"Mom, you're so beautiful" was launched on Hunan Satellite TV on April 17. This is a variety show focusing on 50+ middle-aged and elderly women. They are affectionately called "silver-haired tribe". International supermodel Liu Wen and famous Chinese male model Hu Bing are the class teachers of supermodel training camps. They select the mothers of the actresses and let their daughters accompany their mothers to complete the dream journey on the runway.
At the beginning, what attracted me was supermodel cousin Liu Wen. She was intellectual and elegant, and she was a blockbuster with just one move. But as I watched, I was actually attracted by these brave mothers who pursued my dreams. Without the labels of "fried rice, oil and salt", "housewife", "six aunts and sisters", and "square dancers", the confidence of my mothers from the bottom of their hearts made me ignore their age.
Every mother was a little fairy when she was young, and they washed their hands and made soup for their beloved. Life forced them to choose to become mother-in-law and mother.
However, mothers standing on the stage are healthy and positive. They are differently beautiful, but they shine.
【1】Mothers' self-entertainment is the best fulfillment for their children
Take mothers to work with them, this is the happiest working state for their children. When every star brought his mother to the stage, he was amazed in the barrage: Wow, this mother has such a good temperament. However, it is rare to have such an opportunity in real life. Most ordinary mothers can only wait for their children to go home at home.
After many women become mothers, their life goals are set: if the child is good, I will do anything for the child’s good. They give all their heart to be a good mother and accompany their children with all their heart. But in this process, I slowly lose, lose health, lose hobbies, and even lose myself.
In the first episode of the selection, mothers each have their own strengths. Some mothers can dance, some can sing, some love to walk on catwalks, and some are good at maintaining health. They are funny and humorous, and they are generous.
If every mother can have her own hobbies, it is a very lucky thing for her children. German writer Hermann Hesse said in " Demian : When he was a wanderer", saying: For everyone, there is only one real responsibility, find yourself.
In the process of finding their hobbies, mothers leave more time to themselves, thus reducing the time to worry about their children. Children as adults have their own values, and the conflict between two generations often comes from different views on the same thing. If the mother focuses only on her children's lives, it is easy to gather contradictions together.
So, mothers’ hobbies must be fully supported. The mothers on the show have the opportunity to show themselves, and they become confident, beautiful, noble and elegant under the camera. At that moment, they surpassed their age, their profession, their appearance, and their respective styles were blooming.
Zhang Xinyu 's mother danced dynamic dance with her, and was no less than the star daughter in terms of momentum; Li Sidani 's mother wore an elegant cheongsam and took firm steps, as if she had come to the misty and rainy Jiangnan, the most beautiful April day in the world; Sun Qian 's mother was low-key and restrained, shy and quiet, and seemed to have no advantages, but she talked about health preservation.
It is a very valuable thing to keep a hobby.
Thinking about each other, but working hard on each other, is the best relationship between mother and children.
No matter what the final competition results are, the current state of the mother and daughter of the ten groups is enviable. The daughter hopes that the mother can fully show herself, and the mother also hopes that she can become better for her daughter.
【2】You can grow old slowly, but you must live with an attitude
The beginning of the first episode, every daughter has put on old age makeup, which makes people sigh. They are beautiful and shining under their makeup, but not every silver-haired clan can maintain such a good condition. As we grow older, apart from the identity of mother, the personal mental state of women is also very important. In the first round of display of
, two groups of mothers got the direct card, and Sun Qian's mother stayed in the seat.According to Liu Wen's comments and by standards, an excellent model must be able to impress the audience the moment she comes out, and Sun Qian's mother lacks confidence. This comment has also been recognized by the public, and many people in the barrage say: Confident women are the most beautiful.
The confidence level of these mothers is immediately obvious.
But Liu Wen continued to add that Sun Qian's mother touched everyone when she talked about health preservation. Because when she talks about health preservation, her whole body becomes stretched. There is a smile on his face, his body moves, and he is at ease.
can be seen, and confidence is something that everyone can do.
Wu Xin's mother, as a Northeastern native, has a sense of humor in her bones. She recited a passage of "Haiyan" in dialect. Although it was funny, it was really vivid in memory. This humor is neither awkward nor deliberate, as if it is the most common way in life, making ordinary mothers instantly liven up.
Zhang Xinyu's mother is from Jiangnan Water Town. When she was young, she was a taxi driver, but she could say the domineering declaration that "age is not a problem. We wear whatever we like, and be as beautiful as we like. The most important thing we like." The example she set for her daughter is not only a love for life, but also a full affirmation of herself.
Li Weijia commented: "Ordinary workers can also have literary dreams."
The style of these mothers just proves that ordinary people can also have a different attitude towards life.
【3】Don’t be afraid of silver hair, because it is the best record of time
Zhang Yahan ’s mother Hang Tianqi is a singer who has become famous all over the country. Even so, she still envies the models’ figure and clothing style.
In recent years, cases of anxiety about appearance and body anxiety have emerged in life. Many women have paid a lot of money, time, and even dangers of their lives to take various ways to make themselves better. Wishes are good, but the usual quick methods pose great risks in terms of health.
Inevitably, appearance is still the first priority for women's evaluation system. In order to cater to this evaluation system and to gain recognition from others, many women cannot completely get rid of such anxiety.
, put aside the evaluation of single appearance and figure, these mothers have more experience and calmness after experiencing life training. After years of precipitation, the charm of mothers has become more and more renewed. They are no longer shaken by their external evaluations, nor are they lost because of their decay of appearance.
Mothers are like classic classics, cups of mellow aging, unique and endless aftertaste.
Every wrinkle, imperfect figure, and gradually fading hair color are indispensable chapters in the book. Moms who have worked hard for most of their lives can keep their names on the show and let everyone remember their names, which is the best gift for mothers.
The future life will please yourself more. In addition to being "So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So-So Although the first episode of this variety show has only started, it can be seen through the trailer that the subsequent competitions and displays will be more exciting. This variety show is a precedent for the silver-haired family, and it is worth watching. I hope these "down-to-earth" mothers can set the best example for more ordinary women in their 50+.
