Host: Wang Zhe
00:00 / -No. 248th | Accompanying song "The Stranger - Li Jian"
Source: Dulan (ID: dulantea) | Author: Du Lanjun
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I know a master driver who gives the impression that every time I ride in his car, I feel very comfortable and safe. He drives smoothly and doesn't just show off his driving skills like some drivers do.
What he is most proud of is that he has not had a single accident while driving for decades.
It's rare to see him getting tired. He explained that he will try his best to have regular work and rest on weekdays, ensure adequate sleep, pay attention to diet and do not drink alcohol.
He once said, "Being calm and down-to-earth is more fortunate." I agree. There is no happiness based on luck. Every luck comes for a reason. The smooth road of life depends on step by step and down-to-earth.
Many relationships eventually come to an end, but also because of luck. After dating for a long time, some people may feel that their relationship no longer needs to be managed, and they have lost the friendship and humility they had when they first met. Getting along gradually became perfunctory, speaking without taking into account the feelings of the other party. Slowly, whether it is friendship or love, it will inevitably change.
This reminds me of a show I once watched, which told the story of a husband and wife...Three meals a day, usually the wife cooks; but in terms of housework, almost all the housework is done by the husband. After 30 years of marriage, every wife's birthday, no matter how busy her husband is, he will come back and make her favorite beef and seaweed soup.
When the host marveled at the wife's finding a good husband, the husband said, "Actually, my wife has paid a lot more than me." The father-in-law of Zheimer's disease was meticulous and hard-working until the death of the old man.
Love needs to be managed, not only to see the other party's efforts in the eyes and mind, but also to make a difference in practical actions. In the emotional world, there are no shortcuts once and for all. If you have to say the most gorgeous technique, it is the persistence and cherishing without luck.
Any relationship will encounter difficulties. If you are lucky enough to think that time will heal everything automatically, or simply break the jar, it will not solve the problem. Only by taking active actions and communicating more actively can we cross a hurdle.
There is a saying that goes well: "Don't wait for a ship at the airport." On the road of life, luck is often the icing on the cake. If you expect it to be a panacea, you must be in the wrong direction of happiness. .
People should be optimistic and accept themselves when they are blessed by luck, but they should not take chances because of this. Although luck may get temporary benefits, but relying on luck obtained by luck, like a castle in the air, is destined to not last long. The attitude of a wise man is always down-to-earth, one step at a time, because the happiness obtained in that way is steady.
In the journey of life, no one can accurately predict what will happen ahead, whether it will be smooth or adversity. But what we can do is to hold on to the happiness in our hands, throw away the flukes, and move forward on a down-to-earth basis. The joys, sorrows and joys of
life are all sown by oneself. May we all be the catchers of the happy rye...
Today is #WorldSmileDay#. A smile is a silent language, and a smile can tug at the heartstrings. Did you smile today?
Source: Guizhou Radio and Television Station
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