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I am crispy.
A few days ago, it hit a hot search.
Jackie Chan's daughter Wu Zhuolin was photographed queuing up to receive free relief food in Toronto .
makes people sad to see.
This is not the first time she needs relief.
In 2018, she was homeless, holding a quilt in her hand, and moved out her father Jackie Chan's name, begging the owner to take her and her girlfriend...
It has been almost four years since she went around.
Life seems to be not getting better.
I was in a very complicated mood today when facing Wu Zhuolin.
I am angry with him like many people, but I am more sad about his misfortune.
was born in such a family, and my father refused to recognize him and he had many conflicts with my mother. It seems that the misfortune of her life was destined from the beginning.
I remembered a sentence from the Japanese writer Isaka Yukitaro : "When I think of parents without taking exams, I feel it's really terrible."
The bad native family is really a disaster for children.
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sometimes find it very strange.
Some people may be a person with high praise in the workplace and society.
just came into the emotional relationship, just like a bad lover and a bad parent.
In 1990, when Jackie Chan became a world-famous kung fu superstar, 17-year-old Wu Qili , just won the Miss Asia championship.
Star roads are all bright, and both of them may have the financial strength to be good parents.
can be encountered together, and it will be a disaster.
Because from the beginning, it was wrong.
In October 1999, Wu Qili announced her relationship and announced her pregnancy.
But she may have forgotten that Jackie Chan at this time, and there is a wife who has been married for 17 years, Lin Fengjiao .
Maybe it wasn't because she had forgotten, but she tried to tie Jackie Chan with her child and forced her to separate from Lin Fengjiao.
After all, Jackie Chan has always been extremely ruthless to Lin Fengjiao in the media, honestly, he has no love, he gets married just for the sake of his children, and even transfers his property, and he doesn't plan to give her a penny.
She naturally felt that she was more favored than Lin Feng, but she didn't expect that she would touch Jackie Chan's "reverse scales" when she was pregnant.
Jackie Chan is a man of softness and hardness.
He once admitted that if a woman is pregnant with her child and hides in a place and is born, he will feel guilty about the woman's "consider the overall situation".
But what he can't bear is that women "threatening" him.
So when Wu Qili revealed that she was pregnant, he said lightly "I just made a mistake that men in the world make." and sent it over.
and turned to Lin Fengjiao, who was very generous and tolerant of him, changed her will and gave her half of the property inheritance rights .
I have always praised Jackie Chan for his achievements in his career, his contributions at the public welfare and social levels.
I have to admit that no matter who it is, Jackie Chan is a bad lover.
Because he doesn't love anyone, he loves himself more.
You must put him first in everything and please him with everything in order to gain his unswerving love.
This is not a benign relationship. It can leave at any time, and you must keep lowering yourself to maintain it.
For a partner, the worst result is not breakup or divorce when encountering such a person.
But the children are different.
From the moment of birth, parents are deeply bound to their children.
So what kind of parent to choose for your child is far more cautious than choosing a partner for yourself.
Because of the bad native family, it may be shadows and pain that cannot be escaped for a lifetime.
It will imprint a deep imprint on generations.
You really want to escape, but you find that you have slowly become the same person.
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Wu Zhuolin's mother Wu Qili was also born in a broken family.
She had no idea about her father, and her mother's personality became very strange because of the failure of her marriage, and she kept venting her misfortune on her daughter.
This lack of fatherly love in the native family and the high pressure of mothers have created Wu Qili's personality flaws.
She also vowed that she would never become the same person as her mother.
But when she grew up, she still became her.
Since childhood, Wu Qili has been appearing in front of the camera with her daughter, appearing on the show to shoot magazines, and constantly consuming the past with Jackie Chan.
Single parent may not be new, but the whole world knows that you are the illegitimate daughter Jackie Chan disapproves, which is destined to live under the fingers of others since childhood.
And her relationship with her daughter also replicates the relationship with her mother.
She once revealed that she had never beaten Wu Zhuolin since she was a child; after that, she was punished to stand in the " Cihai ", and if she fell off, she would beat her up; if she didn't sleep, she would punish her all night to copy "I won't sleep"...
She fell into the same extreme as her mother, unable to control her emotions, and her relationship with her daughter was confronted with her.
In 2015, Wu Zhuolin called the police and said that his mother had been drinking, abused drugs and abused all year round.
Later, Wu Zhuolin committed suicide.
After that, every time she went to the news was: smoking and drinking, stealing things from home, coming out, running away from home with her girlfriend...
fell to sleep on the street and ate relief food. At the end of his life, he took a video and moved his dad's name, revealing that he had been homeless for a month and hoped to be rescued.
Wu Qili responded excitedly in the interview: "I hope they don't spend all their time shooting short videos, they should find a legitimate job."
And Jackie Chan has been unresponsive for ten years.
Whether it is Jaycee Chan-ming or Wu Zhuolin, his mother's extreme educational methods have brought them to two extremes.
But behind this, the missing father Jackie Chan also stood.
Compared to her husband and father, he is only addicted to the identity of Jackie Chan as "big brother".
Everyone thinks Jackie Chan is too heartless, but Jackie Chan turns his head and says: I hope Wang Leehom is my son.
At that time, Wang Leehom had not been exposed to a scandal.
It is enough to see from his love for Leehom Wang: Jackie Chan does not like children, but hopes to have an excellent child who can praise him whenever he mentions it.
But he never thought that a child was born as a blank piece of paper, and parents were the children's first teachers.
Raising children requires time and energy to accompany them.
does not only provide one sperm, an excellent child will grow up!
Many parents always accuse their children of being inferior to other people's children in different places, but never find problems from themselves.
You are not someone else's parents, so why do you want other people's children?
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The absence and indifference of fatherly love, the paranoia and extreme maternal love have created Wu Zhuolin today.
But you will find that now that Wu Zhuolin is on the hot search again, netizens seem to no longer buy her.
Someone said, "Since you are going to run away from home, you must be prepared to take on everything."
Someone said, "If you have hands and feet, you will not starve to death if you find a place to work."
Someone said, "Smoking and drinking dropping out of school and living together on the streets is because she makes her life a mess."
You said that netizens are too cold.
But I think everyone is also "I hate it but I can't make steel".
Jackie Chan has been indifferent for ten years, and everyone is too lazy to accuse him of being irresponsible.
What everyone hopes more is that , who has grown up, Wu Zhuolin can stand up by himself!
In recent years, we have seen many children choose to retaliate against their parents by giving up on themselves.
But it turns out that the cold parents are not disturbed, and they are the only ones who ruin them.
Sometimes birth is fate and cannot be changed.
But in the end, fate is still in your own hands!
Zhang Shaohan has a vampire mother, but she keeps making herself stronger in the face of harm.
Mao Xiaotong There is a father who wants to pull her to hell, but she swallows the pain and continues to face life with a smile.
The bad native family is scary.
But what's even more terrifying is that you even give up on yourself!
On a dark road, blindly decadent and self-destructive.
Sometimes, if you see the reality early, and have no expectations and thoughts, you can only live a good life.
Children without umbrellas should run harder.
is empty, so you must plan more rationally for your future!
"The Sky" sang: "Indifferent people, thank you for looking down on me and making me live a more exciting life without bowing my head."
No matter whose child you are, no matter how bad your family is.
You have to believe that you can always find a beam of light of your own.
You have to believe that you can always be your own beam of light.
3 has a long life, and you must be the master of your own life.
3Do not live in the shadow of others.
You want to be yourself, you have to live for yourself!
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Hello everyone, I am a crispy dad, a new dad, an executive of a startup company. I have been to many cities and have practiced stalls on the roadside. Now I just want to say the most truthful things to you, continue to grow and improve.
