Author | Donggua Dingdongkong
" Who falls in love with his first" (hereinafter referred to as "Who"), a movie about "Miss Three Fighting Little King" with a Douban score of 8.6.
With this film, Xie Yingxuan won the Golden Horse heroine, Qiu Ze got rid of the "male vase" and became a powerful figure. In terms of hot search connections, it was finally not "Tang Yan", but "acting skills".
"Who" tells the story of Song Zhengyuan (played by Chen Rushan) and Ajie (played by Qiu Ze), but under secular pressure, Song Zhengyuan chose to marry Liu Sanlian (played by Xie Yingxuan), abandoning his wife and son to find Ajie before his death, and leaving the insurance money to Ajie after his death.
01 Is it a "scumbag man cheating on marriage" or is it true love supreme?
Because of the plot of cheating and forced divorce to find the old lover, many netizens were so angry that they cried and scolded, saying that "who" has "incorrect views" and "it's just a story of a scumbag cheating man."
If Ajie is a woman, this evaluation is certainly correct, but once the gender is changed, we do not have the right to blame him on the moral high ground.
Because it is precisely because the environment has criticized homosexuality that such tragedy as cheating marriages have occurred.
In the video, Song Zhengyuan and Ajie are always in a dark scene when they are together, just like their relationship is shameless. But despite this, they still love each other wholeheartedly.
Ajie's cell phone ringtone is so sweet that it is too cute. "Honey, answer the phone quickly, answer the phone quickly..."
Song Zhengyuan promised to teach Ajie to play the guitar, but the exchange condition was that Ajie could no longer drive. Ajie softly confirmed: "Then can you teach me to play the guitar?"
Song Zhengyuan got cancer and his hair fell one by one. He was very discouraged and said, "It's better to die."Ajie immediately picked up the scissors and shaved his hair while shaving his hair, saying viciously: "Look, everyone shaved their heads, see who is handsome!"
loved deeply before his death, and so on after his death.
After Song Zhengyuan passed away, Ajie bought breakfast as usual and sent it to the hospital. When he saw the stranger on the bed, his eyes went from joy to extinguish little by little and dim, and finally returned to normal.
Every night, Ajie fell asleep and woke up with his lover's clothes.
They just expressed their love that is not accepted by the world in this way, which makes people moved and heartbreaking.
In 2005, CCTV reporter Chai Jing made an interview program "In the Name of Life", focusing on the homosexual community. Among them is a pair of lovers, Xiao Yang and Xiao Jiang, sitting opposite Chai Jing, holding hands.
Chai Jing asked, "How do you describe your emotions?"
They answered in unison: "Love."
The one with a more lively personality said, "We were on the street at that time. Every time we saw a wedding car passing by, I would go to bless them. I feel that I wish them a happy old together. God will be moved, and he will definitely make us old together."
In a society where heterosexuals dominate, the TAs who love each other are destined to be a fairy couple, but they still hope to be like the most ordinary couple in the world, love each other and stay together until old.
02 Resistance to the love of same sex
In "Who", there is such a dialogue between Song Zhengyuan and Ajie.
Ajie: "My mom asked me, who are you?"
Song Zhengyuan: "Teacher, roommate, theater partner."
Ajie: "I like to tell the truth."
Song Zhengyuan: "Talk will make your mom sad. makes them not sad or worried is our responsibility. "
There is a hot comment in NetEase Cloud Music: A child asked his mother what homosexuality is and how to read it. Mom explained, "Men and women are like the poles of magnets. Most people are attracted by the opposite sex. A few people fall in love with each other at the same level. They need to overcome great resistance to be together."
In most people's concepts, it is natural for men and women to unite, and it is natural for the same sex to attract each other, which is a great rebellion.Therefore, if the TAs in love want to be together, they have to fight against the whole world, including their parents, relatives, and friends. This is really difficult.
This is also the reason why Song Zhengyuan chose to get married.
In "In the Name of Life", gay AIDS research expert Professor Zhang Beichuan mentioned an example. A mother brought her 20-year-old gay child to him and said, "I had known this, I should have strangled him to death when he was born."
The opposite sex needs a ring, a house, and a car to get married, while the same sex only needs the consent of the parents.
In addition to secular prejudice, what is even more sad is that since homosexual love cannot be recognized by law, their legal relationship is just friends from beginning to end, even if they will be together for the rest of their lives.
"So What's Different" sung by Jolin Tsai, according to reality, a pair of homosexual couples came. They met and fell in love for nearly 30 years, but at a critical moment when one of them was seriously ill, the other, as her closest partner, could not sign her for surgery.
Because in law, they are just "friends".
I have been in love for 30 years, cannot get married, is not recognized by society, and even my lover is sick, I don’t have the right to sign. This is really a sad thing.
03 Same-sex love is born, there is nothing worthy of criticism or dislike
In "Who", when Ajie first met Song Zhengyuan, he saw his side face and was deeply attracted by him and asked in a daze: "Teacher Zhengyuan, can I kiss you?"
Like the opposite sex, loving each other is also an instinct, but this instinct only exists in a few people.
In fact, homosexuality has existed for thousands of years, and there are also records in ancient books. "Zuo Zhuan·Eleventh Year of Ai Gong" mentions the story of Gongshuwuren, son of Duke Zhao of Lu, and his homosexual lover Wang Qi, who died in battle. "The Duke and his servant Wang Qi all died, and they were all buried. Confucius said: 'If you can hold swords to defend the country, you will not be sad.'"
The Han Dynasty began to call homosexual love "the habit of breaking sleeves", and later gradually evolved into the "homosexuality" we are familiar with.
Taiwanese writer Bai Xianyong , as early as the age of 17, met his lifelong lover Wang Guoxiang.
Bai Xianyong suffers from tuberculosis and has been withdrawn and weak since childhood. In physical education class, the teacher forced him to make an inverted gold hook, and he fell to his nose and face, and only Wang Guoxiang helped him to the infirmary for treatment.
After the two fell in love, in order to be with Bai Xianyong, Wang Guoxiang gave up applying for NTU. Like Bai Xianyong, he also took the exam to study Mechanical and Electrical.
Later, Bai Xianyong "willful" wanted to transfer to the university and apply for NTU. With the perseverance of love, Wang Guoxiang was also admitted to the Department of Physics with his lover.
Until Wang Guoxiang passed away later, they walked through forty-four years of ups and downs together.
In addition to humans having homosexual love behavior, there is also a phenomenon of being born with homosexual attachment in animals.
Professor Zhang Beichuan said: "There are fixed proportions of goats in goats. We call them homosexual rams, which are about 6%. This goat never chases female goats. It only rides trans-male goats, especially among primates. Attachment phenomenon has also been observed. To a certain extent, we call human attachment phenomenon love."
Homosexual love is an instinct, and there is nothing to blame or dislike. Everyone should accept it, just like men and women love each other.
04 We are working hard to achieve equal rights in marriage
Fortunately, homosexual love is being accepted by more and more people, and more and more countries are working hard to make homosexuals have legal marriages.
There are 233 countries and regions around the world, and 29 are protected by the same marriage, accounting for about one-eighth.
There is always someone who knows what is right and is determined to walk on the difficult road.
Qi Jiawei, the pioneer of Taiwan's homosexual movement, has worked hard for more than 30 years in 1986 to fight for equal rights between same-sex marriages. He appeared at the scene of every gay movement like a brave soldier wearing the rainbow flag .During
, some police equated criminal groups with homosexuality and framed him as "the wife of the robber group", and he was framed and imprisoned.
He said: "If forgiveness is a difficult science, then comrades are all masters."
If the direction is right, why be afraid of the obstacles and long.
He said that the old god gave him the mission to be the pioneer of the equal rights movement, and he wanted to help the world.
Finally, countless "Qi Jiawei" and others came to Taiwan's same-sex marriage legal.
In February 2019, Taiwan released the "same marriage" draft. At the latest, the same-sex Taiwanese can get married legally on May 24 this year.
Taiwan is also the first region in Asia where same-sex marriage is legal.
Protecting the love of the same sex is protecting the rights and freedom that people can be born to love calmly.
Whether you love him or her.
Canadian Prime Minister Trudeau, who participated in a gay pride parade in 2016, waved to the crowd with a rainbow flag in his hand.
On Twitter, he excitedly expressed that he was "proud" to participate in this event.
This country has the greatest tolerance for comrades. Leaders, officials and judges who hold important positions are comrades, and there are also comrades who sway flags and drums for comrades.
Spain is called "gay paradise". On a small traffic light, there is a pair of gay people holding hands. On the streets where people and cars are coming and going, they seem to be announcing to the whole world, "Look at us, we are in love!"
November 2018, in order to support equal rights in marriage, Ang Lee spoke out on social platforms and wrote the sentence as the title.
Yes, love is always the biggest, it has nothing to do with gender.
I hope one day, homosexuality can become a matter as natural as breathing, and I hope every couple of lovers in the world can finally get married!
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