Hi Bing said: We come to the world to experience it, not to play the perfect role.
You may think that the most attractive person in " Life Events " is the half-way father-daughter relationship between Mo Sanmei and Xiaowen, but in fact, what resonates most in this movie is the sense of reality and fireworks that are close to real life.
The cramped and stuffy and messy house, two young people with criminal records, although they are combed , the career they are engaged in is not understood by the people around them. The funeral shop is next to the wedding shop, and the sorrows and joys in the world are really just a wall.
Every character in this movie is not perfect, and even has obvious shortcomings, but because of this, it is more substitutable.
The male protagonist Mo Sanmei is full of swearing and ignorant words, Mo's father, who is stubborn and hot-tempered, the rebellious little Nezha Xiaowen, the male protagonist friend who has been a thief, the cowardly and selfish uncle Xiaowen, let alone the selfish and indifferent aunt. Even Xiaowen's mother who appeared in the end was once a little girl...
Chinese movie If we can focus on the lives of the people at the bottom, this is worthy of praise. We have watched too many Chinese movies that embellish all the magnificent and too many Chinese movies that do not have poor people. Movies like "The God of Medicine" and " The Unknown " that depict small people will always give us a sense of intimacy that is paid attention to by the society. Some people say that my life pressure is already great enough, and I don't want to relive the difficulty of small people in my leisure time.
If escaping can make you feel happy, then what else are you struggling with? A real warrior must dare to face a bleak life. Only by looking directly at the problem can you find the problem and solve the problem.
When you lament that the current values are deviated from the indifference of human feelings, if you still refuse to perceive the warmth of human nature from the people at the bottom of "The Great Events of Life", then your heart can only gradually become desertified, because you reject the springs of sweetness and rain and dew, and you are becoming the part of the people you condemn.
Mo Sanmei is the representative of the lowest class of society, but he shows the greatness of ordinary people. His kindness makes him shine. A person who is full of kindness in his heart has infinite appeal, which has played a role in correcting our values that have long been detrimentalized by capital.
"The Big Events in Life" does not perfect the characters in the film. This movie is more like an event that happens in life, with a smile in tears. After laughing and crying, I can't help but ponder: What do we want to live in this world? What is the most important thing?
Cangyang Gyatso said: Apart from life and death, no matter what is in the world, it is not an idle thing. In the face of life and death, fame, fortune, gains and losses become insignificant.
If life is worthy of awe, death is also worthy of our respect. You may hear someone passing away unexpectedly and be glad that you are still alive. You may also witness the lives of your loved ones being taken away by illness or accident and lament that life is nothing but life and death.
But when you return to your trivial daily life, you will be tired of fame, fortune, gains and losses, you will be jealous, you will be angry, you will be concerned, you will even take revenge, you will gradually become cold because of the harm you have suffered too much, you will regret that you were an extremely kind person, you will even think that if you lowered your moral standards at the beginning, maybe your life would take off from now on..., you have been confused, you have doubted, you have been entangled, you have struggled between reality and belief and principles, you have regretted the unnecessary efforts, but why do you have such a deep sense of tearing? Because there is no unwavering belief in your heart that everyone has always believed in from beginning to end. What kind of person I want to be and what kind of person I want to be.
"The Great Events in Life" runs through the awe of life. No matter where life ends, the embalmer will give the deceased the greatest respect. And this respect carries the kindness from the bottom of your heart.
The male protagonist Mo Sanmei is a loser in life. She has never enjoyed maternal love. She has been engaged in funeral services with her father since she was a child. She is used to scenes where a child should not be seen. When she grew up, she found a girlfriend and thought he was poor. Her good friend was still a thief. She was in jail because of her girlfriend, but in the end she was cheated on her. Although she was betrayed by her girlfriend, when her rival was killed in a car accident, she was beyond recognition, but Mo Sanmei was able to let go of her grudges and keep the last trace of dignity for the deceased and help him recover her face. She was still floating around, but she couldn't see Xiaowen without any protection. The halo on Mo Sanmei's body is all because of his kindness, which is the power emitted by the brilliance of human nature.
When we are accustomed to putting morality aside and only judging heroes by success or failure, people like Mo Sanmei are stupid in the values of many people. When you do not use selfishness as the criterion for weighing pros and cons, you are the one who is inappropriate and unaware of the times and cannot keep up with the pace of the times.
But if everyone takes selfishness as the criterion for life, then the world will become a cold winter. When there is no warmth and kindness between people, human society will become a jungle where the strong prey on the weak.
What if the person who was eaten is you? How can you guarantee that that person will not be you? There will always be people who are better than you. Shouldn’t we join forces to keep warm?
A little thought after watching "The Big Events in Life", we may need more such movies!
