variety show " My Daughter 2" is currently on the air. At the beginning of the show, it puts out four social focus topics: love, marriage, family and life.
tries to show how female celebrities get along with society and how they get along with themselves. It can be seen that the program team is still very ambitious. They not only want entertainment, but also want to pursue the depth of content. After the
program was broadcast, the express delivery piled up in front of Lin Yun attracted a large number of viewers' attention, and even doubled to the hot search.
Lin Yun's image in variety shows is very similar to a girl in her 20s. She suffers from severe hoarding, full of clothes and various cosmetics, and is still enjoying it trying all kinds of fresh gadgets.
repeatedly struggled between stocking up and not stocking up. Driven by the desire to stock up, he could not suppress the power of the vast body, stuffing his home full of energy and unable to move his feet.
Survive in the cracks in the piles of items. Even opening the door to get a takeaway is like crossing mountains and ridges. Even Zhang Xinzhe burst into tears when he heard it.
and the other daughter Wang Ou 's living status is different. There is no fireworks in the whole room, and it looks like a model room.
Wang Ou himself is the same. He doesn’t play with his mobile phone, doesn’t want to try any fresh content, and is comfortable in his life, and he is bored in capital.
Wang Ou's daily routine is to walk back and forth in the room and turn on the lights or turn them upside down.
is like a walking machine without emotions, even her dog is like this.
After seeing the scene where Lin Yun tried various beauty instruments.
Wang Ou admitted that if it were himself, he would only choose a suitable thing that was easy to use, and then continue to use it, and he would not try anything fresh again.
Compared with Lin Yun’s various clothes, Wang Ou’s home only has simple, generous and practical styles, all of which are very simple colors.
Maybe even the program team felt that her living status was too boring, so in the subsequent episodes, she arranged some ice skating and rock climbing, which was called: Get out of her comfort zone.
can be seen on Wang Ou's face, we can see that she is completely resistant to these activities, but it is just a job she takes. Her participation in these activities is just due to the cooperation and obedience to the work task arrangement.
Similar to Wang Ou is Zhang Bichen , which may be deceived by the screen image singing "Liangliang" and "Year Rings".
In the eyes of many passers-by, Zhang Bichen should be an intellectual and elegant woman.
But Zhang Bichen has a very manly personality, very much like a boy, straightforward and unpretentious, and is a walking Uncle Zhang. The clothes at home are very few than those of ordinary female stars. She is really a fairy on stage and a straight man off stage.
Zhang Bichen's closet is full of sweatshirts, which are basically loose, comfortable and simple, and the shoes are also flat shoes and sports shoes.
at first glance, she did not have gorgeous, elegant and feminine high heels and dresses, nor did she have cosmetics. She herself did not accept very feminine clothes, and could not accept exposing her thighs. She had a more straight aesthetic attitude than a straight man.
Her friends want to transform her image and take her out shopping for clothes. Zhang Bichen pulled out with a capital-proof face. Compared to the excitement of some girls who were full of fire as soon as they arrived at the mall, Zhang Bichen just collapsed on the sofa.
In the end, I didn’t choose the right clothes, but instead I fell in love with the sofa in the store.
We can see the essential differences from the comparison and summary of Lin Yun, Wang Ou and Zhang Bichen’s living status.
Lin Yun belongs to which type of person who adds in life, maintains the girlish heart and enthusiasm for life, constantly increases his life experience, constantly explores and tries in life.
have good male friends around them, as well as good female friends.
normal daily routine is to put on makeup, study new hairstyles, play clothes and wear clothes, check in at milk tea shops, skiing, and take beautiful photos.
In short, life is very lively.
It can be said that her life is very exciting and interesting. She turned her daily life into an idol drama, which also conforms to the beautiful longing of many young girls for a sweet life.
And Wang Ou and Zhang Bichen are people who subtract in their lives. Perhaps they may look a little lonely and boring because they are not lively enough, so the spectators will not feel happy.
"Getting out of the comfort zone of life" among the people is not necessarily so worthy of praise. For example, Huang Yali , she is creating beauty in her little life.
not only has her own musical pursuit in spirit, but also uses a "borrowing light plan" to achieve it, but she also lives an enviable life ahead of the rich people in the urban jungle.
People’s energy is limited. Finding your own circle and drilling deep into the circle is also a good choice.
Japanese craftsman Akagi Akito visited 20 craftsmen and wrote "Creation is Spiritual and Beautiful" through their records and self-indulgence. This is also a book representing the spirit of Japanese craftsmen.
From minimalist to extreme, from extreme to craftsman.
The book says:
The process of making utensils is a process of communicating with materials from beginning to end. We create new things through encountering and knowing with materials. In this process, we can feel a material, something similar to personality from the material, and sometimes even seems to be able to touch the divine realm from the material. The world is filled with unknowns, and materials are born from this. Through materials, we integrate into the nature of heaven and earth, and we will find that inside ourselves, there is also a mysterious and unknown nature, as vast as the sea.
Huang Yali is the personal practice of this matter. She was suddenly withdrawn when her personal concert was about to be held.
When she was in a low mood, she used a used straw to piece together a starry sky, which was why she realized the value of art and self.
She designed her own rental house "Yamada Shin".
The pavilion is towering, the vegetable field is two ridges, and the shaded pavilion is made of used old trees, with its own vegetable garden and fireplace.
Life picture is very enviable, it is Li Ziqi who lives in the entertainment industry.
Huang Yali said in the show that impressed me:
Houses are rented, days are not rented, only the present is real.
She is not the richest and most popular one among the stars. Her ability to live in an enviable way is the purity of the spiritual world.
is because she subtracts in her life and cuts off unimportant attempts and experiences, so she frees up time and energy to create her own exquisiteness.
She built her own mountains and rivers in the house. From then on, the mountains and rivers are vast and the fireworks on earth are all visible.
versus Wang Ou, who is also doing subtraction, the reason why Wang Ou feels bored and lonely (at least from the show) is not because she does subtraction, but because she has not found the core support point of her life, that is, what she really loves.
The empty place in the spiritual world, if there is nothing to fill it, you will naturally feel empty.
Episode 0, in the 21st century, who is not lonely? Only the love and fullness in the spiritual world can fill the loneliness in life and make yourself calm and tranquil.
For example, Jobs, his home is like the minimalist madman in the Japanese drama "My Home is Humble". There is almost no furniture or decorations, and his clothes are all black because he doesn't want to waste time picking clothes.
Jobs spent his entire life entirely on Apple. This ultimate feeling after minimalism allowed him to build the Apple Empire. The spiritual minimalism is the real minimalism .
Thorough of wrote in his famous book "Walden ":
A nitpicking person can pick out flaws even in heaven. Love your life, even if it is poor. Even in a slum courtyard, you may enjoy a pleasant, exciting and brilliant time. The setting sunset in the west reflects the afterglow on the windows of the slums' yard, as bright as the mansions of wealthy families; the snow in front of the door melts in early spring. I only see that a calm and relaxed person can live a happy life there, holding an uplifting and optimistic mind, as if living in a palace.
May you find the love in your heart and live a simple and prosperous life.
