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There are many women who are wronged, and they are two states before and after marriage. Before marriage, you will act spoiled and willful and make trouble; after marriage, you will be tolerant, and even tolerant without principles and bottom line.
is tolerant, can it really solve the problem? To endure it to the end, it is the tears of grievance and sadness, regret, grief and anger, and hatred for why I was confused when I was young. Tolerance will not allow you to be forgiven by others, but toleration will only cause your mental stress to accumulate more and more, causing your life to fall into chaos.
I would not recommend that women always endure in an unfortunate marriage. In my opinion, if you can, you can live, and if you can’t live, you can live by yourself.
Wu Suling This time, I finally couldn’t bear it!
Recently, according to Taiwanese media reports, after a party with friends, Wu Suling picked up her daughter and returned to her new residence. The media revealed that the woman has moved into her new home with her children and lives separately from Cao Ge .
I still remember that in March this year, Cao Ge called out on the social platform and called Lan Xinmei "Don't take my wife out to meet men." Cao Ge's low emotional intelligence and social media shouting caused Wu Suling to come to the door to apologize to Lan Xinmei, and her marriage to Cao Ge also lit up a red light. We also know some of Lan Xinmei. She is the eldest sister in the Taiwanese entertainment industry and has a certain status in the circle. She was also very angry at Cao Ge's call. After all, the matter between Cao Ge and Wu Suling should not involve outsiders, and Cao Ge's approach is indeed inappropriate.
Afterwards, Wu Suling also posted on social media to tell her situation and grievances.
"There are many things in life that I only know when I encounter them. I really don't know them before. I would have to accept them before, but now I have to face them after seeing them clearly. How do I repair my injuries when I face them? I can only tell me that I will be cured."
Endure, forgive again and again, will your marriage really be better?
won't, but it still makes you disappointed and repeat the same mistakes again and again.
Not long afterwards, Wu Suling also posted a photo of her face covering her bag. She had many bruises on her body, and she was suspected of being abused. She didn't say much, but her marriage to Gorge was obviously a bit bad. They have not officially announced their divorce yet, but since they have all separated, it will be a matter of time before they can get divorced.
I watched " Where Are We Going, Dad, ", and I really like Gorge's daughter. Grace is so cute!
At that time, I was still surprised that how could a man like Cao Ge, who had a poor appearance, have such a beautiful wife as Wu Suling? I also guessed that Gorge must be spoiled by her, so she loved Gorge so much and was with her. What an enviable family of four, Grace is getting more and more beautiful as she grows.
I didn’t pay much attention to Cao Ge later, but I often heard about Cao Ge causing trouble after drinking.
Cao Ge made trouble because of drinking, not once or twice.
Cao Ge himself also said in "Where Are We Going, Dad?" He said that he would become a "Hulk" as soon as he drank. You see, he knew it himself, but he still couldn't change it.
In 2009, Cao Ge and singer Bangda fought in a bar. Fangda was his good friend. Fangda originally told Cao Ge about his career failure. There was a foreigner who refused to let Fangda play drums. Cao Ge fought with foreigners, and Fangda slammed Fangda, so Cao Ge started to beat Fangda.
Look at this.
2013, at the wedding of Jimmy Lin and Chen Ruoyi Chen , Cao Ge was also drunk and then lost his composure.
Because he made trouble at Jimmy Lin’s wedding, Wu Suling ran away from home in anger. She was so angry that she was so angry. Isn’t this equivalent to smashing the scene? Too embarrassing.
Cao Ge will lose his composure and will talk nonsense and cause trouble as soon as he drinks.
Wu Suling forgave him again and again.
participated in "Where Are We Going, Dad?" Grace is so cute and has attracted a lot of fans. Gorge also established the character of a good father and good husband, but not long after, Gorge once again exposed his low emotional intelligence, which led to a huge discount on his current image.
Cao Ge drank again on March 9 and made trouble, smashing the boss's wife with something.
After so many years, he didn't know how to restrain himself at all. No wonder Wu Suling was disappointed with him and wanted to run away.
Forgive again and again, giving opportunities again and again, full of expectations again and again, thinking that he will get better; but in the end, they are all disappointed, you don’t know what else such a man will do, he doesn’t know how to restrain himself, there will always be next time.
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A reminder for girls: Men with bad wine must be careful to marry .
In fact, it’s nothing for men to drink some alcohol, but can you control your emotions after drinking? What do some men with poor alcohol taste do? They don’t know who they are when they drink some alcohol, and they don’t know how to restrain themselves in their work and speaking. Will drinking really change a person? It’s still this person who is very useless, but he just pretends too well.
Cao Ge belongs to the type of person with poor alcohol taste. He goes crazy when he drinks and loses control.
has written this way. My husband also drank too much yesterday. I have never cared about his drinking because he is an adult and has a proper sense. I have been taking care of two children myself recently. At night, my son asked him to sleep with him, so I told him before he left, "Don't drink too much." But he didn't come back until twelve o'clock in the evening, and it was already very late. When he came back, I ignored him and did not pour water for him. Instead, I closed the door and didn't even look at him.
I was a little angry. He got angry and drank too much as soon as he drank, and he came back drunk.
This morning, he should have sent his eldest son to school, but he was still in a drowsy state and couldn't get up. As a result, I could only hand over the second son to him and then quickly sent his eldest son to school. I was really angry, so I took advantage of his sleep to "unconsciousness" and hammered him several times, and was very angry.
He was drunk, and no matter how I messed with him, he would not be angry.
My husband is a kind of person with good wine. He is drunk and still remembers to go home, and he doesn’t talk nonsense after he goes home and just fall asleep. If you punch him, he will not fight back and then lie on the bed and sleep without moving.
Will men really not be able to control their emotions after drinking alcohol? In my opinion, drinking is very sober, and drinking even reveals what kind of person you are.
My husband won’t drink too much, and I rarely care about him once a few months.
But to be honest, if you really meet a husband who is not good at drinking, gets drunk and makes trouble outside, and gets drunk and beats your wife when you go home. Such a man is particularly emotional. You really have to divorce quickly and stay away from him. A man who is extremely emotional is a time bomb. Maybe it explodes at any time, and you will also involve yourself in a dangerous situation.
Isn’t this the case that has caused a lot of trouble in Tangshan’s beating incident recently?
Drink some wine and do whatever you want. If you make such a big deal, you have to pay the price you deserve.
As an adult, you must know how to control your emotions. Cao Ge is 43 years old, not young anymore, but his style of conduct is like a "small man".
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" Strange Talk ", there was an issue of the debate topic about the issue of tolerance among partners.
I remember that at that time, Yan Rujing had a passage, which was very well said:
"In this world, there are too many things we need to tolerate. I want to tolerate my boss, my parents, and everything outside. But who is the only person who can accept me, make me intolerable, and not compromise? I think it is a partner in marriage.Only by treating yourself as an outsider can you tolerate everything unconditionally. "
The older generation often says: In marriage, many things will be overwhelmed.
But the so-called tolerance also requires you to see what is the reason for. You can't be too much. You tolerate his evil behavior, but does he care about your feelings?
Cai Kangyong also said a heartbreaking thing at that time:
"What is tolerance? Tolerance means pretending to be fine and let it pass. "
But pretending to be fine, is it really okay? It is because it is because it is because it is because it is because it is because it is because it is because it is because it is because it is because it is because it is because it is because it is because it is because it is because it is because it is because it is because it is because it is because it is because it is because it is because it is because it is easy to be honest with itself. If it is better to be good to ourselves, can we not be so wronged?
I personally don't want us to endure everything in love and marriage. Those who may touch the bottom line must show your attitude.
Wu Suling asked herself to tolerate it, but Cao Ge still wasn't crazy.
Marriage is not something you can live well just by enduring. It depends on what it is. If your tolerance is in exchange for unscrupulousness and repeating the same mistakes, you should really consider whether you are leaving.
There is a person who is too emotional in the intimate relationship, and you can't even think about your marriage.
Today's topic: If you have a husband with poor alcohol taste, will you endure it? Welcome to leave a message.
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★Author: YIBAO; original emotional creator, write about the warm emotional things in this world.
