Author: Feng Jianguo
I haven’t seen Chunxia for a long time, and I still miss it a little bit. People have emotions. If they have similar views and are straightforward in nature, they will be easy to interact with each other. Perhaps because of this, although Chunxia and I have different careers, different interests, and not very long contact, they are very close to each other. After a long time, when I met her and called me Brother Feng, I followed suit and recognized this girl. The reason why
did not meet is that Chunxia knee joint had surgery and had been recuperating at home for a long time, which was considered to be half a year. I knew about her surgery, but I never visited her at the hospital or at home. I only went to the phone to say hello a few times and comforted her. Sister Chunxia scolded me in her heart or not? This guy who has no human nature. I don’t know, but I don’t think so, because Chunxia is a good person, and good people generally don’t care about these things.
Chunxia's good deeds, Yuncheng Most people know that for many years, they have supported the elderly, rescued orphans, dedicated their love, and paid attention to public welfare, and are highly respected and trusted by people. They have been deputies to district and municipal people's congresses for several consecutive terms, and have won honorary titles such as "Moral Model of Shanxi Province", the third "100 Outstanding Mothers in China", "Hong Kong City Top Ten Outstanding Mothers", "Top Ten Women in Shanxi", and "Shanxi Province May 1st Labor Medal". In November 2015, in the "China Good People" selection event hosted by Central Civilization Office , she was on the "China Good People List" and was invited to take her to rescue the children to participate in the production of CCTV's program.
In my opinion, Chunxia’s illness is caused by fatigue. Since joining the work, Chunxia has been working hard in the catering industry and founded the Yingbin Hotel, which has been around for more than 30 years. The diet industry is a chore, and she is also a person who will do everything herself. She is busy from morning to night, and is always so chaotic that she is so tired that her back and legs are sore. In people's minds, most of them are bosses who move their mouths and spend a few days together with the employees. But she often says that she is the leader and the employees are working hard, how can she sit on the mountain and watch the water and stand by? Especially when it's lunchtime, the hotel business has reached its climax. She always cleans up front, posts behind, and walks around the front kitchen for fear of mistakes.
Chunxia also has a habit, which is to stand at the entrance of the hotel every day to welcome and see off customers who are dining. I once asked her that ordinary hotel owners rarely show off at this point, for fear of meeting acquaintances who want to sign a contract and reduce fees. Why do you do the opposite? She smiled and said that she had been running a restaurant for decades, and most of the people who came here to eat were repeat customers, and they even came for her. How could she have the nerve to avoid it? And to be honest, I miss these old friends too much over time. It is also a kind of happiness to chat for a few days on this opportunity. Besides, how much money is enough? So when customers come, they can give in, and when they can, they can reduce. The purpose of our hotel is to have good food and low prices.
Chunxia is not tall and has a little fat body. In addition, she gets up early and goes to bed late, and is busy. She not only needs to ensure the quality of food, but also takes good care of the worldly style. How can the knee joints bear such a great pressure? Therefore, joint wear and tear problems occur, which is probably inevitable. Moreover, Chunxia is an impatient person. As the saying goes, "A hundred days of injury to the bones", which means that if you suffer from physical injury, you need to stay in bed for 100 days before you can get out of bed and move. Chunxia couldn't sit still? Shortly after the operation, she felt good about herself and got out of bed for restorative exercises. The result was that I was too hasty, and the pain in the wound was accumulated, so I had to undergo another treatment, which lasted for nearly half a year. I also planned to visit her in the middle of
, but in the end I chose to give up. In my opinion, as a patient, in principle, you need to rest, especially patients like Chunxia.She didn't socialize when you went there, and it seemed that she couldn't agree on the love . The socializing move was inconvenient, so I was in a dilemma, so I chose to give in to the condolences. This not only reduces unnecessary trouble, but also achieves the effect of visiting. Why not do it? Maybe some people will say that it is because you are stingy and are reluctant to buy some gifts to see patients. Actually, if you think about it, the "old eight styles" that have been circulated on the street for countless times, the patient is not thinking about how to eat it, but trying to find a way to deal with these things, which will cause unnecessary trouble.
Different people have different opinions on the same thing, the kind and wise, and they enjoy mountains and rivers. I myself believe that emotional communication should be the first priority when getting along with people. As for material wealth, I just laugh it off. For example, among those who are constantly visiting patients, it is the mainstream that really hopes that the patients will recover soon, but are there some unrighteous people who are smiling but have ulterior motives? The human heart knows God knows. My attitude is that in addition to the need for guardian care for my close relatives, I greeted each other three times and five times, and communicated with language and soul three times and five times, which was no less than visiting each other ten times and eight times.
One day ago, I finally met the girl Chunxia. The unexpected encounter was at the funeral of a colleague's mother, who had been neighbors for many years. That day, as soon as she entered the door, she saw me, walked a few steps tightly, and said with a smile: Brother Feng, I'm fine. I also smiled and said: It's good that it's OK, pay more attention to your health in the future. She nodded and said: Remember. She told me that she was here, and today all her old neighbors came. Although they had separated and went their separate ways, they were still as friendly as before and were intimate. From this I feel that Chunxia's character is like a jar of aged wine. The longer it is stored, the stronger its taste is, the more mellow and sweeter it is. Looking at Chunxia again, I saw her smiling face, refreshed and moving freely. It seemed that she had recovered well. I wish her from the bottom of my heart.
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