But I saw a Weibo post that was very interesting. It was written like this: "Brigitte Lin divorced because of the mistress' intervention. A generation of goddess won 2 billion yuan. The tragedy of divorce ended, which is a pity."

1.

Yesterday, the news of # Lin Qingxia divorce# became a hot search.

But I saw a Weibo post that was very interesting. The Weibo post was written like this:

"Brigitte Lin divorced because of the mistress' intervention. A generation of goddess won 2 billion yuan. The tragedy of divorce ended. It's a pity."

So, the following comments lit up:

"2 billion, what's the tragedy!"

"Please happen to me!"

"You have money, leisure and daughter, don't have to serve the old man, would you give me such a tragedy?"

indeed, who says a woman's divorce is a tragedy?

.com rumored that Brigitte Lin could not give birth to a son, so there was a third party involved in the family.

This is such an ancient concept. Is it a tragedy that it is not a son? Is divorced from a wealthy husband a tragedy?

is obviously not.

On the contrary, more people think that Brigitte Lin’s divorce is very satisfying.

Because, this is the right way to deal with a cheating man.

I remember there is a saying: A woman without money is divorce, and a woman with rich is called restoration of singleness.

, what's wrong with being able to give up a bad marriage?

Do you still remember a hot search from the previous year?

says that a Japanese actress married into a wealthy family and can receive 110,000 yuan in living expenses every month after getting married and having children. She usually only takes care of her children and gets together with friends.

But on the surface, she has been incredibly glorious and has not seen her husband for more than half a year.

The actress was said to be miserable in the news, saying that she worked hard to maintain a marriage in name only.

However, the comments were particularly uniformly left:

110,000 yuan a month without seeing her husband, it should be the dream of many married women.

Someone else said, give me 110,000, and my husband will take it.

Some people say that I don’t want 110,000, just 10,000.

These seem to be jokes, but there is a saying: jokes are three points true and seven points false.

Others found it funny when they saw it, but we all know that these are the disappointments of women with their husbands over time.

2

I wonder if you usually use Douyin ?

In the emotional category of Douyin, I found that there are two types of videos that have particularly high likes.

A type is a type of woman who complains about her feelings of not caring about her family, children, not giving money, not caring about her feelings, and being helpless.

There is another type: a good man, a good father, a wife at home has the final say, he will do housework, he will take care of the children, and he will earn the expenses.

The former was liked because there are too many resonances.

The latter was liked because I really envious.

The former is the current reality of most women, while the latter is the expectations and fantasies of most women.

Once I saw a video:

"The husband was lying on the sofa and playing with his mobile phone. The doorbell rang at home and was sent to the bucket of water. The wife took it and carried the water directly to the water dispenser. During the whole process, the husband turned his back to his wife and kept motionless." There were many messages in

that he had a husband of the same style at home.

Another time, a wife got up in the middle of the night to soak milk for the child. The husband found out that he quickly got up and took the child and asked his wife to go to bed.

At this time, read the comments again, and the comments inside become: Good men are all from other people’s families.

Is it really good men who are all other people’s families?

is not, most of the time it is women who have found that this man is bad, but hold on to him tightly and refuse to let go.

Some people say that Brigitte Lin’s relationship will not end well in her life, and she has failed to meet a good man many times, which is quite miserable.

I don't think this is the case.

The real misery is not that you love the wrong person, but that you know you love the wrong person but you make mistakes again and again.

We all know that when

Article cheated, Ma Yili said, "Cherish and cherish."

Xie Xingfang was pregnant, Lin Dan was secretly photographed with a young model in a hotel. She said, "Our family is in the same boat through thick and thin."

Gao Yunxiang was accused of sexual assault abroad, Dong Xuan said, "Believe him.""

Wu Xiubo cheated, and his wife He Zhenya posted on Weibo to support: "What I defend is the normal rights and interests of the family and family. "

Of course, these are their family affairs, and they can choose to forgive.

But behind forgiveness, the bystanders can only say: is like a person who knows the warmth and coldness of water.

Every wife makes different choices because of concepts, interests, love, and dignity. No one can criticize that this is wrong.

just have to admit that such a man is definitely not a good man, a good husband, and a good father.

html l103.

I have received letters from many readers.

said that I have worked very hard after marriage, not only to have children for a man, but also to take care of his parents.

Despite my hard work, my husband will still cheat irresponsibly, and will still be picky and disgusted with him.

Take very little living expenses as a favor, let alone some men don’t even give money.

But they would rather endure it for their children.

But I think they may have overlooked a problem, can they be tolerated? What to change?

can really make the child live a better life, can you make yourself happy?

is like a letter I received a few days ago.

This is a mother with two children. Before getting married, she had a conflict with her husband about the dowry.

On the wedding day, because she changed makeup a little slower, she was scolded by her mother-in-law in front of the guests.

Two caesarean sections after marriage for confinement. Although the mother-in-law is there, she takes care of her very perfunctorily.

What about the husband? She is just a hand-off boss. Not to mention taking care of the child, I haven't even changed a diaper.

After 5 years of marriage, the two of them either quarreled or had a cold war.

Now I find that the man has an ambiguous relationship with his ex-girlfriend, but every time I consider that the child is too young and can't bear it, I keep insisting.

She asked me, don't know how to persist in the future?

To be honest, there are many similar stories to this mother.

I remember a girl who got pregnant unexpectedly, but the man didn't want it and proposed to break up.

However, the girl's mother begged the man's parents to marry her daughter.

It's snowing, the pregnant girl insists on staying outside the boy's house for a week and waiting for him.

I think, why didn't she understand in her heart that such a relationship has no good result?

At the beginning, they had the right to give up, but they still chose to persist.

Is this really love? Is it really for the child?

Actually, it's not, it's for their own fear of loneliness.

0 is not wanting to face the fact that you make the wrong choice, and you are even more afraid of becoming a joke in the eyes of others.

Little do you know that unnecessary persistence is the biggest joke in life.

This reminds me of a passage I once read:

Give up what should be given up is helplessness;

Give up what should not be given up is incompetence;

Don't give up what should be given up is ignorance;

Don't give up what should be given up is ignorance;

Don't give up what should be given up does not be given up does not be given up does not be given up does not be given up does not be given up What is abandoned is persistence.

4.

I hope all men can understand that most women don’t actually need much to enter marriage.

They can abandon the whole world and turn themselves from a girl who is not touching the spring water to a hardworking and omnipotent housewife.

She just hopes that you care more about her, care more about her, and accompany her more.

She will be wholehearted and love you with all her strength.

l3

also hopes that women can understand that when a man can’t give you hope, let it go.

Many times your hard work is the only one who is moved in the end.

You are afraid that your children will be hurt, but long-term family quarrels and cold wars are the greatest harm to your children.

has said so much, and end it with a passage from Brigitte Lin’s autobiography “Cloud Goes and Clouds Comes”:

“I think back on what I have seen and heard along the way, and suddenly have some insights. Isn’t this the journey of life?

When you reach your destination and reach the highest peak, there will always be a time to go down the mountain.

The road to climbing the mountain is hard to walk, but the process along the way is worth remembering. ”

- END -

Author: Kaizi

Readers who have finished reading it, remember to give Kai Ge a like

(the picture is from the Internet, please delete if infringes)