I kneel down. Paper wall wraps me, flames burn me, I am the life you left behind, light and scattered all over the floor.
Filial piety is the deepest mark in the traditional Chinese culture. Parents are here, and they don’t travel far away; their bodies and hair are accepted by their parents; no one’s actions are greater than filial piety, etc.
people's praise and awe of filial piety from ancient times to the present, from the heart and in their actions. has a story about the twenty-four filial piety of "Cutting the Fleeing Mother" that has been passed down to this day.
The greatest responsibility of children after their parents die is burial, and their greatest wish is to keep mourning in front of the spirit. After that, they will burn paper to commemorate and express their condolences every year.
What is the greatest pain and humiliation in the world? It must be that the spiritual position of the parents was destroyed!
In ancient times, it was an irreconcilable hatred.
However, this really happened in reality.
Recently, an earthquake occurred in Taitung, my country. An 800 urns placed in rows of cabinets in a funeral home were tilted to the ground and broken all over the floor as the cabinet shaking violently.
800 urns, all the ashes inside were scattered on the ground, mixed together, and it was difficult to distinguish. The families were so anxious that they cried bitterly.
The broken one is the hearts of the family!
But things have happened, natural disasters, what should I do? Some netizens suggested that since God wants to "national unity", it is better to bury the scattered ashes again, and everyone will pay tribute to the . The name of the big jar is called "Chinese Family".
Some netizens also said that it was all because of the fact that the children were reluctant to buy a cemetery or an urn that would not break even if they were more expensive, so they would end up like this today.
Some netizens even said that they don’t want cemeteries or urns in the future. sprinkle the ashes into the sea without causing trouble for future generations.
In fact, we value the graves of our ancestors and spiritual positions . is essentially to express our grief and thoughts for our ancestors.
What we value is the expression of our own filial piety. The ancients could not find the body, some were made into tombs, and some were treasured to see and think of others.
Faced with graves or urns, is just a more realistic feeling of witnessing with your own eyes. can more arouse your memories of the past and remember your ancestors.
I quite agree with netizens’ suggestions for joint burial. Since we cannot be separated, it is better to obey the will of heaven. The ancestors’ spirit in heaven will no longer be alone.
Family members will also get to know each other because of this special fate. This is God's will to make everyone become brothers and sisters. In the future, everyone will come to worship, and no family will lose their incense. This kind of family affection is so rare.
So, it is indeed heartbreaking that the urns of are broken and mixed together, but you should relax from another perspective!
Back to the topic of commemorating our ancestors. No matter how painful the mourning is, I feel that it is not as good as washing your parents' feet and making a meal for you during your lifetime...
There are many parents who have endured the hardest hardships in the world for their children during their lifetime, and have done the most tiring work in the world. They have worked hard to raise their children. until they die of breath and they always think about giving the eggs to their children for their food. still lives in a house with leaks at the village entrance.
In contrast, the children live in beautiful villas and drive a grand car. In order to reduce the burden of pension, they deliberately divide households and houses. They would rather spend money to get a minimum living allowance for their parents through the back door than take their parents home.
After death, he was very generous. showed his filial piety and "burned" his parents with a lot of money, villas, and furniture.
isn’t it for others to see? People like are more hateful than those who are unfilial because they are hypocritical.
Although we have been in a decades, we don’t have much time to spend with our parents. The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the son wants to support his parents but his parents are not waiting.
Starting to go to school at the age of three, we can only see our parents for 8 hours a day; when we are twelve, we can only see our parents for 2 days a month; when we are 18, we can only go home twice a year, and after graduation and marriage, we may not go home for the New Year.
So, while you still have the opportunity to be with your parents, do more for them!
