text/Siqi
Black black eyes and your smiling face
Can't forget the change of your appearance
Light old time just slipped away
Turning back and looking back to see it has been a hurry
The vast road in the world is your wandering
Searching for and staying together forever is my footsteps
The dark lonely pillow is your tenderness
The morning when I woke up was my sorrow...
Luo Dayou I am not handsome and my voice is hoarse.
But every time I listen to his songs, it always makes people feel endless.
Jay Chou’s evaluation of him is concise: rarely has songs that have been circulated for more than 3 years, but Luo Dayou’s songs are OK.
Just talk about "Childhood" and "The Story of Time" carry the full memories of the post-70s and 90s.
" Love Song 1980" and " Love Song 1990" are still popular.
Luo Dayou, known as the "godfather of the music scene", has a difficult and illegitimate marriage.
He had a failed marriage, and his ex-wife is the famous actor Li Lie .
The two have been in love for 11 years, but they broke up less than two years after getting married.
In September 2010, Luo Dayou and Elaine got married in Bali, and their outlook on life and marriage and love changed since then...
July 20, 1954, Luo Dayou was born in a medical family in Miaoli County, Taiwan Province, my country, and his ancestral home is Meizhou City, Guangdong Province.
Luo’s father opened a clinic in Taipei City, and Luo’s mother was a nurse.
Luo Dayou's brother is a doctor of cardiology graduated from Oxford University .
Sister, is a pharmacist with high professional ability.
On the contrary, Luo Dayou has been an "alternative molecule" in this family since he was a child.
5 when he fell in love with music, especially the piano.
In middle school, he had obtained a Level 8 piano certificate and his literary and artistic prospects were bright.
How could he ever think that on the eve of the college entrance examination, his parents began to obstruct his musical dream and made him tough in applying for the medical major.
Young Luo Dayou
In order not to disobey his parents, Luo Dayou obeyed.
After being admitted to the Department of Medicine of Medical University, his dream was not extinguished.
Here, he was busy and bought more than a thousand popular records.
These records are not only his "spiritual food" and also the carrier for nurturing dreams.
During his seven years at the Medical University, he has successively written songs such as "Four Rhymes of Homesickness", "I Waiting for Love Song 1980", and "Lullaby".
Luo Dayou's song album
1976, he began to release the album " Zhihuzheye ", with sales exceeding 200,000 copies.
22 years old, he has since become a little famous in the Taiwanese music scene.
The news that his son "is not doing his job" soon reached Luo's father's ears.
He called Luo Dayou to the front and told him not to go the wrong way.
The father and son were quarreling and ended up with "one step back".
In 1980, after graduation, Luo Dayou was assigned to a hospital in Taipei to work in the department of radiology.
Because he loved music too much, he only survived a year and quietly resigned.
Young Luo Dayou
1981, Luo Dayou served as the record producer for the first time, producing the song " Childhood ". The song
welcomed him his first girlfriend - Zhang Aijia .
Zhang Aiga is 1 year older than Luo Dayou, and the two have worked together before.
The song "The Story of Time" was created by Luo Dayou for Sylvia Chang.
Zhang Aijia also became famous in the moon hall with this song.
Zhang Aijia and Rene Liu
At that time, Luo Dayou was still an unmarried "older young man".
And Zhang Aijia is already married, and her husband is Liu Youlin, who is 16 years older than her.
Once upon a time, Chang Aijia took the initiative to pursue Liu Youlin, believing that this man is mature and steady, is her true love.
But since working with Luo Dayou, her relationship quickly deviated from the track.
She likes Luo Dayou's talent and falls in love with his candidness and sincerity.
and Luo Dayou was also caught by Sylvia Chang's beauty and generosity.
Luo Dayou, Sang Aijia and his colleagues recorded songs
But Luo Dayou knew better that the first thing was to : Most people who fall in love with a married woman will not have a good ending.
Compared with Luo Dayou who is "cowardly" in the face of love, Zhang Aijia has the courage to "fly to the fire".
In order to be with her beloved, she decisively divorced Liu Youlin and completely cut off her own way of retreat.
Since then, the two have officially come together and live a sweet life together.
Luo Dayou and Zhang Aijia
Love is sweet, but marriage is bitter.
Forced by his parents to urge him to get married, Luo Dayou had to propose marriage to Chang Aijia.
But at this time, Sylvia's acting career was at its peak and she had no time to run a family.
In this way, the conflict between the two became increasingly intensified and finally reached an irreconcilable point.
Zhang Aijia and Lee Zongsheng
In 1986, Luo Dayou went to the United States and left Taipei, which made him full of love.
In those gray days, he placed his pain in the lyrics and melody, and wrote classic songs such as " Oriental Pearl " and "Flowers on the Sea".
Years, he came to Hong Kong with "unhealing of love", and decided to regain himself in this land.
Luo Dayou's father was stubborn. He hoped that his son would save the world instead of becoming a singer.
Therefore, the father and son have been separated for many years.
After arriving in Hong Kong, Luo Dayou wrote a letter of 11 pages to his father.
Young Luo Dayou
In the letter, he emotionally stated that he was obsessed with music and had no regrets in this life!
After receiving his son's letter, Luo's father suddenly fell into deep thought.
Over the years, he has imposed his wish on his children, and it turns out that he is extremely miserable.
As a father, isn’t it a selfish expression!
Luo Dayou and Li Zongsheng
Not long after, Luo Dayou received a reply from his father.
in the words, he felt his father's deep care.
In the reply, my father mentioned: child, I support you in making music, but you also have to consider the feelings of me and your mother. We are all old...
After reading this, Luo Dayou burst into tears in an instant.
1987, he organized a self-constructed recording and production company, focusing on creating movie music.
It was just at this time that actress Li Lie broke into his life.
Li Lie is a native of Taiwan, 4 years younger than Luo Dayou.
In her acting career, she has starred in film and television works such as "Mimosa", "One Clip Plum", "Good Morning Taipei", and " Small Town Story ".
When Li Lie was young, she was hailed as the "jade girl" by movie fans because of her pure appearance, and was as famous as actresses such as Hu Yinmeng .
has also won the Best Actress Award for Taiwan TV's "Golden Bell Award" for her outstanding performance.
Li Lie once had a failed marriage, his ex-husband was named Mao Xuewei, and he was also an actor.
Speaking of this marriage, it is strictly speaking that Li Lie is too "father-loving".
Movie Poster
23, Li Lie and Mao Xuewei met on the crew of the movie "Home Day on the Beach ".
For the first time, Li Lie felt that this man looked very much like his father, so he had the idea of marrying him.
Mao Xuewei
So, she decisively got together with Mao Xuewei despite her mother's firm opposition.
Unfortunately, this marriage lasted only two years and was declared over due to incompatibility in personality and other reasons.
Li Lie in "Story of Small Town"
Li Lie did not come out of the sky, Luo Dayou was calm and unsurprising.
But they met when they were in their early 20s and were as close as brothers.
In 1989, Li Lie made the most wrong decision.
She and her friends invested more than 10 million yuan to open a garment factory in Dalian.
also has branches in Beijing, Shanghai, Nanjing, Shenyang and other places.
As a result, this investment made her lose all her money, and she didn't even have a dime in her passbook.
At the most difficult moment, she thought of "male best friend" Luo Dayou.
So she came to Hong Kong and lived with Luo Dayou "justified".
Luo Dayou and Li Lie
are both people who have been hurt by love. They don’t need too much communication, and the relationship goes on naturally.
At that time, Luo Dayou's career was in the rising period, and Li Lie was also very busy.
In this year, Luo Dayou's film music album " Returning Hometown in Glory " was released, and the love song album " Farewell to the Era " was released.
In addition, he also wrote a column in Hong Kong's " Oriental Daily " and made a lot of money.
is almost forty, and Luo Dayou is often "forced to marry" by his parents.
Once upon a time, he found Li Lie many times, hoping to get married as soon as possible and fulfill his parents' wishes.
But every time I mention it, I am always "politely rejected" by Li Lie.
After experiencing the last failed marriage, Li Lie has long felt fear of marriage.
In her opinion, falling in love is OK, but getting married is definitely not OK!
Data picture
In this way, the marriage between the two gradually wasted by the years.
It was not until 1990, the second year after Luo’s father passed away that this pair of “hard lovers” entered the marriage hall.
In Li Lie's words: Luo Dayou is actually afraid of getting married. If it weren't for being forced by his parents, we might have gone on like this.
Li Lie participated in the program "Love is a must"
The life after marriage was soon destroyed by reality.
When they are not married, they are the best brothers, or even confidants.
However, after really sharing the same bed and being tied together by life, I can no longer find common topics.
Over time, the two of them went from talking about everything, step by step to nothing.
Days of having different beds and dreams are undoubtedly the biggest torment for couples.
Therefore, their marriage came to an end after one year and nine months of persistence.
Luo Dayou Concert
Compared with the previous marriage, Li Lie seems to value the combination with Luo Dayou more.
Every time she is interviewed, she always avoids it and washes away the bitter past with tears.
and Luo Dayou was also hurt by this relationship.
In order not to be hurt anymore, he dared not date girls easily, for fear of hurting others and himself.
In those years, he held his concert to the mainland, so busy that he was overwhelmed.
Luo Dayou and Li Lie
During the concert tour in Shanghai, Hangzhou, Nanjing, Kunming and other places, fans listened to him singing affectionately, but did not know that his emotional world was already full of holes.
In 2002, Luo Dayou fell in love with the mainland.
He bought a house in Beijing and decided to stay with music until he was old.
But only two years later, because he could not adapt to the living habits in the north, he had to return to the "Pearl of the East".
vertical line combination
In 2009, Luo Dayou joined the " vertical line SuperBand" and started a year-long world tour concert with his old friends Lee Zongsheng, Zhou Huajian, Zhang Zhenyue and others.
Here, their footprints cover 42 cities and have as many as 48 performances.
vertical line concert
At the same time, they also launched albums such as " Northbound Train " and " Southbound Train ".
It is said that time drives people to grow old, and Luo Dayou is naturally no exception.
In 2010, at the age of 56, he had to face the fact that his mother was getting old.
The mother's consciousness gradually became blurred, but she has always remained awake for the marriage of the "old son".
There are three unfilial things, and there is no descendant!
What's more, Luo Dayou was still an "old bachelor" at this time!
Every time he gets with his mother, he will always be asked by his mother whether he has a girlfriend, whether he plans to get married, etc.
Luo Dayou
And these happen to be something he wants to avoid.
From childhood to adulthood, Luo Dayou was a filial child.
Back then, he quit his job as a doctor in order to realize his dream of music, which made his father very sad.
Now, if my mother is "hateful" because she doesn't get married, it would be really unfilial!
When thinking about this, this music tycoon, who is nearly sixty years old, decided to go on a blind date.
After a friend introduced him, he met Elaine, a bank employee 13 years younger than him.
Luo Dayou and Elaine
Elaine are beautiful and caught Luo Dayou's attention in an instant.
Luo Dayou's musical talent also deeply attracted Elaine.
After falling in love, Elaine couldn't help asking: I'm going to get married, and I'll have a few more children in the future...
Elaine didn't drag her back when facing the person she liked.
She doesn't care about Luo Dayou's previous love history, but she hopes to go with him forever.
The prerequisite for being able to work together to live a lifetime is the key!
Luo Dayou
Before meeting Elaine, Luo Dayou still insisted on dink .
Because he loves music, he wants to "go all the way to the dark" on the music road.
Even if you get married, you are forced to not let your mother be sad.
But at this time, his thoughts had changed drastically.
Even if it is the brightest star in the entertainment industry, you should have your own children.
Otherwise, this life will be incomplete!
Luo Dayou Tour Concert Press Conference
Several years after marriage, the old couple has always been "working hard", but they have no harvest.
In order to make Elaine pregnant, Luo Dayou took her around to seek medical treatment, and her footprints spread across Hong Kong, Bangkok and other places.
Unfortunately, 43-year-old Elaine has almost zero chance of raising her baby due to physical reasons.
Finally, Luo Dayou thought of doing "in vitro fertilization".
With the development of the times, medical technology has also made rapid progress.
If the "child dream" can be fulfilled through surgery, no matter how much the cost is, it will be spared.
After some discussion between the couple, Elaine readily agreed.
She is a traditional Chinese woman and always adheres to this concept in her heart: if you love someone, you must have a baby for him!
In Beijing, Luo Dayou and Elaine completed operations such as egg retrieval, sperm retrieval, and in vitro fertilization. The next step was a long wait.
15 days later, Elaine successfully conceived.
Hearing this good news, Luo Dayou cried with joy.
He put down all his work and never left his wife since then.
On August 15, 2012, Elaine gave birth to her daughter "Little Ronaldo" for her husband's caesarean section in Hong Kong.
Luo Dayou and his daughter
I have a son when I am old, and the 58-year-old Luo Dayou instantly shines red.
When his daughter was 3 years old, he planned to teach her all his musical talents.
As the saying goes, "a tiger father has no dog daughter", this is true and not a lie!
html When he was 06 years old, Ronaldo was able to play many songs of his father on the piano.Her childhood became exciting and complicated in her father's "Childhood" and "The Story of Time".
has concerns, no matter how busy or tired Luo Dayou is, he will go home on time.
Because he is too fond of his wife and daughter, he has two other nicknames: Wife-possessed maniac and female-possed maniac.
Luo Dayou's family of three
2022, Luo Dayou was 68 years old.
Although he is nearly 70 years old, he is still in good spirits.
It’s not that he is not old, but he dares not grow old.
At the end of the article, I will give a lyric of Luo Dayou to friends who are reading this article:
The flowers bloom in spring, the wind in autumn and the sun in winter
The melancholy young me, I once thought so ignorantly
The windmill in the song of the four seasons, it flows every day
The poem of wind and flowers, snow and moon, and the growth year by year
The story of the flowing water, it takes away time, and changes a person...
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