Among the many Jin Yong adapted dramas, my favorite is Wu Jian’s version of "The Legend of the Knights" in 2002. The drama tells the different encounters between twin stones and stone jade .
Compared to Shi Potian, who was taken away from birth, Shi Zhongyu, who grew up under the education of his parents' ears and eyes, should be more promising, but the result was a big upset.
People in the martial arts world praise Shi Potian, and Shi Zhongyu can only be described as being infamous.
has always been curious, why would a couple like the Black and White Swords, who are a righteous , teach Shi Zhongyu, a child who is not talented ?
Is fortune messing with people? Or is it a villain?
Little did they know that the biggest reason was that there was a problem with the parenting method of Shi Qing couple, which led to Shi Zhongyu going astray.
The fastest way to destroy a child is to spoil him, spoil him, spoil her,
gave birth to twins in one day, Minrou thinks that he should be the happiest person in the world.
However, all this happiness was ruined by the love rival Mei Fanggu.
Because she was jealous of Min Rou's happiness, Mei Fanggu took away one of the children and pretended to be cruelly murdered.
There is only one missing child who is pregnant for ten months. How painful is it for the mother? Therefore, Min Rou, who suffered from the pain of losing her child, gave Shi Zhongyu double love, and , doting this only child in every way .
The mother's soft heart and unconditional compromise led Shi Zhongyu to learn to take advantage of the situation, believing that she only needs to be sweet-mouthed and please her mother.
Facts have proved that even if Shi Zhongyu did something ridiculous, as long as he acted spoiled, his mother Min Rou immediately abandoned her weapons and surrendered.
Even if Shi Qing, as his father, wants to discipline him, he will faint or persuade him by Min Rou, and eventually he will give up his thoughts and all the punishment will be left alone.
, and Min Rou's unlimited pampering made Shi Zhongyu's martial arts ordinary, but his ability to be smooth-mouthed was becoming more and more advanced.
makes Lingxiao City messy, and is full of lies, bullying men and domine women, becoming the object of everyone’s dislike.
How easy is it to waste a child? Just spoil him unconditionally.
It can be said that Shi Zhongyu is so incompetent that she has nothing to do with her mother Min Rou’s doting.
As the saying goes, a loving mother often defeats her son. If Min Rou and his wife were not so doting Shi Zhongyu, he wouldn't have been so ridiculous and had done so many wrong things.
Shi Qing's good brother Feng Wanli would not have innocently broken his arm because of the absurdity of Shi Zhongyu.
pretends to others and pins their hopes on closed teaching
The child is too naughty and his wife is too doting. What should I do?
Faced with this problem, Shi Qing thought of a way to send Shi Zhongyu into Lingxiao City and let him refresh himself in the closed teaching of Snow Mountain Patrol .
pretends to others and pins their hopes on closed teaching. hopes to make children turn back through the external environment. This idea is not the only one with Shi Qing and his wife.
Little do you know that this method can treat symptoms but not root causes.
Take Yuzhang Academy in the past few years as an example. Many parents saw that their children were no longer cured, so they spent a lot of money to send them to closed education. hopes to solve the "bad problems" in their children through the school method.
Unexpectedly, Yuzhang Academy is an education of love on the surface, but in fact, it uses beating, abuse, imprisonment and other means to try to let children correct their problems through external threats. What is the difference between this solution and taming of animals?
is not a real way to turn a child back into a wrong and will only make him worse.
Shi Zhongyu's situation is much better than that of the children who were abused at Yuzhang Academy.
Shi Qing and his wife entrusted Shi Zhongyu to the eldest disciple of the head of the Snow Mountain Sect, who is Shi Qing's good brother Feng Wanli. Such a relationship as
is good and bad.
Feng Wanli's martial arts are not bad, but he is straight-minded and does not know how to beat around the bush. He only teaches Shi Zhongyu's kung fu, but he does not know how to make him correct his mind.
What's more, Shi Zhongyu is not Feng Wanli's son. Feng Wanli, as his master, is not easy to discipline him strictly and can only persuade him in daily life. Therefore, Shi Zhongyu's bad roots have not been corrected at all. Instead, they have become more and more serious. They actually teased the maid and sneaked into Axiu's boudoir, intending to do something bad, which almost led to a tragedy.
What is puzzling is that Shi Qing and his wife said they cherish their children, but they did not fulfill their responsibilities as parents. They entrust Shi Zhongyu to Lingxiao City for three years. They have never read it or written a letter to consult. Are they too worried or too relieved about Lingxiao City and are so careless.
If it weren't for the people from the Snow Mountain Sect going down the mountain to catch Shi Zhongyu, the couple wouldn't know the ridiculous things Shi Zhongyu did, which would be incredible.
It is worth mentioning that Shi Zhongyu was sent to Lingxiao City, which was unfamiliar with her life since she was a child, and is isolated and helpless .
For , who lacks security, , although Feng Wanli, a master, can teach him kung fu, he is not a relative after all, and he can't take care of himself at all. Lingxiao City is not a familiar territory, so it means it depends on people's face.
And the set used on my mother Min Rou on a daily basis has been used more skillfully by Shi Zhongyu, seeking personal gain through opportunism. If you use too many methods like
, you will naturally develop dependencies. How can you be willing to solve things down-to-earth?
One sings the white face, the other sings the red face, the other sings the red face, , does not establish a correct view of right and wrong for children
Not only that, in terms of educating Shi Zhongyu, Shi Qing and Min Rou are probably the most tangled couple.
Every time they deal with the problem of stone jade, there is always no way to reach an agreement.
Once Shi Zhongyu is found out when she gets into trouble, she will beg for mercy from her mother Min Rou.
Min Rou felt sorry for her son and was naturally protected by her shortcomings, and she was reluctant to punish her, while Shi Qing, who was beside her, spoke righteously and scolded her.
Then, there is nothing.
does not indicate the mistakes made by Shi Zhongyu, and how big the consequences are, and so on.
It can be seen from this that Shi Qing and his wife always sing a slander and a sing a slander when it comes to educating Shi Zhongyu. The two have not reached an agreement on their opinions, so there are naturally many disadvantages.
. An ambiguous educational attitude makes it easy for children to find ways to break the rules
. Shi Zhongyu, who did all the bad things, was caught in the Changle Gang, and Bai Wanjian wants to take him back to Lingxiao City to apologize.
Because he knew that Shi Qing and his wife loved each other and were worried that Shi Po Tian would go and never return, so Shi Po Tian volunteered to go to Lingxiao City.
Faced with Shi Potian's life-saving grace, Shi Zhongyu 's first reaction is that he finally doesn't have to die.
Yes, Lingxiao City will definitely have many dangers. Shi Potian's behavior is tantamount to exchanging life for life.
At this time, Min Rou was hesitating about and did not express any opinions at all. Does it mean that she actually had such an idea, and Shi Qing scolded Shi Zhongyu as always.
It is this ambiguous way of education that has made Shi Zhongyu have the illusion of . It seems that no matter what wrong things you do or how ridiculous things you do, it is a piece of cake. Just be sweet-mouthed, then all punishments can be avoided.
Facts have proved that Shi Zhongyu really chose a method that is beneficial to him, exchanged identity with Shi Potian, and ran away.
doesn't care how much dilemma Shi Qing and others will suffer because of his mistakes.
Similarly, he did not reflect on himself at all, what was wrong.
. Ambiguous education methods can easily make children become "double-faced"
Compared with Shi Potian's dull personality, Shi Zhongyu's smooth mouth is naturally more popular.
Ding Dingdangdang, Huanhuanle, Ke Xin from the Scissor Gang, etc. were all deceived by Shi Zhongyu's sweet words and secretly agreed.
Changle Gang was stunned by the coaxing, only the jade horse in the stone was following.
But this image disguised by the lies is extremely unstable, like a bubble, and it is suddenly exposed.
Everyone finally left him because they saw the true face of Shi Zhongyu.
Motian layman Xie Yanke deceived Shi Zhongyu because he replaced Shi Potian's identity and wanted to kill him in anger. If Shi Potian hadn't pleaded with him, Shi Zhongyu would probably have died at the hands of Xie Yanke because of his own fault and paid the price for his actions.
. Ambiguous education methods can easily cause parents to lose their authority
. Shi Zhongyu is afraid of Shi Qing, the strict father.
But this fear is only on the surface, because Shi Qing’s education method is very monotonous, just blindly scolding.
Although it was furious, it was almost all thunder and raindrops , which did not have any deterrent effect on the jade in the stone. The biggest reason for this situation is that his wife Min Rou. As long as Min Rou is crying and making trouble, Shi Qing will not be able to discipline Shi Zhongyu at all.
Over time, as parents, Shi Qing and his wife, naturally lost their authority, and they could not control Shi Zhongyu.
Under various factors, even though Shi Qing and his wife are upright, their son Shi Zhongyu still cannot escape the reputation of being the most famous .
with you.text/Eyao, under the peach blossom tree, boil tea and drink
