In today's society, as an adult born in the 1980s and 1990s, parents' support is still indispensable. It's not that these young people want to grow old, but their parents can't bear to see them living so hard. Not only do they have huge housing loans, but they may also have renovation loans, car loans, etc. A monthly salary of 3,000-8,000 for office workers is an income situation for most people (as for those who easily earn over 10,000 or tens of thousands, this is not the case) (within the discussion), and with this income, in addition to repaying various loans, you also have to pay for property, water, electricity, fuel, natural gas, etc. Of course, the baby is also the main source of a large expense in the family. The expenditure of a baby may be as much as a couple couple. Under such circumstances, parents no longer expect their children to nurture them in return. Instead, it has become commonplace to watch their children struggling to survive and provide even a little help.
As the saying goes, raising children will protect you against old age, but the fact is that raising children not only does not protect against old age, it may even cost you pension money. Most of the people born in the 1980s and 1990s came from rural areas. Due to the popularization of nine-year compulsory education, many rural children entered college and found jobs. They either went to county towns or lived in urban areas. There are more and more high-rise buildings in counties and urban areas, which are vividly called reinforced concrete forests. On the other hand, more and more young people have entered the city, and there are fewer and fewer young adults in the village. Some young people are unwilling to leave their hometown, but as the saying goes: where there is a family, there is no job; There is no home where you work. In order to better solve this problem, families in the village did not hesitate to borrow money to help their children move their homes to work, buy buildings, and live in so-called communities. A young man with a bright appearance, after careful questioning, he found out that his monthly salary is 4,000-7,000, and he has paid off the loan with about 3,500, and has to live with the remaining 3,500. It is not easy to say, and it is not easy to let him support his family.
In fact, the real poor people have entered the suburban communities. Do you agree? Why are they poor? Because they have become poor because of a house, they have no money to choose an urban area or a better school district house. Being able to live in the suburbs is already a very good thing for them. And I happen to be one of them. In 2020, I have been working for 4 years and am already 28 years old. I want to settle down in this bright city, not only because I work here, but also because everything here is better than my hometown in the village. So I discussed it with my parents all night. My father told me to be optimistic. My mother asked me if I had enough money. I said that I had put a lot of effort into decorating, so my mother and father discussed it and gave me all the 200,000 on the card. According to my mother, this was for me to save for my wife.
When I bought the house, I was excited and happy at first, but this happiness slowly dissipated, because the decoration was conservatively estimated to cost 120,000, and I asked others to borrow more than 50,000, and the house loan was already 550,000. After that, my mother asked me if I had enough money, and I said it was not even close, so they gave me all the 20,000 they had earned recently, without any reservation. The more selfless they are, the heavier the burden becomes on my heart, but I can't help it. I don't look good asking others to borrow 10,000 to 20,000 yuan. I told my mother that we had to spend all the money at home. My parents said that we were just making money for you, and everything we earned was yours. My parents are not rich, they are migrant workers, but what I feel from them is that they are always so generous to my son. When I moved into my new home, I was extremely grateful to my parents, but I had nothing to express to my parents, so I opened the video, and I could see in the video that they were happier than me.
It is really difficult for our children from rural areas to take root in big cities, but there is no way. Someone posted a sentence on the Internet, "We need to transfer some money to our parents. Firstly, we can bond with each other, and secondly, we can talk more." As a result, the parents in the comment area said, "It's already great if we can, why are we still looking forward to it?" What will they give?” Others said, “The children are crossing the river, so we’d better not burden them.” Chinese parents work too hard.When I was a child, I was raised in the hope of having a job. After I got a job, I expected to buy a house. After buying the house, I married a wife. After the wife married, I raised children for my son. Life is short, but they have dedicated their lives selflessly to us. We still have Is there any reason not to love your parents who are about to grow old?
