Every girl pays special attention to her wedding. They hope that she can marry her favorite with the most beautiful appearance. Therefore, in recent years, the wedding scenes are always full of romantic atmosphere, and even the guests in the audience will be moved by the love of the newlyweds.
But this wedding in Anhui seems a bit too simple, without a ceremony, and there is no blessing from guests. At first, netizens stood up for the woman, thinking that she was so wronged.
After learning about the woman’s first marriage experience, everyone unanimously said: “Let’s just live it.”
The woman’s wedding ceremony is simple, which makes people feel a little distressed
In everyone’s inherent impression, the wedding always has a high-end place, a host who can adjust the atmosphere, relatives and friends of both parties, as well as various flowers and balloons.
In comparison, this Anhui woman’s wedding seems too simple. On the day of the wedding, the woman wore a red dress with a red bow and rushed to the hotel by car. In the small room in the hotel, the woman met her groom and the wedding was over.
It is sad that no one prepared red envelopes for the woman throughout the whole process, and the parents of both parties did not arrive at the scene to send them blessings. Many people think that women are not happy in the future when they meet others.
The woman’s friend couldn’t stand others talking about her like this, so she stood up and revealed the truth. It turned out that the woman had experienced a failed marriage before, and she became scarred because of this.
She and her ex-husband have a child. During her marriage, she found out that her ex-husband cheated on money everywhere. After some argument, she chose to forgive her ex-husband. Unexpectedly, the unrepentant ex-husband actually carried her outside on her back.
After she made up her mind to divorce, her ex-husband took the child away and refused to let her visit the child. After experiencing such a big blow in a short period of time, she felt stressed and suffered from insomnia and tinnitus every night. Until later, her ears were all deaf and she could not hear any sound.
Only after meeting her second-married husband did she see hope in life. Her husband prepared a dowry for her, but she exchanged the dowry for cochlear implant . After these things happened, it was not easy for her to meet such a sincere lover.
Learning the truth, netizens talked about it
After netizens learned about the woman’s experience, they expressed their opinions one after another. One netizen thinks that the woman's current husband is indeed generous and can accept her unbearable past and heal her scars.
Judging from the fact that her husband is willing to buy her cochlear implants, their lives should be good. Moreover, the woman’s friend said that her husband is a honest and honest person, and the woman should not repeat the same mistake this time.
Another netizen said that her experiences are very similar to a woman. After getting married, she found that her husband cheated on her and then decisively chose to divorce. Due to excessive stress, she also developed symptoms such as tinnitus, insomnia and depression. Fortunately, she was as lucky as a woman. After leaving the scumbag, she met someone who was willing to truly love her.
Some netizens also believe that women should not punish themselves with their ex-husband’s mistakes. No matter what their ex-husband does, she must adjust her mentality and not destroy her body for such a scumbag.
If a woman can't adjust her mentality, she may not be able to live a good life with her current husband. Only by breaking through that psychological barrier first can you achieve true happiness.
The author has something to say:
In the editor’s opinion, the sense of ceremony at a wedding is optional, and the most important thing is the person who accompanys you into the marriage hall. If you meet someone badly, no matter how grand the wedding is, you will not be able to go to the end with the other party. If you meet someone who is truly suitable for you, you can live a happy and fulfilling life even without the wedding process.
For a woman, what she needs is not a cumbersome and wasteful wedding, but a husband who can care for herself and respect her marriage.
Judging from the man's behavior, he can indeed meet the woman's requirements. After all, he can accept the things that the woman has experienced in the past and can guide her to slowly get out of the shadow.
And according to traditional Chinese customs, second-handed people usually do not hold grand weddings, but simply follow a process. It’s just that the process between the woman and her husband is too simple, which makes everyone feel sorry for the woman.
After learning about the woman’s experience and what her husband did, they not only did not think that her husband was stingy, but also felt that he was a veritable good man.
Of course, everyone thinks that women can get married in a second place without being so glorious. At least the parents of the two families must send blessings on the spot. When every newlywed gets married, he should receive the heartfelt blessings from his parents, so that the wedding will be meaningful. However, since the woman herself didn't think there was anything wrong with her, there was no need for everyone to worry about her.
I hope everyone should consider it carefully before getting married, and only after making sure that the other party has no principled issues can they consider getting married. If you marry yourself out casually, you will be covered in bruises like a woman.
