"Lao Liu" is my husband. He only started calling him this title when he was in his 40s.
Time is really a butcher's knife. Nowadays, the person who was once praised as Chow Yun-fat when he was young has become a thing of the past. It is obvious that the gray hair is increasing day by day, and the hair volume is not as small as before. In the past, his cloud-like hair on the temples made people envious and jealous. I would often take advantage of his sleep to secretly tie his hair into a braid like a barn kid, and have a happy day. Now I just hope that he will not become Gao Xiaosong [face covering] (fortunately, his family There is no dominant gene ()! However, what makes me happy is that as long as he can make his own decisions, he still does it very hard. At this age, not only does he not have a big belly, but he also has a few abdominal muscles. He has successfully aroused everyone's hatred again, hahaha !
Old Liu has several hobbies, some are good and some are bad. Let’s complain about them. Bad hobbies make people grit their teeth and it’s unpleasant if they don’t complain.
1. Let’s talk about smoking first.
I have been smoking for at least 20 years since I was young. In order to To get him to quit smoking, I tried my best to persuade him countless times, and even coerced him. Lao Liu just verbally said "Okay, okay" to deal with it symbolically. When he turned around, he still said "My nephew is lighting a lantern - as usual"; only once, When my daughter came home from vacation and saw that her father was very addicted to smoking, she talked to him very seriously about the disadvantages of smoking (in fact, he knew everything about it). Maybe it was to save face for her daughter, but he actually quit smoking for a month. The good times didn't last long, and when my daughter returned to school, she relapsed, and they even said in a nice way, "I only have this one hobby, so don't make things difficult for me anymore" (as if we didn't let him smoke and become a sinner)! For the sake of his health, I still nag him from time to time. The good news recently is that he plans to quit smoking before the end of the year. I can only wait and see!
2, playing guitar
Lao Liu’s first guitar was a “red cotton” guitar he bought with the New Year’s money he saved when he was in high school. It was this guitar that accompanied him through that youthful time! It was also this guitar that helped him, who was not good at words, to successfully capture my heart, haha! Later, after getting married, having children, and being busy with family and career, that guitar never made any sound again! Until 2006, due to a job transfer, he had to go to another city thousands of miles away alone. We started living separately in two places, and he was still quite lonely at night! At this time, he said that he wanted to practice guitar again, but he was afraid that he would not be able to pick it up. When I heard that, I agreed with him and quickly praised him... Just like that, Lao Liu put the guitar on his back again and played as long as If he had nothing else to do, he would play for more than an hour. Every time he mastered a piece of music, he would share the video with us. Gradually, he became an old literary youth. Old Liu also said that he was ready to keep playing. I encouraged him to live his life. Keep playing! Everything is going well.
Let him regain his happiness with guitar
3 and fitness exercises
I remember clearly that in 2008, Old Liu started to have belly . When he saw the look of disgust on my face, he was determined to lose weight, and he started to fight. I played badminton three times a week. After three months of persistence, I lost my belly. Liu regained his confidence and couldn’t stop playing badminton every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, and running every second and fourth. He worked tirelessly. Later, in order to improve his muscles, After a lot of training, he followed a personal trainer to strengthen training, and the mermaid line also came out. He was full of confidence. After all this, Lao Liu completely fell in love with exercise. Now, he exercises for 20 minutes every day without hesitation. , then wash up and eat; after fourteen years, fitness training has been integrated into his bones. I still admire his perseverance! People say that if you are close to vermillion, you will be red, and if you are close to ink, you will be dark. Under his guidance, our whole family also developed the habit of exercising!
No one is perfect, no matter good or bad, I am willing to tolerate him. I hope he can successfully quit smoking this year!
