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There is a question on Zhihu:
"What is your biggest feeling after watching the movie "Beautiful Life"?"
netizen "Luo Mu"'s answer impressed me the most:
"Although this is a movie full of "lies",
, but it is performed very sincerely. In the first half of
, the male protagonist Guido is full of "bad water".
first uses lies to grab the attention of his lover,
and then creates various surprises,
finally wins the beauty. In the second half of
, Guido lied and deceived his son,
regarded the suffering of the concentration camp as a game of earning points to get tanks,
protected his son's pure heart.
He is a unique person,
is used to the fight back when facing suffering.
Perhaps, life is a comedy,
Whoever can persist,
who is the winner. "
The plot of this movie is not complicated. The first half of
shows the hero's pursuit of love, and the second half of
interprets the hero's waiting journey of family affection. The main line of
is simple and clear, but the meaning is profound.
Douban 74+ million people scored 9.5 points.
Whether it is love or family affection,
Guido uses his own Experience has proved that
Interesting people can often live out their most exciting self.
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Guido's fun is reflected in many details:
The people who were welcomed by the street mistakenly thought it was the king,
in a blink of an eye, happily declared that they were the real prince;
first arrived at Luo Macheng , he and his friends were like crazy,
laughed happily on the street, jumping and jumping;
exchanged the old white-washed hat for someone else's brand new hat;
and the doctor had puzzles, tramping each other in a cloud of confusion;
pretended to be a school official to go to school to inspect work,
jumped onto the table to perform a show to make the goddess happy;
turned sideways in the theater Looking at the goddess, I have long forgotten the stage performance;
is in the concentration camp, and ventures into the radio room to play music,
boldly confesses to his wife, "I miss you so much";
deceives his son and says that we are playing games in the concentration camp,
is not a coolie under the persecution of the Nazis... These performances have amazed many netizens:
"Wow, I am with such a person,
is so happy every day! "
stay with interesting people, boiled water can taste sweet.
Many people think that to be happy in life, it takes a lot of money.
But Guido is not a wealthy and handsome family,
He is just an ordinary person from the countryside:
Rely on being a waiter to make a living,
looks stupid and not tall,
is often elusive, how can you say,
is definitely not the prince charming in the eyes of the world,
0 It is not an exaggeration to say that he is a clown.
But he did not give up on himself and blame others.
instead turned his ordinary life into a poem,
brought laughter to the people around him.
is this optimistic and interesting personality.
made the heroine Dora give up her upper-class fiancé,
willing to ride on his bicycle.
writer Wilde said:
"Living in the gutter, you still have the right to look up at the stars." ”
Whether it is an ordinary person or aristocratic elite,
From the moment it was given life,
has the right to choose how to face life.
is just, have you noticed it?
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In China, the highest evaluation of a person is,
is mainly related to the success of your career.
, such as money, power, and famous.
seems to have abundant material conditions and can squander it.
is the proof of happiness.
But in foreign countries, "interesting" is the highest evaluation of a person.
is the same in appearance.
has a good look, and has an interesting soul. has one out of 70,000.
is good-looking and rich, and these things are relatively easy to get.
but an interesting soul requires long-term self-cultivation. How to deal with the current dilemma, how to face future risks,
all require long-term reflection and summary.
forms a deep neural groove in the brain,
can be cast into personality traits,
and ultimately reflected in conversation.
Whether a person is interesting or not,
can be seen by a simple conversation.
If a person cares about fame, wealth and power,
He is destined to be trapped in fame, wealth and fortune in his life,
is bound by all kinds of boring trivial matters.
masks will grow on the face if worn for too long.
In his interactions with others, what he showed was:
bowing his eyebrows to the powerful and his contempt and contempt for the ordinary,
Because he had long been accustomed to climbing the dragon and holding the phoenix and flattering the spirit.
. If a person pursues the fun of life,
in every move, he will show generousness, generosity, neither humility nor arrogantness. The more he talks, the more refreshed the other person feels.
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Having said so much, how can you become an interesting person?
is interesting, not just telling jokes or jokes, it is fun,
is not just belittled and elevating others.
these can be called humor,
but it cannot be called interesting.
Lin Yutang
once divided life into several types according to the degree of human tendency towards reality, dreams and humor:
reality-dream=beast,
reality+dream=idealism,
reality+humor=realism,
dream-humor=blind fanatic,
dream+humor=fantasy,
dream+humor=fantasy,
dream+reality+humor=wisdom.
In my opinion, only "wisdom" is truly interesting.
Because it has both dreams and is not out of reality,
is between the huge gap between dreams and reality,
chooses to face everything with humor,
This is not only a manifestation of wisdom,
is also an interesting manifestation,
can only be called an interesting person.
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First of all, what is a dream?
Dream is the goal you want to achieve and the height you want to achieve.
It can make people feel the meaning of living, and
can make people look forward to tomorrow.
2019 UFC (Ultimate Fighting Championship) world champion Zhang Weili ,
When he was in the front desk in the gym,
dreamed of becoming the world champion of UFC.
How crazy was this dream at that time?
Chinese players have never entered the top ten, and the difficulty of winning the
can be imagined.
When she resigned to concentrate on training, even though she was seriously injured, causing her upper body to be disconnected from her lower body, and
's body could not move at all,
never gave up on this dream.
When she went to the United States alone to participate in the UFC competition and
won the sixth place,
never had any Asian players to get such a good result,
but she still refused to stop there,
must win the championship!
The great roc rose with the wind in one day, soaring up to 90,000 miles.
's high desire for dreams is her gentleness.
made her not care about the other party's cold expression when facing the previous champion Andrade,
completely ignored how cruel the other party was before winning the championship.
In the end, she won the gold belt and became the new generation of UFC champion.
Einstein said:
"Everyone has his own ideal, and this ideal determines the direction of his efforts and judgment."
Dreams are like a lighthouse,
guide us to the future at night.
, Guido in adversity,
is also dreaming of the reunion of a family of three,
dreaming of his son growing up simply and happily,
has survived countless exhausted days, and
has survived countless nights of despair.
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Then, what is reality?
Reality not only refers to the life and work that you come into contact with every day, but also the various people and things you encounter every day. What’s more important is that as time goes by day,
is how you allocate your time and energy.
In addition to 8 hours of sleep and 8 hours of work,
has another 8 hours. What have you done?
Some people have developed hobbies and even side jobs, while others have become dissatisfied with the current living environment,
begin to escape reality and become addicted to the virtual world,
They chat online, play games, watch videos, and shop online.
Good morning, my princess!
famous American writer Jerry Spinelli said:
"Today is not yesterday, nor tomorrow, today is just today."
live in the present, cherish every day of the present,
does not feel guilty for the regrets of the past,
is not frightened by the uncertainty of the future, although
does not need to fight every second,
, but should not find various excuses to waste your time.
sets goals for yourself, which is a good way to grasp the present.
You can use a notebook and use your mobile phone to record the harvest of the day, and
to see your growth process. In the video of
, Guido set a clear goal from the beginning,
he wants to open a bookstore and he wants to date the goddess.
Although both goals were quite difficult in the early stage,
, after a long period of persistence, the two goals of
finally got what they wanted.
Guido, who was born in the bottom class,
was not immersed in complaints about the past,
was not anxious about how to gain a foothold in Rome,
he just did what he should do now.
And during the days when he entered the concentration camp,
he also insisted on "not fearing the future, not thinking about the past". The life in the concentration camp of
is terrible.
not only can’t eat enough, wear warm clothes, and sleep well,
also has heavy physical work every day.
may be beaten to death if you move slowly.
is simply a life that is worse than death.
But Guido is completely different from others.
He neither sighs destiny and misses his past wealth.
does not blindly fantasize about escaping from the beautiful life of the concentration camp.
he just provides him with the best every time he can make his son happy.
he uses step by step actions,
to weave a beautiful fairy tale for his son.
makes him believe that this is indeed a game. Lu Wenli, the initiator of
Happiness Coach Alliance, said:
"Living in the present, the present is the life we are having.
Time is composed of countless "nows",
Do what you are doing now,
Experience the feeling of the present,
Live with your heart, which is the real life. "
There is no doubt that living the present is the most important thing.
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Finally, what is humor?
On the surface, the value of humor is to make people laugh and make people happy ,
, in essence, humor is a kind of 's ability to transform real life .
deeply understands the cruelty of the real world,
tactfully expresses his feelings,
can reduce the intensity of others' ruthless feelings about reality.
in the video, Guido's humor runs through the whole time, needless to say.
actor Huang Bo has a good popularity in the entertainment industry,
many people praise him for his high emotional intelligence, which is very interesting.
looks ordinary, He is only 170 and has no outstanding temperament. Most people will think that if you enter the entertainment industry in this way,
may have to be a supporting role in your whole life.
But if you look at his resume, you will know that his acting career is very successful.
not only won many awards such as the Golden Horse Award for Best Actor,
was also promoted to director, and made a good reputation " A Good Show ".
can be said to be doing well, and
has a lot to do with his emotional intelligence.
No matter what occasion he is in, he knows what to say.
can avoid the other party’s embarrassment and make the other party feel comfortable.
Lin Chiling said many times before marriage that
If Huang Bo is not married, he will definitely pursue him actively.
Everyone knows that in the issue of " Extreme Challenge ",
Huang Bo's words made Lin Chiling burst into tears:
"I hope one day,
can see a smile from the bottom of your face,
instead of the smile in the script."
humor is because the bones are full of kindness,
he can't bear to let others see the blood of life,
so he stuffed you a handful of candy,
let you feel the sweetness of reality.
Whether it is work or life,
is cruel and ruthless.
people's enthusiasm is often hit.
Humor is like a solid weapon,
can let us compete with it.
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Reality, dreams and humor are the three components of the soul's interestingness.
lacks the down-to-earth of reality,
people will become self-proclaimed on paper;
lacks the longing for dreams,
people will become rough and boring realism;
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Only when you have both of three can you become a wise person,
and only such a wise person can be considered truly interesting.
After watching many domestic and foreign movies, I found that
Guido is well deserved to be synonymous with fun.
We all envy the heroine for meeting such a partner.
But before waiting for that interesting soul to arrive,
Why don’t you let yourself become such a person first?
