It was about March and April, and the village was full of plum blossoms and peach blossoms were blooming. I was sitting on a stool washing clothes when suddenly a woman in her forties came to my house with a young and handsome young man.
At the beginning, I didn’t know what they were doing, but I only knew that the woman and the man were carrying many gifts in their hands, and they were obviously here to give gifts, so I still greeted them politely and greeted them into the house.
When my mother saw the woman, she smiled and said hello, and then asked the woman to sit down. My mother said to me, "Meizi, this is Aunt Wang from the next village, so say hello to Aunt Wang."
I glanced at Aunt Wang and said, "Hello, Aunt Wang."
Aunt Wang glanced at me, and then said, "It's really a girl who changes a lot. The plums grow better and more beautiful."
Aunt Wang took advantage of the conversation and introduced the man beside her and said, "This is Erzhu, the child of the old Zhao family in our village."
I guessed the purpose of their arrival when I heard it. , but I saw that Erzhu was not the kind of person who was disgusting, so I didn't say anything. If I looked at the people who were upset, I would not give them a good look.
My mother sent me away on an excuse. After I came out, I did not go far, but hid under the window and listened to what they said.
Aunt Wang said to her mother, "Auntie Erzhu came today to marry your plum. What do you think? I'll bring you the person." After hearing this, the mother hurriedly said, "I think Erzhu is a child, But my daughter has a weird temper and we can't be her master. Let's do this. Today, the person is here, and my daughter has seen her. After dinner, I will ask her daughter for her opinion. "
Aunt Wang was obviously a little unhappy after hearing her mother's words, and then said, "All these days, it's all the words of the matchmakers from parents' orders. Your family is strange and they all hear their daughter's opinions." After hearing this, my mother said with a smile: "My Meizi in our family is different from others. She is an independent woman, and she will live her life in the future. It depends on her idea."
Aunt Wang saw this and it was hard to say anything. After Aunt Wang left, my mother told me about this. Actually, I knew it a long time ago. However, in the 1970s and 1980s, it was originally a matchmaker's order, but my parents were just open-minded. To be honest, when I saw Erzhu at first sight, I felt in love at first sight, so I told my mother that I could try to date Erzhu.
In our village, I was a precedent. Others got married in just a few words. I had been dating Erzhu for a full year before I agreed to marry Erzhu. Erzhu's family members had a big opinion of me and said that I was a good person.
I remember that on the wedding day, Erzhu's sister-in-law Cuihua, and she deliberately sarcastically said, "Oh, our second wife is a treasure. We always talk about Dazhu. They only got married with , , and they only got married with a lot of money for a reward. It's so strange!"
After hearing my sister-in-law Cuihua's words, I felt extremely uncomfortable, but out of politeness, I just said lightly: "I want to say a few words, but I have such a cleanliness obsessiveness when dealing with lifelong events, and I don't care!"
After hearing my words, my sister-in-law was so angry that her face turned green.
After getting married with Erzhu, he faced the problem of splitting up his family. Because Erzhu's parents are only in their fifties and are still young and strong, they don't want to follow Erzhu and me, but the splitting up is not going smoothly. My sister-in-law heard that she wanted to split up and insisted on coming to argue with her father-in-law.
The reason is very simple, because she felt that when they split up, her father-in-law and the others did not give anything. Now Erzhu is splitting up, and they have to supervise it. If her father-in-law doesn’t do anything, then this matter will have to be put on the agenda again.
There was no way, and my father-in-law also felt that my sister-in-law was right, so when I went to divide the land, my sister-in-law insisted on leaving each piece of land next to us, and then divided each piece of land. My father-in-law asked my sister-in-law about her opinion. She said she could, and if she said she could, she would go home and discuss it again.
After my sister-in-law's operation, Erzhu and I were not assigned to a good piece of land. Fortunately, Erzhu and I were not the ones who care about it, so we didn't care.
did not get good land, and the harvest was not good. In order to support this family, Erzhu and I often went to reclaim wasteland. Fortunately, the heavens lived up to it. Finally, the reclaimed land had harvests, and the family's life finally improved.
After marrying Erzhu, I gave birth to a son and a daughter for Erzhu, which was a relatively successful ending. It was probably the late 1990s. Because Erzhu and I were the kind of people who dared to do things, we left the children to our parents and went to the city to work hard. We went to the wholesale market and bought some furniture for pots and pans.
has a good business and has made a lot of money, but it is because of the fact that we brought the child to our parents-in-law and brought criticism from our sister-in-law. After we left, our sister-in-law also gave the child to our parents-in-law. In this way, it was just for our family to take care of the children, but it turned out to take care of the children for the two families.
My father-in-law and mother-in-law felt that they were limited in energy, so they found my sister-in-law. My father-in-law argued with her, saying that we were going out of the city to do business, and hoped that she could understand, after all, the family is a family, and it makes money with harmony.
When my sister-in-law heard this, she was unhappy and said that her father-in-law was partial and that she was all daughter-in-law. How could she be so partial? She also said that if this happens, they would not care if her father-in-law dies in the future.
When my father-in-law heard this, he became anxious with his sister-in-law and slapped her in the face. Her sister-in-law had a bad temper. She was already angry and didn't care about her old age and a child. She rolled up her sleeves and went up to fight with her father-in-law.
Erzhu's elder brother saw that the situation was not good, so he quickly went forward to fight. Unexpectedly, his sister-in-law was even more angry and clamored to divorce Erzhu's elder brother.
After we learned about this, we also went home. After we went back, Erzhu and I discussed giving our sister-in-law some money. Even if it was compensation, we should not leave our children to our parents-in-law. The sister-in-law behind
was willing to forgive Erzhu's elder brother for the sake of money. Her sister-in-law has a very strange temper and has no human touch at all. In fact, her parents-in-law is also very good to her children. Where can grandparents not care about their grandchildren? Every time she goes to the market, she will bring delicious food to her children.
However, I don’t remember my sister-in-law’s kindness to my father-in-law. In my sister-in-law’s eyes, my father-in-law is biased.
The father-in-law behind me was sick, and my sister-in-law was also silent and said a lot of unpleasant words. In the end, Erzhu and I took my father-in-law to the city for medical treatment and took everything, because Erzhu and I were both unspeakable but kind people. No matter how unreasonable my sister-in-law was always an old man, and the most important thing for a person was filial piety. After
, our business was very good. We also bought a storefront in the city. We took our parents-in-law to live in the city. My sister-in-law knew that we had money, so she came to lend us money. And when she opened her mouth, she said 100,000 yuan. Erzhu and I didn't think about it, so we gave my sister-in-law 100,000 yuan directly. She didn't pay back the money behind
, but she thought that we were not short of this money, so she just forgot, after all, everything is going to be prosperous for family harmony!
The novel ends here.
What is the most important thing in life is to have a clear conscience. We are other people's children and children's parents. The so-called teaching by words and deeds. If we don't set a good example for our children, then the children will learn from us in the future. Then what are the old and the young and the filial piety?
Peace filial piety is the first priority. Only by setting a good example for children and truly using love to influence hatred can we have a harmonious family. I hope everyone has a happy family!
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