Good morning, friends!
Today is just an ordinary Tuesday for most people. But for Japanese citizens thousands of miles away... it can be said to be a big day.
Because their princess - Mako Princess , will register to get married today!
What do we imagine the princess’ wedding look like? The ultimate luxury, noble and elegant showcases the noble style of the royal family in this wedding.
For example, the wedding of Bill Gates' daughter held not long ago can be said to be particularly luxurious and enthusiastic.
But Princess Mako's wedding was very different from what I imagined. She gave up the traditional wedding of the Japanese royal family and kept everything simple. Today, after marriage, she waited for her passport to come out and was about to go to the United States to live with her husband Komuro Kei .
So the last trace of marriage she left in Japan is probably the simple marriage registration procedures.
Kei Komuro will return to the United States the next day after registering the marriage procedures recently. The remaining miscellaneous follow-up will be solved by Princess Mako.
Not only that, Princess Mako also made a dumbfounded decision.
She gave up the dowry of about 150 million yen (about 8.42 million yuan) given by the Japanese royal family!
Japanese royal women will leave the royal family when they get married, but the Japanese royal family will give their married daughter a "doll" according to convention to ensure that they can still live a decent life after leaving the royal family.
However, Mako decided to "get out of the house with nothing" this time after getting married, and voluntarily gave up this "subsidy". It is reported that she is the first time in the history of the Japanese royal family to choose like this!
Naori Emperor proposed a royal wedding, but was also rejected by Mako's father Akishimiya Fumihito.
After registering for marriage today, Mako will move from Prince Akishimiya Fumihito to her apartment in Tokyo and say goodbye to her identity as a princess.
Princess Mako seems to be trying to prove in this way that Kei Komuro and herself are not getting together because of money and identity, and that they can live well after they leave the royal family.
And Princess Mako finally escaped from the cage that imprisoned her for 30 years with this overly simple marriage.
On October 23, she celebrated her 30th birthday in the royal family and left the last photo with the royal family as a princess.
When many people saw photos of her 30th birthday, they lamented that she was much more beautiful than before and had become very good. It seems that this marriage is really meaningful to her.
However, this marriage is difficult to get blessings from most people.
Why is it because the Japanese people don’t like this prince-consort!
According to Japanese media, a survey showed that 97% of the surveyors were not optimistic about the marriage, 1% were unsure, and 1% believed that the union of the two should be blessed, while the rest were on the wait-and-see attitude.
can be said to be very dissatisfied with their marriage.
Why did Komuro Kei get disgusted by so many Japanese citizens? I believe everyone will know a little about it after seeing the tags he was put on.
"Scumbag", "Phoenix Man", "Playing Cat"... emmm, Ba Meier also understands the mood of the Japanese people.
His black material is really a lot of wives. Let’s briefly sort it out for everyone.
The first point is that he often goes to nightclubs and loves to be fun.
This may not be anything to an ordinary man, but he is about to marry the son of the princess.
Second point, Kei Komuro was a bully student who bullied weak classmates.
When he was studying in Canadian International School, he took the lead in bullying a female classmate because Komuro Kei thought she was too fat and didn't look very smart, so Komuro Kei was very upset when she saw her.
It is said that Kei Komuro often used the words "pig" and "fat" to describe overweight girls... It's really too much.
point, Phoenix man is a man!
It is said that before Kei Komuro fell in love with Princess Mako, he had fallen in love with a rich second-generation girl, and even reached the point of getting married, but after meeting the princess, he immediately threw his girlfriend aside.
The fourth and most important point is that his family background is very chaotic!
His father and grandfather committed suicide one after another, and the suicide period was only one week apart. Because of this coincidence, some Japanese citizens suspected that their family had a cult background.
In fact, Kei Komuro's mother is plagued by bad reputations such as "money scandal" and "chaotic private life scandal". Komuri Kei's mother's ex-fiance came out to accuse her, claiming that Komuri Kei's mother deliberately complained to her and asked for the money, she took it to raise her son and another partner. When the matter was exposed, Komuro Kei's mother refused to repay the money on the grounds of "giving", which is why her ex-fiance came out to accuse her.
for this reason. The Japanese people strongly opposed this marriage, and the more the turmoil, the bigger the situation, and there were even protests.
After receiving feedback from the public, the Japanese royal family took action to stop it and postponed the wedding between Mako and Kei Komuro, which was originally scheduled to be held in 2018, and it will be postponed for two years.
Even after the wedding was postponed, Kei Komuro was sent to the United States to study, but it seems that even if the two of them are separated, their relationship has not been exhausted.
But even so, Princess Mako still did not give up on this marriage and kept saying that she would not marry unless Kei Komuro.
Maybe Princess Mako really feels that she can "save" Kei Komuro...
can only say, don't think about "This man does all the bad things, only I can come to save" wow...
But Princess Mako's persistence also caused her a lot of criticism, and countless insults fell on her head.
So in early October, while Princess Mako announced the good news, she also announced that she was suffering from a mental illness.
The "mental illness" suffered by Princess Mako is called complex traumatic emergency disorder state C-PTSD.
Inner Palace said: Since 2018, Princess Mako has been troubled by her fiancé.
Everyone around Princess Mako was not optimistic about her wedding banquet with her fiancé Komuro Kei, and was constantly slandered by slander and slander about herself and her family, which severely hit her dignity and spirit.
Between this public opinion center, she felt it was difficult to continue her daily life.
According to the doctor attending the press conference, "Princess Mako often feels a sense of horror in her life, falls into a pessimistic and difficult state, and it is difficult to feel happiness. As a result, she has difficulty concentrating, restlessness, and weakness, and panic attacks due to a very small stimulation."
... It sounds really pitiful.
She once said: "No matter what she says, the people still have to scold her." It can be seen that her emotions are already very pessimistic.
And Princess Mako is not the first member of the Japanese royal family to suffer from mental problems. On the contrary, this is very common in the Japanese royal family.
The current queen of Japan Masako and the former queen of the past Michiko have all experienced symptoms of mental disorder. The Empress Masada Michiko on
is the first civilian queen to marry into the royal family in Japanese history.
Although she has no royal blood, she was still born in a wealthy family. She received a good education since childhood. She is proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting. She also studied at the Sacred Heart Girls' School, the best girls' school in Japan, and also served as the president of the student union.
can be said to be a very outstanding woman.
957, Michiko had just graduated. In a tennis match, she met Emperor Akihito. Emperor Akihito was deeply impressed by her and pursued her.
Although this relationship was greatly obstructed by the royal family, because Emperor Akihito was tough, he finally got the beauty back.
Michiko is both talented and beautiful, and is very popular among the people, but because of her civilian origin, she is not doing well in the royal family.
The rules in the palace are complicated and cumbersome, and the mother-in-law doesn't like her. The female officials in the palace are very harsh on her and even have no respect for her.
Her every move has almost become a mistake in the royal family. Her outfits were criticized as vulgar. She walked side by side with Emperor Akihito and was criticized for not understanding the ranks and inferiors. Even when she went to the airport to see her parents-in-law off and skipped her directly.
Under such multiple pressures, Michiko was gradually smoothed out her edges and even suffered from " aphasia "...
She suffered from this mental illness and she could not communicate with anyone except her husband.
It was not until her mother-in-law died that her situation improved and the disease was gradually cured.
The sentence "Become a wife and become a mother-in-law" is also very true. When the civilian queen Masako married into the royal family, she also put a lot of pressure on her.
Masako was unwilling to marry into the royal family. Her father was a high-ranking diplomat, and she herself also wanted to pursue the profession of diplomat.
She is smart and courageous. She graduated from Harvard with excellent grades and entered Oxford to study international relations.
Emperor Naruhito fell in love with her at first sight and pursued her passionately.
Although Masako was not interested in him, she was confined to her status as a civilian and finally married him in 1993 after rejecting him three times.
Masako has received higher education, advanced thinking and independent personality, but because of this, the royal family was very dissatisfied with him and ordered her to make corrections and could only wear light kimonos.
She could only walk behind her husband, with her eyes lowered, and looked humble, and always asked her to be a good mother and wife, and give birth to children for the royal family.
But because of this, she was under a lot of pressure and her fate was not able to treat her well.
Five years after marriage, she became pregnant for the first time but had a miscarriage.
years after marriage, she had an in vitro pregnancy and gave birth to a daughter, not the expected boy.
Strong fertility pressure made her suffer from depression .
In July 2004, the IUD officially announced that Masako was diagnosed with adaptive disorder.
on Queen Michiko, Queen Masako , and Princess Mako, these three royal women all suffered from mental illness under great pressure.
You can imagine how difficult it will be to live under such great pressure every day.
So maybe Princess Mako's "marriage" is also a kind of self-rescue...
Pameier heard that Mako and Kei Komuro have planned to move to New York to live by the end of this year, and Mako will become an art curator there, which means she will not rely entirely on her husband.
Bameier was also happy for her. At least she also found a way out for herself, and did not regard Kei Komuro as her only trust.
Hope Princess can get happiness~
