, Wei Yongkang soon discovered that he left his mother and could not move forward even if he was a genius.
Because his mother has educated him since childhood, he doesn’t know how to communicate with others, and he has no friends in Beijing. I never attend reunions between classmates.
The most common thing to do is to read books alone in the dormitory. If you don’t know how to communicate with your tutor, you naturally can’t complete the paper.
If it is a study matter, it is okay to say that it is a life matter.
In terms of life, he can be said to be unable to take care of himself. The "knowing the cold and warm" that people often say does not work in Wei Yongkang, and he seems to have become an ignorant person.
, such as washing clothes, washing dishes after eating, washing water, and rinsing them with water, he almost did everything he did when he was extremely sloppy in the eyes of his classmates.
In 2003, 20-year-old Wei Yongkang was about to finish his master's degree course, but at this time the school notified him that he was persuaded to leave. The news of
was quickly spread to Wei Yongkang's mother. Where could her mother accept the bad news of . But the school’s notice has been issued, because of its “low-energy” life.
Seeing that he was unable to recover, the extremely disappointed mother cursed at Wei Yongkang, and even said even more vicious words: "Why don't you die!"
A mother asked her son to jump off the building, cursed him being hit by a car, and asked him to die. How much resentment is this, and how disappointed is this to say these words?
In fact, Wei Yongkang is indeed unable to take care of himself in life and cannot continue his studies. But why did he do this? He is a genius. Even if he is not done well in life, he can at least take care of himself.
What has this genius child, who has been praised since childhood, experienced to become what he is now? Is all this his responsibility?
Two-year-old Wei Yongkang lets the people around him see his genius side, and has been the "child of other people's families" in the mouths of other parents since he was a child. Did Wei Yongkang, who went to college at the age of 13, realize his talent?
In 1983, Wei Yongkang was born in Huarong County, Hunan Province. The conditions of the Wei family were very average and were far from being rich.
Wei Yongkang's father was a veteran of Resisting U.S. aggressing Korea , but because he was injured on the battlefield, he was paralyzed in bed after he was discharged from the army.
The burden of life of the family is on Wei Yongkang's mother Zeng Xuemei.
At that time, Zeng Xuemei was just an ordinary worker. After Wei Yongkang was born, like many workers at that time, he brought his children to the factory together, not only did he delay work, but could take care of the children. This phenomenon came into being when the factory kindergartens discovered this phenomenon.
When Wei Yongkang was one and a half years old, he still had a difficult road, but he was very quiet. He often nestled next to his mother's work station and played alone, occasionally picking up some small stones and gestured on the ground. In his spare time, a coworker came forward to tease him, promising that if he could write, he would reward him with a peanut.
is at the age of teething, baby teeth didn't grow much, but when he saw something to eat, the little Wei Yongkang became interested. He wrote the word "man" as if he was decent, and he really got a peanut.
Since then, writing has become his favorite game, because if you write one more word, all kinds of snacks will follow one after another. Today is a date, and maybe tomorrow it will turn into rock candy.
In a few days, a wall in the factory was filled with 7 or 80 words written by Xiao Wei Yongkang. The workers sighed and even called him genius. As a mother, Cao Xuemei saw a strange glory and she must raise her son well.
It’s like this. In the future, Wei Yongkang continued to use his talent to shock everyone’s chin and become the “other people’s child” in the mouth of other parents.
In 1996, 13-year-old Wei Yongkang was admitted to the Department of Physics, Xiangtan University with a college entrance examination score of 602.
is not only a continuous skip in school, but also participated in countless competitions during school and won the prizes. The performance of
made Wei Yongkang a "little star" in Huarong County.
Wei Yongkang was also "discovered" by reporters in the provincial capital. He reported his experience since childhood and made a lot of money, which also allowed more people to know about Wei Yongkang.
After being admitted to the Department of Physics of Xiangtan University, the local newspaper also specifically reported the matter. He was also hailed by the media as the "prodigy" of the East .
And all this cannot be separated from one person, that is, Wei Yongkang's mother Zeng Xuemei. She once said this in an interview with a reporter: "Everything is inferior, but only reading is high!"
Indeed, this is a good meaning, but it is another prejudice.
After Wei Yongkang was admitted to the Chinese Academy of Sciences, he thought his future was bright, but the ending was beyond everyone's expectations. Faced with the genius he cultivated, Zeng Xuemei even cursed.
How to go ahead after dropping out of school? How is he living now?
Wei Yongkang, who was once persuaded to retire by the Chinese Academy of Sciences, has now obtained the postgraduate diploma in physics at Beijing University of Technology as he wishes, making up for his many years of regrets. What has Wei Yongkang experienced when he was dropped out of school and obtained his postgraduate diploma again?
For Wei Yongkang's study, Zeng Xuemei can be said to be "doing everything" .
She believes that everything that affects Wei Yongkang's study is a waste of time. She prohibits Wei Yongkang from making friends with other children and playing together. If a classmate called Wei Yongkang and asked him to come out to play, Zeng Xuemei would lie on the phone that his son was not at home.
's purpose is not to let your son waste time because of playing and affect his learning.
In life, Zeng Xuemei is even more "comprehensive" . Apart from studying, she almost never let her son get involved in anything. However, it is this kind of worry-free operation that ultimately leads to a teenage genius who has become a low-powered child who cannot take care of himself in life.
After dropping out of school, Wei Yongkang became a child again. He started to learn how to live from scratch, did laundry, cooked and housework, and took care of his father who had been paralyzed for many years.
's inner strength makes him become a strong man again.
In 2005, Wei Yongkang came to Shanghai to work alone. Here he not only lived alone, but also met his future wife - Fu Bi.He felt the feeling of spring heart, had the imagination of being with this girl, and even hoped to spend a lifetime with her.
and Fu Bi naturally saw the man's sincerity. With her company, Wei Yongkang became responsible. The two fell in love for three years and finally entered the palace of marriage in 2008. After marriage, they also had a pair of lovely children, and their lives became the word "good".
Wei Yongkang is no longer the nerd he used to be, the genius who cannot take care of himself. After getting married and having children, he was very down-to-earth and did not go into books every day. He will do housework with his wife and take care of his children. He will also take an outing in his spare time to experience the beauty of life with his family.
Later, with the support of his wife, Wei Yongkang successfully entered the biophysics major at Beijing University of Technology. After several years of study, he also successfully obtained a master's degree.
The former genius completed his studies from elementary school to university in a very short time, but it also took more than ten years to learn how to live. Now Wei Yongkang lives happily with his family with a considerable annual salary.
Many years later Zeng Xuemei finally realized her mistake. She once forcibly placed her wish on her son and regarded her son's life as her own life. But fortunately, she realized her mistake and looked at her son’s family’s happy appearance, and she thought she was also happy!
, but what people unexpectedly expected was that bad news came to him again. On November 9, 2021, Wei Yongkang passed away due to illness. The life of a child prodigy is full of legends, but it is also sad.
Talent is of course valuable, but everyone’s life is taken step by step. The consequences of pulling seedlings to grow are always malnutrition. Life is like a marathon. The starting point cannot determine everything. The person who runs to the end is the winner in life.
