◎Tian Fang
Country: Japan
Original title: I can’t ignore Kei Komuro’s reason--not just "because he is the fiancé of Mako Princess "
Original author: Takashi Kimura (columnist, interpersonal relationship consultant, TV commentator)
Original source: Toyo Economic ONLINE January 26, 2019
Followers: 317,000 Reposts: 1,006 Comment: 207
html January click ranking: Firstsmall room answered at the press conference and his flawless character profile. Although there are many complaints, the people at that time praised this "selected person" and believed that "he could not be a bad person." However, the negative reports that appeared later were intertwined. From "presumed annual income of 5 million yen" and other content that makes people feel that his life is difficult to "I once pursued a rich second generation, and also to be a son-in-law", various reports have changed people's views on him. Komuro is now suffering from fierce criticisms such as "inconsistent identity", "slaves", and "don't waste our blood, sweat, and taxes".
Although these reports are difficult to distinguish between true and false, Kou does have loopholes that make people complain. But when my good impression of him just started to collapse, I didn’t dare to complain, but later there were loopholes, and I was also sure that “should complain”! This is not so much a criticism, but a counter-effect brought by a very good first impression.
Have you ever held questions about the so-called "good people" such as "are they really good people?" and "feeling a little suspicious"? Once such a "good person" is exposed, everyone especially wants to attack him. This is human psychology.
Although everyone thought that "it has nothing to do with themselves", they unknowingly paid attention to Komu's every move. Because everyone was influenced by the reports and was deeply impressed by Komu's "overestimating his abilities" and "shamelessness". It was also because of the influence of reports such as "proposing with no fixed job", and everyone began to have questions about his common sense as an ordinary citizen.
Now Komuro has changed from "a perfect person who does not belong to the world" to a "an imperfect ordinary person", so everyone is more keenly suspicious of "how can he be the object of Princess Mako"?
Reports from various media have shaped the koku into a "nation-stricken national character who should be surrounded by people and beaten to death." Since the engagement report in 2017, various media have reported a lot of information about the cabin because the "cabin effect" can increase sales and visits by mentioning the cabin name.
People who usually ignore this information also stood in the opposition to the squad because of these negative reports. The media and the masses unite closely together create a rare sense of disgust in the world.
is now being a financial dispute between Komuro's mother and her original fiancé, and media have repeatedly reported that his fiancé's dissatisfaction with Komuro's family. These media reports based on only one party’s conversations without saying apart, which is unfair.
Before, if someone "intentionally wanted to win over relationships with the royal family" or had "suspected to approach the royal family with the purpose of money", I'm afraid people would not be so severely punished by this person. However, many people are not good at thinking and are prone to emotional impulses. More and more people are asserting that "no" and "impossible", and even taking a different approach and holding severe punishments such as "hard punishment". The current atmosphere of "releasing the engagement" is symbolizing this social phenomenon. (Original abstract translation: Tian Fang)
The royal family Mako and the civilian Kei Komuro have become the most concerned couple in Japan since they got engaged.
The 27-year-old Princess Mako is the first granddaughter of Japan's Akihito , the eldest daughter of Prince Akihito and Princess Kiko. She and her boyfriend Kei Komuro, who was born in a civilian, announced the good news of her engagement in September 2017. If nothing unexpected happens, she originally planned to hold the "Na Cai Ceremony" on March 4, 2018 and get married on November 6.
However, the media revealed that Princess Mako's fiancé's mother paid Komuro's tuition for the first time and borrowed 4.3 million yen (about RMB 270,000) from her ex-fiance. This unpaid debt has become a major stumbling block for the wedding period of Princess Mako and Komuro Kei. In charge of Japanese royal , the Uchihara Hall , suddenly postponed Princess Mako's wedding for two years in February last year, that is, in 2020. The specific date has not been announced. The reason for postponing the wedding was given is that the royal family wanted to prepare for the current emperor Akihito's abdication and the succession of the crown prince Narutohito. The Japanese reign name is about to be replaced, and the royal family is too busy.
Princess Mako's father Funin Prince once expressed his opinion that he hopes Kei Komuro will resolve the money dispute as soon as possible. During the extraordinary period of the marriage, Kei Komuro went to the United States to study and did not respond positively to various media reports. As written in this article with the highest monthly click rate, many media have experienced a "little chamber effect" for a while, that is, as long as Komuro Kei is involved in the article, it can attract attention and increase traffic.
This young man, described by Princess Mako as "a bright smile like sunshine" stared at Princess Mako with loving eyes at the beautiful scene of Princess Mako at the engagement press conference, deeply moved the Japanese people. Although the two people have different backgrounds and are not in a good match, the common people and the princess are in love and are preparing to enter the marriage hall. The romantic nature of Cinderella is no less than that of the crystal shoes handed over by the prince. Kei Komuro was elected as the "Prince of the Sea" and served as the travel and tourism ambassador for Enoshima and Fujisawa City in Japan. He and Princess Mako met and fell in love at the International Christian University where they attended. After graduation, they worked at Tokyo Okuno Comprehensive Law Firm and have not yet obtained the lawyer qualification.
In early January 2019, Komuro, who had been silent about money disputes, posted a message saying that the money problem had long been resolved, and the other party made voluntary contributions back that year, and after the mother terminated the engagement with the other party, she tried to repay the money, but was rejected by the other party. A media immediately interviewed Komuro's mother's boyfriend back then, and in the interview he firmly denied the refusal of Komuro's mother and son to repay the money, and emphasized that if Komuro had no financial support from that year, Komuro would not be able to go to school, and he would not be able to meet Princess Mako. What is the truth, which is right and wrong? This love between the royal family and the civilians, which has been fermenting for more than a year, has once again triggered a huge wave of public opinion.
The people who initially had a good impression of the cabin began to turn and threw bricks. In this article, Takashi Kimura criticized the media, believing that the Japanese people's disgust with Komuro was actually caused by the media's induction, but the reason why the media can induce it successfully is because the Japanese people have great expectations for a person who wants to marry a member of the royal family: I hope this person is close to perfection. Once people discovered his flaws, their attitude turned sharply.
If this marriage can be held as scheduled and Princess Mako who is preparing to marry a commoner, what changes will her life as a member of the royal family? According to Articles 11 and 12 of the "Imperial Model", if a royal woman "marries" a civilian, her royal identity will be forcibly eliminated, which also means that her name will be eliminated from the royal family genealogy and becomes an ordinary citizen with a household registration. In response, Princess Mako's answer was: "I realized since childhood that marriage is the moment when I let go of my royal identity. I have come to this day with this idea."
If I marry Komuro, Princess Mako will change her surname Komuro after giving up her life. She will get the right to vote for the first time and start fulfilling her tax obligations. Members of the Japanese royal family have no right to be elected or elected, and they do not need to pay taxes.
According to the "Royal Model", although you can get a significant gift when you get married (the eldest daughter of Emperor Akihito, who married an ordinary civil servant in 2005, Princess Kiyoko received a royal gift of 150 million yen at that time), like the common people in the world, Princess Mako after marriage needs to rent or buy a house by herself and report her household registration in the area where she lives. Her life will be the same as that of ordinary citizens, and she will also personally experience the "seven things to get up early to open the door". The Palace Police Headquarters will no longer protect her personal safety and the responsibility will be handed over to the Japanese Police Department.
Because Princess Mako's life will undergo earth-shaking changes after marriage, the Japanese people have high expectations for Komuro, the future national son-in-law, and hope that he can take good care of Princess Mako who "descends to earth" and give this cross-level marriage a perfect explanation. Many years ago, the joke about the mother-son money dispute between Komuro and his son became the target of public criticism, making Komuro go from being highly anticipated to being beaten by everyone.
Several popular comments from Takashi Kimura's article are as follows:
Anonymous: The royal family "marries" to ordinary people, and the most important thing is whether the other party has the ability to live and financially. Look at Princess Mako's current target, Komuro, it can't be repaid by just 4 million yen, so how about life and financial ability? Mako is a princess, so it is too cruel to let a princess (in the future) find a way out for her own life. Now Komuro's expenses to go to the United States are given by the legal firm where he works. The tuition fees are exempted because of his royal fiancé's identity. What is the difference between this and asking Princess Mako to pay for it out of her pocket? It's simply blackmail. (1080 likes)
Anonymous: Although parents’ grudges should not involve children, people who are not related by blood funded millions of yen to school for you back then, so you should always show some sincerity to the other party. It is because you can’t feel your sincerity that those who have sponsored you, mother and son, will go to the media to go to Balabara. It is a mistake to propose to someone who doesn’t even have an income, not to mention that the other party is a princess. If I had a daughter myself, I would never let her marry someone who lived by spending other people's money. If Komuro and Mako got hundreds of millions of gifts after getting married, can this person who has never seen so much money be spent on Princess Mako? You should work hard for a few years first, pay back the money by yourself, and then consider something else. (824 people liked it)
anonymous: Not to mention the issue of whether to repay the money or not, I don’t even have any gratitude to those who lend themselves to their own money. This is already a personality problem. (166 people liked it)
anonymous: If it is a matter of ordinary people or literary circles, I don’t want to talk too much at all. But as a member of the national, I don’t want to send any blessings for this engagement that will reduce the reputation of the royal family that has maintained its character for more than 2,600 years. (224 likes)
At the 2017 engagement press conference, Princess Mako once smiled and said, "If I can build a warm, comfortable and joyful family, I will be very happy."
When a pure relationship is mixed with interest relationships and becomes complicated, can the first princess who is engaged among the four grandchildren of the Japanese emperor get what she wants?
