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After chatting about Haitian that day, many readers were very active and left messages in the background and sent messages.
Someone shared a foreign video with me UP hosts, saying that they were shopping in overseas supermarkets, picking up a bottle of soy sauce, zero addition, and then picking up a bottle of soy sauce, zero addition, full of pride.
Then there are many messages below, but the food outside is better, so moisten it, moisten it.
Readers asked me what I think.
I don’t want to talk about such a narrow topic. I want to talk about a very common phenomenon, or it is a sentence that a senior brother said at the dinner table in the past. He shared his views with me, and I will share his views with everyone.
I graduated from graduate school at that time. I had been internship outside for more than a year. I went back to defend and obtained my degree. I simply booked a hotel room at the school gate for a month. The daily task was to eat, drink, and have a very happy month.
Once at a dinner party, a group of people talked about the topic of what city to develop after graduation. Some people talked about first-tier cities, some people talked about second-tier cities, and some people said that going to a small city is happier.
At this time, the oldest person at the dinner table, a senior brother who had graduated for ten years, said this.
You will not be happy because you become someone. Only when you achieve yourself can you be happy.
The meaning of his sentence is very simple. That is to say, with his ten years of experience, he feels that a person will not feel happy for a long time just because he becomes a Beijinger or a Shenzhener. Only when you achieve yourself and make your career come true can you be happy.
The principle is very simple. There are tens of millions of people in Beijing and tens of millions of people in Shenzhen. Most of the people who are unhappy are definitely.
Maybe you will feel particularly satisfied the moment you have been thinking about before you get it, but it is difficult to last for a long time and it cannot last for even a month.
A person really wants to be a Beijinger. When he becomes, he may feel happy. But it's fleeting. That kind of happiness is just an overcompensation effect, and you will have new worries in a few months.
This is a very simple truth, but I believe that until today, many people may not be able to understand it.
For example, " Bottom Line ", when President Fang was promoted to vice president, he should have been overjoyed, and his goal he had been thinking about for many years has responded.
Then one day he was pulled down from the position of vice president?
Turning to history, many literati and poets have spent their whole life understanding of this matter, the so-called ups and downs.
studied hard for more than ten years, and titled under the Ci'en Tower, the youngest among the seventeen people, was in short supply for a short time, and encountered a blow and was released from the outside. They were both people who fell into the world and were depressed from then on.
Of course, it may be revived, or exiled again, ups and downs, at most, at last, you will not be surprised by some favors and disgraces, and watch the flowers bloom and fall in front of the courtyard; if you stay or leave, Look at the clouds rolling in the sky and spreading in the clouds .
Sometimes it is very interesting to read other people’s lives. Just like when you watch someone play games, what level they play, what experience will they experience.
In fact, what the senior brother said is very simple. He is just telling you that only has iron man and no iron rice bowl. There are only happy people, no happy lives.
This means, you can do whatever you want, but you can't do it, and you can't put any tags on you.
There are not so many people who can accept this view.
There are two most difficult things for people in their lives: admitting others can do it, and admitting that they can't do it.
It is difficult for us to admit that others can do it. We think that others’ success is all because of their labels, which are their external conditions.
On the other hand, it is difficult for us to admit that we are not good because of ourselves.
This is human nature, not many people can jump out, so it’s useless for him to say it.
I remember one sentence for so many years because I think what he said is right. Even when I just graduated, I think what he said is right.
So later I invented a set of theories after entering the workplace.
No matter what product we make or what method we use, the product is the carrier. What do we sell? is the definition.
Value is not created, value is defined.
Most people don’t understand the value. If you really understand it, you won’t work hard.
What most people can understand is actually the value given to you by others.
To put it bluntly, you think this is successful, and you think this is happier.
What an excellent product manager does is to give others value. I make you feel happier when you carry LV, I make you feel happier when you use a silver plate to drag the WIFI password, I make you feel happier when you put it on.
keyword is what I want you to.
So people like Huang Xiaoming blurt out, "I don't want you to think, I want me to think", It's very difficult to control.
In a sense, this is the boss's talent. His style is not the domineering president, but the first step in the boss's thinking.
I don’t want you to define the value system for me, I want to customize the value system. You taste it, you taste it carefully?
Why do first-class enterprises make standards, second-class enterprises make products, and third-class enterprises make projects?
Because you have seized the right to speak in the definition of value, you can get more profits. profit is defined, not created.
These words were not something I could understand when I first graduated.
But I vaguely feel that most people actually have no idea. They are like puppets who have been entered into the program. If you master the backdoor of the program, you will completely see through people.
Many years later, I said something. I said, what you think is what others think.
In other words, maybe you have lived a lifetime and never "I think".
You always think "I think", but in fact, every feeling in your mind is buried in it by others.
I am quite lucky and unfortunate. Originally, I was an excited entrepreneurial youth, starting from R&D and starting from startup companies. I thought I was experiencing it happily in this industry.
I soon went to the Party A and was attracted by the big boss, who can influence the industry direction, and had the opportunity to participate in the layout.
During those days, my mind seemed to explode. I was a very flexible person. I was overturned by my mind every day. You can imagine what I experienced.
I suddenly realized that I was so naive, I was really naive before. Because before I was in second-rate and third-rate companies.
Second-rate and third-rate enterprises are actually revolving around first-class enterprises. To put it bluntly, everything revolves around standards.
This standard is not what you think it is. This standard is what makes you think is good.
Our former Party A has various business dealings with the bosses of all top groups around the world. I only saw it in professional books before, but now it is close.
Listening to the boss’ private conversation is completely different from what I feel when I was reading.
When I was studying, I learned a lot of industry standards. I thought that was the law of nature, just like Pythagorean theorem , which was deduced by scientists, and then how to commercialize it.
Looking back, I found that the person who wrote the book was sitting opposite me, and his identity was just the adviser of the other party's boss.
Do you understand the order of this game?
is like diamonds. Those who set various cutting standards are not really good people. The real great man is the one who defines the connection between diamond and loyalty and eternity.
He is the big boss, and then a bunch of staff push it all down, making everyone think that the inevitable connection between diamonds and these beautiful things, thus defining the value of diamonds.
Did you see it? value is defined.
The industrial chain continues to be further divided, and the one who earns the least money in the end is the mining migrant workers.
So even if you stay in the mine and become the chief engineer of , you may not be able to figure out some things clearly, but if De Beers takes you to see how to start the whole process, you may be enlightened instantly.
This is a good thing and a bad thing. Good thing is that you have a clear understanding of it from now on, and bad thing is that you will not be interested in many things from now on.
I might have become a good chief engineer or a good management team, but I only worked for eight years and no longer had any interest in doing things, and since then I became a boring investor.
Back to our topic, what is happiness? Actually there are two types.
The first type is what others make you feel that happiness is. You live in the definition of others all your life. Every time you pass the level, you will get a little reward. This is a kind of happiness, temporary happiness.
For example, if someone tells you, when you run out, the soy sauce in the supermarket will be added with zero additions.
You really get moisturized, and you may have two feelings. One is really good because the high-end supermarket you went to was really zero-added on the shelves. The other is being cheated because you happened to go to a supermarket opened by old Mo, and the shelves are all added.
The vast majority of people on the entire network, looking at the two sides quarreling with each other, are actually the same type.
You are not called Run, you just jump from one value system to another value system. No matter which one, it is defined by your respective merchants.
What does it mean to be really moist? Your mind jumps out of the three realms and is not in the five elements, which is called moistness.
You run all foreign supermarkets and find that some sell additives and some sell additives and some sell additives without adding them. If you run all domestic supermarkets and find that some sell additives and some sell additives without adding them.
Do you understand if you drink what you add for ten years and what you don’t add for ten years? Actually, it can't.
Because of the above things, after all, you have never left the consumer circle.
Some things you just do not understand when you are a buyer. Can you understand it after you become a seller? Not necessarily.
As we said, sellers also have core edges and edges.
You now find that it is difficult to be real, right? I mean the moisturizing in consciousness.
No matter how you moist you are, you are in the circle defined by others, just like if you don’t drink Zhang San’s soy sauce, you have to drink Li Si’s.
So that chef, the kind of chef, cooks all his life, and people don’t want to eat anymore and have no appetite.
is not because he knows better or worse than you, but because he knows better than you. Whether it is good or not is defined. He has defined it all his life and is tired.
Don’t want to live in other people’s eyes anymore, do you understand? Can
really understand?
spent a lifetime, and you had to live as good as others thought, and even dip it in soy sauce as others thought it was good. Are you happy?
My age today is older than the senior brother at the dinner table. Judging from my experience that has been longer than him, so many years have passed, and among my classmates, half of them, who live overseas and domestic.
Who is happier? Sorry, it has nothing to do with the place. Those who live overseas are happy, some are unfortunate, those who live in China are happy, some are unfortunate. The ratio of
is even no different.
In the end, I found that happiness is only related to people, just like not knowing how to live, it is only related to people.
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