Everyone will inevitably say goodbye to some friends during the growth process, and it will gradually get farther away.
can meet someone from a young child, grow up with yourself, have heart to each other, have common dreams, and work hard for them together, and support each other through their lives. Such friendship is really rare.
This may also be the reason why everyone is addicted to "Ben Motor". Hollywood brotherhood represents Matt Damon (Matt Damon, hereinafter referred to as "Daimeng") and Ben Affleck (Ben Affleck, hereinafter referred to as "Ben Ben),
For the first time when they met when they were 10 years old and 8 years old, they have become Hollywood's first-line superstars.
has the glory of standing side by side on the Oscar podium, and there are also companions during the low point of life. For nearly forty years, they have interpreted "a rare confidant in life."
Two teenagers living in Pearl Street
Cute and Daben can be said to be authentic "Bamboo" . They grew up together in Boston. The two houses of are not far away, and there is a street in the middle called Pearl Street.
Remember the point of "Pearl Street" and you will be tested later.
At that time, he was 10 years old and 8 years old. These two children, who were two years apart, began their lifelong friendship with each other.
now seems to be two years apart, which is actually nothing, but considering the time points revealed in their interview, it is actually quite magical to be able to last this friendship.
Because children usually tend to play with friends of the same age and grade, when Dai Meng was in high school, Da Meng was still in junior high school, Dai Meng was in the third year of high school, Da Meng was still a freshman in high school.
Think about it like this, it is quite incredible that a freshman in high school and a senior high school student is good friends.
But they didn't seem to have such troubles, always standing firmly beside each other, is now cute and recalling his last fight in the mid-1980s, Da Ben is by his side, saving him from danger.
You should know that the big book at that time was not as tall as it is now, and she was just a shorter boy, but when she saw Dai Meng was about to be beaten, she immediately rushed up to protect him.
Daimeng When she was interviewed, her tone was filled with the pride of the young man standing up for him.
"At that time, the school was closed because of the snow, so everyone went to Cambridge Park to play rugby.
I scolded a few words for a friend I know. He was almost two meters tall. On the other hand, I was only about 1.6 meters tall, and I forgot what I said. Anyway, the young man was going to beat me up.
From my perspective, it was like Mount Tai was pressing against me.
I I thought to myself, it’s over, and before I can react, I was already thrown to the ground, and the young man pressed on me.
I thought, this time it would definitely be miserable, but at this moment, Ben Affleck , who was only 157 at the time, suddenly rushed over and pushed the person on me away. "
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In the cute and cute heart of young people, I saw Da Ben stand on his side and protect him even if he sacrificed his life. From that moment on, the boat of friendship between the two set sail.
They occupy a long time in each other's lives and are very important. The long timeline of friendship has not blurred the touching moments that once brought shock. Instead, they remember these moments in their hearts and never forget them.
Daimeng remembers Daben sacrificed himself to save him, and Daben has always remembered that Daimeng is his reason for being a firm actor.
Because my mother has a friend who is a casting director, Da Ben has been acting since he was a child, but he did not really make up his mind to do this at that time.
is a cute existence, which gives them common goals and dreams.
"Before meeting Matt, I was alone. Acting was my own business. I just swayed around and appeared on a small TV show or something. No one around me understood this.
Suddenly, I had a friend, Matt. He understood my feelings and acted. He also wanted to do this. He thought acting was fun and wanted to talk about it with me.
Soon, we both started acting."
After they had a common dream - after making a movie, their obsession with this goal ran through the adolescence of both of them.
"We all fell in love with one thing - performance and film production. I think in this period of growing up and really important years,
is nourished by each other's obsession with performance, and it really connects us permanently."
When they were in high school, they would go to have the so-called "business lunch" together and make plans for the future. Looking back now, it may feel that the two children are stupid and pretending to be adults.
But the dream of teenagers is shining because of this sincerity. They truly regard each other as fellow travelers. On the way to pursue their goals, the two teenagers must move forward side by side.
A lollipop must be divided into two halves
Teenagers want to set foot in the colorful Hollywood, which is extremely difficult to think about.
But the cute and young calf are not afraid of tigers, and may also be with each other's company, so they have more courage.
When Dai Meng was 16 years old and Big Ben was 14 years old, they officially started to travel back and forth to audition for . At this time, they really rely on their passion to pursue their dreams. After all, considering the instability of the actor's job, although they did not object, they did not support their children to do this.
But they supported each other and defended their parents the right to choose their acting career. When I think back occasionally, I couldn't help but sigh that I was so young at that time.
"We took the bus to New York by ourselves and spent a day auditioning. We were so young. The two of us teenagers were a bit like living an adult life."
And in the eyes of Da Ben, this past is like a child pretending to be an adult. After all, he was two years younger than Dai Meng at that time.
"We can take the train, sometimes even take the plane, spending about twenty dollars to buy tickets. At that time, you can still smoke on the plane.
We both smoke like idiots because we thought we should be adults.
is too stupid."
In addition to auditioning together, the best thing about both of them is that they have a common bank account, and the money in it is earned by two people on advertisements.
is equivalent to their dream-chasing fund . You can only use the money in this account when you need to pay for the audition in New York.
Advertisements taken when I was a child
didengra said in an interview with CNN in 2011 that this attitude of two people making money together and spending together to pursue their dreams is very natural, because their friendship always follows these rules.
"If a person has enough money to buy a lollipop, buy this lollipop and eat it with two people. This is what they have always done."
After they both went from children filming advertisements to actors who worked hard to make a living, they still had a common income.
If one person has a filming and got a role, then the other person can also use this money until the next character appears.
This kind of friendship that "even if there is only one lollipop, two people need to separate" is not envious.
When I was young, there was someone who accompanied you so desperately to pursue your dreams. It would be very happy when I recall my youth.
With you, the boys' dream-chasing journey was not smooth, they did not meet a very suitable role,
But later, I was glad that I was fortunate that I entered the entertainment industry after high school and did not make a career commitment too early, otherwise I would lose the opportunity to go to college and study more deeply.
988, Dai Meng went to Harvard. Two years later, Da Ben went to the University of Vermont. Although he was in different schools, the relationship between the two was still very close.
Because in addition to performance, they also have many common interests - baseball, dungeons and dragons, going to the bar together, and listening to the same people tell the same old jokes.
At this time, they returned to their relatively ordinary life, but they still met and called frequently. Daben once said,
"Mart and I have the same hobbies, so whether we both succeed in our careers in the end or sell hot dogs in the Dodgers' stadium,
We all know that no matter what, we will choose to do the same thing in the end."
so, when they both left college and pursued their dreams in Hollywood, they were still two people together.
At that time, both of them were in a difficult situation. They both had no jobs. They often slept on each other's sofas and hid in the basement together to write movie scripts.
This script turned out to be a 40-page script written by Dai Meng for the script writing class at Harvard University. After dropping out of school with 12 credits from Harvard, Dai Meng took the 40-page script to Los Angeles , and moved into a big-ben apartment, and the two of them wrote it together.
And this script is the prototype of the movie "The Mind Catcher". Some of the scenes in it are located in their hometown of Cambridge, based on their own experiences.
Although the script was not completed in time before ddl (deadline), although the process of selling scripts and discussing directors went through some twists and turns, they finally convinced Miramax to buy the script.
two people had no great expectations for this movie. Da Ben said that their self-positioning at that time was "two idiots who stayed in the basement to write things" ,
So when "The Mind Catcher" swept seven Oscar nominations, the two people felt like they were dreaming!
And when the two won the Oscar for Best Original Screenplay, they were as dizzy as if they were stepping on cotton. Big Ben said
"This is like a scene in an old movie. A newspaper spun out of the darkness and appeared on the screen, saying 'Box office of 100 million US dollars! Grand Prize!'"
Until now, he is still the youngest writer to win the Oscar for Best Screenwriter Award, 25 years old, and at the time he was only 27 years old.
The two people holding the Oscar trophy and speaking their awards were so excited that they almost spoke incoherently. They sang on the stage as if they were talking crosstalk, and the sound was broken in the middle of the book.
"All relatives and friends, Boston's fellow villagers, we must have forgotten who. No matter who we have forgotten, we all love you! Thank you! Thank you very much!!"
From taking the bus together to New York for audition, sleeping together in the basement to write scripts, standing on the Oscar podium together, they fulfilled their youthful promises.
[The whole Hollywood is hitting real person CP]
Since they first published their Oscar award speech in 1997, they have won many awards and appeared together in countless red carpet events.
Every time I am in the frame, I can’t help but sigh. What a perfect match... Brother!
After "The Catcher of the Mind", they collaborated on several movies, and the figures of the two frequently appeared in major events in Hollywood.
Even if it is just an activity of one person, the other person will be cueed if it is not there.
Before Daben was on the show, he was asked "Where can I find Matt Damon ", Daben's answer was "The beach, the bar and my bed."
Host: Thank you,
These two people have been with Chicken Feather for decades, and they are also very fun. In order to revenge Chicken Feather, they have to mention his name at the end of each show.
filmed a movie "I'm on Matt Damon" with Chicken Feather's girlfriend.
After watching the feathers, he responded decisively,
"Since you have taken away the person I love, I will also take away the person you love for tooth."
Then he found a big book to shoot "I got into Affleck" . The lineup in this MV is super luxurious. Netizens joked that "half of Hollywood is in it."
As expected, the whole Hollywood said it was OK, and the reporters rushed to the forefront of the CP.
Sometimes they are interviewed at events, even if two people don’t appear together, the reporter must cue the other party in the interview questions.
Once, the cute and cute person was hanging on the big self and "mixed" into the show scene of the Chicken Feather Show. A reporter immediately asked about this when interviewing DaBan.
DaBen immediately began to tell the scene at that time with a romance and emotion. Henry Cavill, who was listening quietly at DaBen, said: I felt like he was being shown.
When we are promoting " Accounting Assassin " with Anna Kaderick, we should also mention Dai Meng,
"The reason why we can write "The Spirit Catcher" is forced by life because we have lived together for several years and have not worked.
Now we have more work, and we don't live together anymore.
These two points are the main reasons that hinder us from spending time writing together."
Reporter asked Dai Meng: If you wake up one day and become a woman, which male star do you want to date?
Daimeng: I definitely have to date Da Ben, right?
Don’t think that only the media is fighting, Hollywood stars are very fond of this pair of candy.
with Daimeng, who collaborated with Daimeng in "Promised Land". As Daimeng's screenwriter partner, he would go to Daimeng's house to write scripts every weekend during that time.
There are even rumors that he will destroy the brotherhood between Da Ben and Dai Meng, and this rumor was fiercely denied by him.
"I can't destroy this brotherly relationship! Otherwise, I think I will be thrown into the car and disappear from now on. There is no news. They are both in areas that cannot be reached.
Especially as a child from Boston, I don't even think about destroying big books and cuteness.
sounds a bit like that kind of deviant mistress. No, I can't do this. I will never do this. They do whatever they want. They have nothing to do with me."
simplified translation: I don't dare to disassemble the CP.
How true are the brotherly relationship between these two men? Not only do they dance themselves, but other celebrity dances, major media dances, and the whole Hollywood dances, and even their wives are certified in .
At an event, Da Ben's wife at that time Jennifer Garner attended the speech, and directly mentioned her husband and cute gay relationship.
"Da Ben is a protagonist in a touching and deep love story from ancient times to the present, and the other person is not me, a model of the great brotherhood in Hollywood - Matt and Da Ben, Da Ben and Matt."
"Facts have proved that in Hollywood, true love still exists. At least for my dear husband (Big Ben) and my husband's dear husband (Dai Meng), true love does exist."
The reason why these two people are so real is not just because of their sweetness,
There is also the sincerity of the two people from childhood to adulthood, from Boston to Hollywood, whether they are at the peak or at the trough.
Da Ben was ridiculed by the group because of his relationship with JLo, and became a topic of conversation for tabloids. Dai Meng spoke to her friends in the interview.
"As his friend, all this is really hard for me, because I think it is not fair to him."
In 2017, when Da Ben was admitted to a rehabilitation center due to alcohol addiction, Daimeng was always by his side to support him.
The original words in "Using Weekly" are, "He will always be by his side as long as I need it."
In 2018, the colorful dragon tattoo on the back of the book was photographed again and caused a group of ridicule. This time, the cute still did not waste any time and quickly stood up to protect his good friends.
"Others are not qualified to point fingers at what another person wants to do on their backs. I support him and support all his 'art expression'."
The touching friendship between them, even the famous Golden Globe Award-winning host Ricky Gerves, has been certified. 3
directly said at the 2016 Golden Globe Awards, "Dai Meng is the only person who will not betray him."
Friendship since childhood, and for nearly 40 years of company, nothing can separate them. , where he lived together in childhood, has also become one of the symbols of friendship.
1998, Dai Meng and Da Ben founded Pearl Street Film Company.
In 2010, they collaborated to create a production company again, and the name was still named after the street when they were young - Pearl Street Film Company.
The friendship between the two people began with their shared love and pursuit of the movie, and was also reflected in the movie.
is in the "Soul Catcher" that made them famous, and they wrote a classic dialogue about friendship.
Daimeng will tell his good friend (Chuckie played by Da Ben):
"I will live here in the next life, so we live next door to each other as neighbors, and take our children to play minor leagues."
This sentence may not have been implemented in the movie, but it came true in reality.
Now, they live on the same street, like the two children forty years ago, like they wrote in the script.