is accidentally trapped in the service area of the expressway for several days. How much crash will it be?
Altitude is more than 4,000 meters, it is sunny during the day and cold at night, and people around you are talking in dialects you don’t understand. I can't take a shower, I can only stay overnight in the car.
It seems that you can't do anything except mechanically brush your phone.
Will you be anxious, worried, or panic?
The girl named Huang Yali was trapped in the highway service area of Goluo, Qinghai for 6 days.
But she was very happy.
"It's simply the New Year."
There is no bathroom in the service area, so you can only wash your hair in the sink and take a bath in the toilet compartment.
However, she happily ran to fetch water with a bucket.
"It's as fun as I was a kid."
The plateau is full of sunlight, and such a good sun cannot be wasted.
Take a clothesline on a corner of the courtyard wall of the service area, sleep at night, wrap it in a quilt that has been drying for a whole day, and take a deep breath.
"That's the smell of the sun kissing me."
The conditions are limited, so you must have a good meal.
set a small pot and make a simple dish.
is in a mood, and I can still make a spoon.
Under night, I sat with my friends, watched TV, counted shooting stars, and made wishes.
This boring and anxious life can even be full of surprises.
A few days ago, Huang Yali shared this special "trapped trip" online, which unexpectedly became a hot search.
Many people pronounce her name and their thoughts were pulled back to the summer 17 years ago.
That summer, there were no smartphones and not so many popular internet celebrities.
However, there is a group of girls who "sing as long as you want, sing loudly".
We send text messages, sending them to a higher stage one by one.
Huang Yali won the sixth national Super Girl voice in 2005 (most right)
But after that summer ended, Huang Yali gradually "disappeared".
Her songs are rarely heard; her figure is even less visible.
Until 17 years later, she appeared before us again as a different person than a singer.
Only then did I realize that this "passed" and forgotten girl has actually lived a "life she yearned for".
005, on the stage of Super Girl.
Huang Yali's song " Kill the Wolf ", passionate and melancholy.
6-year-old she debuted in the spotlight.
In the second year, a well-known musician specially created "Border of Butterfly Spring" for her.
Her clear voice sings the flowing spring and the faint clouds, singing into the memories of a generation.
But in this line, new people emerge.
Except for the song "By the Butterfly Spring", Huang Yali seems to have no other popular songs.
Some investors promised to hold a concert for her, but she was excited to prepare everything, but the other party suddenly withdrew its investment.
The reason is that it is not profitable.
is like a person who is trying to climb, and the ladder is removed without saying anything.
Later in those years, Huang Yali sang, posted songs, and even published books and acted.
Trying to keep yourself in everyone's sight, but it's always lukewarm and hard to splash.
The girl who had sharpened her head and broke into the entertainment industry in the end was just a smoky fame.
Even today, someone asked her:
"Where did you go after singing "By the Butterfly Spring"?"
It was also until the previous year, on a variety show, Wang Ou went to visit Huang Yali. Her home in Beijing was captured by the camera.
Only then do we know that Huang Yali has lived a "mortal life" over the years.
His debut for more than ten years, Huang Yali still can't afford a house in Beijing.
She rented an old house with a yard in the suburbs of Beijing.
But the house I rented is not what her dream home looks like.
The little nest in her heart is like in her painting.
is under the blue sky and beside green trees, warm and quiet.
Since there is a gap between reality and dreams, I will find a way to make it better.
"The house is rented, but life is not."
Huang Yali started to do it herself.
She painted the originally ordinary second-story villa into simple colors and drew high-end lines. The wall on the east side of
was originally covered with weeds.
She eradicated and regularized it and turned it into a vegetable yard.
You can eat the freshest fruits and vegetables anytime, anywhere.
In the courtyard on the west side, a big tree embraces the house.
flowers and plants can embellish everything.
The broken toilet can also nurture new life.
The cutest thing is inside the house.
She changed out of the cumbersome decorations, took off the old curtains, reshaped the fireplace, and put on new "clothes" on the sofa.
Retro and cold living room suddenly becomes warm.
plain tableware, unadorned dining table .
She picked up the pen to fill the color of life, and the tablecloth became a blue river under her pen.
The person who holds up the chopsticks is the villain who swims in it.
She made the rusty window anti-theft net into a restaurant industrial-style ceiling.
transformed the abandoned branches into unique lighting in the yard.
Everything in the house is made by her stitches, nails and rivetings.
Even the paintings hanging on the walls of the living room were all from her hands.
There is also a kitchen that makes her extremely happy.
A few friends are calling out to cook fireworks in the world.
It turns out that during the years when it "disappeared", Huang Yali was building her own life bit by bit.
Someone also asked her: What if the landlord doesn’t rent the house one day?
She said:
I don’t know how many years I will be able to buy such a house, and I don’t know if I still have the energy to build such an ideal home by then.
These are unknowns, but what is now is my most real life.
She gave her hut a name: Yamada Shin.
Mountain: Have relatives and friends, like Mount Tai can rely on.
field: There are three meals in four seasons, and you can eat and wear food without worries.
Heart: If you have a heart that loves life, you will be satisfied.
The entertainment industry is full of troubles, pursuing fame and profit.
She strives to rebuild the inner order in a rough but real life.
Wang Ou, who went to visit, sighed: "She is really living, and I am just alive..."
Huang Yali once compared herself to an tit .
is not a sparrow, love to fly in the city; it is not a canary, so exquisite that it is locked in a cage.
but grows wildly, ordinary but stubborn, and only yearns for the jungle and freedom.
So, she built a "mobile home" for herself and wanted to fly further.
That is a 5 square meter RV .
In order to buy it, she almost exhausted all her remaining savings.
RV space is limited, in order to bring enough things, go further away.
Huang Yali measures, designs and rearranges the space from head to toe.
Just the drawings, several versions have been changed.
She designed cabinets for the kitchen and arranged enough space as much as possible.
Refrigerator, oven, pool, tableware, seasoning bottle...
full, but neatly.
On the other side of the kitchen, there is a dining table and a workbench.
Close the bed board, and the second floor is her bedroom.
Open the car door, the birds singing outside the car, and the warm and peaceful inside the car.
Drive this 5 square meter home, she walks on the Yunnan-Tibet line.
went to the butterfly spring in the song and went to Qiao Xiaodao 's "Wild Country".
In Ninzhi , after 5 hours of wind, rain and heavy fog, she saw the golden top of Nangabawa Peak .
Someone has worked here for 7 years and has never seen the full picture of this mountain; some people have waited for a long time and finally gave up.
Someone just passed by and happened to meet him.
She said: "I don't envy the people I happened to meet, nor do I regret the people I missed. I am only grateful, I am willing to wait, and it echoes me."
In Tibet, she hung the "Tree of the Earth" she drew on the road sign.
That is a nearby landscape, formed by gullies in the land, visible through aerial photography.
However, people standing on the ground cannot see the whole picture at all.
In order to let more people see this "tree", Huang Yali drew its shape.
"I hope that when people pass by a desolate in the future, they can also sense the infinite possibilities of life."
Like a tit that always flys, Huang Yali went to every place she wants to go and did everything she wants to do.
Even sometimes, I just like a certain forest.
Then he stopped, blew the wind in the forest, and smelled the flowers on the ground.
Even if you just pick up the abandoned empty drink bottle along the way.
can also be made into a star lamp to light up the night sky.
Fill the house with what you like and fill your life with what you love.
In theory, her career is not very successful at all.
But why can she still enjoy life so much?
Huang Yali also asked herself this question.
Her answer is:
"The appearance of life, there is no unified and standard answer. But the essence of life lies in pursuing inner love as much as possible and doing its best to achieve it."
The reason why I wrote Huang Yali's story is because I have been thinking about a question recently.
930, economist Keynes predicted:
By 2030, people will be worried about doing nothing.
His reason is that by then, human productivity has been high enough.
But today, this prediction seems so unreal.
is extremely close to 2030. Now, the word "do nothing" is just a luxury for us.
Did Keynes say it wrong?
may not be necessary.
Our productivity is indeed very high. Machines, workshops, assembly lines create our food, clothing, housing and transportation.
is like my mother, a rural woman.
Every time I come to the city from my hometown to see me, in the dazzling array of shopping malls and clothing stores, I always ask me with emotion:
"You said that even if the clothing factories around the world are closed, have humans worn clothes for at least ten years and will not freeze to death? Why do you have to produce so many clothes? "
is rough and not rough.
Just as the news on the hot search two days ago:
"Global Four-day Work System" trial, most pilot companies can succeed.
Then why do many people still become busier and busier like gyroscopes?
because they are busy snatching resources and satisfying their desires.
satisfying the desires such as "If this phone is released in a new model, it will become old-fashioned if you don't buy it"; such as "the car symbolizes identity, and the hand expresses taste"; such as "others travel abroad during holidays, I'm very expensive to stay at home.
is dissatisfied with it and is unfair, so I try my best to take possession.
It turns out that I can't squeeze 8 law , Matthew effect .
Finally, I live more and more twisted.
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Huang Yali's life has shown me another way of living.
I often think of a picture I saw a long time ago.
It was a spring morning.
At a very busy intersection in the city, there are motor vehicle lanes, non-motor vehicle lanes, and sidewalks on the ground, which is extremely noisy.
There are interlaced viaducts in the sky, cutting the sky into pieces, and different roads extend to different corners of the city.
Every car is exhausted.
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I also took a car, drove over the elevated, and headed to the destination in the distance.
But when I looked out the window, there was a small green grass in the center of the intersection and under the elevated road.
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html l0 There is a boy lying on the grass, holding his hands behind his head, and putting one foot on the other leg.A shared bicycle parked beside him.
He is basking in the sun.
When I was running around, he was enjoying the sun in the spring morning.
I followed his eyes and looked at the sky.
Suddenly I found that I seemed to have been a long time and had not enjoyed such a good weather.
We are too keen on pursuing a meaningful and practical life.
But who can assert that carrying a brand-name bag and living in a big house must make sense, and stopping for a good weather and taking care of a little fun is meaningless?
Maybe many years later, about that spring morning, the boy would have a whole pleasant memory.
And all I remembered was the copy-paste-like blank.
Sooner or later, people have to live by memories. After all, aging is a long time.
It's time to try to live in a new way.
Since you are struggling to get to get off work, try to smell the fragrance of the bakery on the street and pay attention to the posture of the trees on the roadside.
Even if life is trivial, then look for small beauty in beautiful clothes and serious eating and drinking.
Even though the days are deserts, we always have to find an oasis for ourselves.
Subtitious success may be wealth, power, and fame.
But the meaning of living must be to internalize the beauty of the world into life experiences.
know how to enjoy and know freedom.
Author: Wang Erduo, a middle-aged boy who saw injustice on the road and couldn't help but roar.
