Speaking of strength, maybe those of us who have never really experienced it can't imagine what specific form it will take.
There is such a girl. Her mother is a very strong person. She is responsible for everything from big to small, including what she wears, what she uses, and even what she eats. So when she was growing up, she and her father were arranged. The role of a girl is precisely because her mother doesn’t like girls’ soft voices, coquettish coquettishness, and fashionable dress, and may even despise them. Therefore, in her mind, that is bad and she can’t do that.
As the years go by, she becomes more and more excellent, a female top student, beautiful face... A series of good words can be used to describe her, but such a girl has been broken up with one after another, and the other party said that she is too strong , which makes them very depressed, saying that she is not gentle and makes them feel like a buddy... among other things In fact, since she went to school, she has come into contact with more and more people. She knows what girls should look like, and she has also fantasized about princess dresses and beautiful hairpins, but she knows that these can only stay in her fantasies. , so she extinguished the little flame before it started burning, because she didn't want to disappoint her mother.
So the current emotional experience once again stimulated her, because she has always yearned for love, marriage, and being her true self, but there is a wall in front of her that she must climb by herself. There is a protective net on the wall. If she insists on climbing over, Then she might be hurt or asking her parents to open the door for her to go out, but she didn’t want to disappoint her mother, because she thought her thoughts were a betrayal of her mother and a failure of the love her mother had given her, so she fell into entanglement and depression, and she didn’t want to face him. Regarding family, I don’t want to face my parents, let alone myself.
No matter work or life, we all need love, but
appropriate love will add more color to our lives and prevent us from being afraid of the unknowns ahead; excessive love will build a connection between us and the world. Walls make us passively become frogs in a well, timid about the unknown future.
