The National Day holiday is coming
Some parents are willing to spend nearly 10,000
prepare to send their children to military training camp
But with short-term military training
can really make children "change their habit of procrastination and laziness"
transform from a "naughty child" into "other people's children"
read " China Consumer News " reporter investigated
parents have expectations for training camp
searched multiple online platforms and found that there are military training camps in various places, which recruit more students aged 7 to 16, and the training days are mostly 7 to 30 days, with prices ranging from 3,000 yuan to 10,000 yuan. What military training are available in
training camp? The reporter sorted out the enrollment brochures and videos of each training camp and found that the training subjects and training intensity of different training camps are different. Some training camps have relatively mild training, including field rescue training, boxing training, popularization of gun knowledge, and other courses; while some training camps are called "devil training". In their promotional videos, the training content includes crawling in muddy fields and puddles and carrying heavy-bearing off-road.
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It is understood that many parents send their children to military training camps to endure hardships, which is to get rid of their children's bad habits. They believe that short-term hardships are to temper their children's will and will be of great benefit to their children's future growth. "If you don't suffer today, you will suffer more in the future. Only when you are young will you endure more and suffer a lot will your child become sensible." During the interview, Liu Jin, a mother of an 8-year-old boy in Beijing, told a reporter from China Consumer News.
Change children's personality and cannot "quickly achieve"
Reporter saw that some military training camps put out propaganda slogans are "Find training camps for rebellious children", "Targeting teenagers in the rebellious period", and "Education on behavioral habit correction". After training, will the child really change?
Liu Jin told reporters: "After the child participated in the training camp, he knew to collect the dishes and chopsticks after dinner, and he also knew to get up on time and fold the quilts. He was no longer the 'hands-off manager', and he washed all his own small clothes by himself. These changes made us very happy." But she also had a worry in her heart, that is, when the 14-day closed training, the first thing the child said when he saw her was "Don't let me come again, the coach is too fierce, I have a psychological shadow."
A parent of another 12-year-old girl in Beijing told reporters: "The child seems to have no changes after military training. She only says she is tired when she goes home. She only eats and sleeps for two whole days. She originally wanted to let her endure hardships and frustrations in training to exercise her courage and stress resistance. Unexpectedly, after returning home, she will continue to see any changes."
The starting point of parents is similar, hoping that the children will be educated and become more perfect in training, but at most one month of training is not the magic medicine for education.
Chairman of the Propaganda and Education Professional Committee of the Chinese Society of Family Education and Professor of Communication University of China, told the reporter of China Consumer News:
"The educational concept of blindly advocating hardship is questionable. The cultivation of children's strength, courage and ability to resist setbacks is to give them firm support when they encounter difficulties, so that they can generate trust in the family and society, and face challenges more calmly. Frustration education does not make children numb to setbacks, but makes children not afraid of setbacks.
Let children endure hardships and suffer setbacks, such as parents hit ml2 camping , jointly perform sports, face and overcome difficulties when encountering difficulties during activities.
, and each child has a different personality. Some children have weak resistance to stress, so they cannot adopt high-pressure methods, otherwise it may have a negative effect on their children's psychology." Xia, founder of the Super Military Summer Camp, told the China Consumer News reporter: "In training camps, children live collective life. If the overall environment changes, their behavior will also change. Bad habits such as procrastination and laziness will temporarily disappear. But when they get home, the environment and requirements are not strict in the training camp, the children will relax."
Tang Yuanqing also said that the development of habits and morality cannot be achieved overnight, but requires long-term cultivation, including parents' leading by example, actively communicating with their children on the basis of respect, and guiding them.
Choosing the wrong training institution is contrary to their wishes
Recently, many media reported that some parents reported that their children participated in the training of the Hunan War Eagle Military Academy opened by Hunan War Eagle Quality Outdoor Development Co., Ltd. If the child did not develop good habits, he learned to swear. After learning from the child, he learned that the instructor would swear casually and kick the child if he was disobedient. The reporter found through the National Enterprise Credit Information Disclosure System inquiry that the company was established in December 2021, but the reporter called it many times but no one answered it.
Battleman Xia told reporters: "At present, the quality of military training camps and summer camps is uneven, and not many people really meet the requirements. Temporary is the biggest problem in this industry. Because training camps are carried out during holidays, summer vacation is the most concentrated period. At the end of the holiday, there will be no students, and there is no need to keep the personnel and venues. Therefore, many institutions have contracts with instructors for one or two months. Many people with no teaching experience will be called to serve as temporary instructors during the holidays. Some institutions temporarily rent a venue for training and accommodation during the opening period. From the venue to the personnel, they are temporarily rented, and there is no need to talk about the teaching syllabus and teaching research, and there is no way to talk about the quality of teaching. "
reporter learned that on December 14, 2021, the General Office of the General Administration of Sports of China issued the " Extracurricular Sports Training Conduct Code ", requiring training institutions to file with the local sports bureau, and have specific requirements for teachers, venues, etc. There is a lot of physical energy consumption in military training, will the training camp be included in the supervision? The reporter asked Beijing Municipal Education Commission through the hotline, and relevant persons said, Education Commission is only responsible for the education management within the subject. The reporter called Beijing Sports Bureau and the reply was that "The Sports Bureau only has specific requirements for the development of off-campus sports for youth."
A person who has been involved in holding various training camps and summer camps for many years told reporters: "In terms of supervision, there are no clear management regulations and qualification requirements for military training camps and summer camps, so there is a situation where the market is mixed. "
How to choose a reliable training camp
Military training camp provides training programs that are challenged at the same time in physical and psychological conditions. For children with poor self-protection awareness and weak discernment, it is particularly important for parents to choose a suitable training institution.
① On-site inspection of the camp
Military training is a camp-style education, and training grounds and food and accommodation guarantees are important. At the same time, you must pay attention to whether the training institution is equipped with medical staff and psychological counselors to properly and effectively deal with possible emergencies.
② It is necessary to look at the teacher
to understand whether the institution has a complete teaching system and whether the instructor has sufficient professional knowledge and educational experience. Try to interview and understand the instructor's own experience and ability. It is also necessary to examine whether the institution has a complete, systematic and scientific training plan and instructor training system.
③ Carefully check the training materials of previous years
. Pay attention to whether there is a huge gap in the height of children in the training team. Too large gap in children's height means a big gap in age. Training is targeted, and the training intensity and methods for children of different ages are different.
. It is obviously inexperienced and irresponsible to adopt the same training method regardless of age.
. Reporter/Li Yanjing
. Source: China Consumer News
