The principle of asking others to do things is not that we give gifts, but people must accept it. Some people are self-righteous, but they are shouting in their hearts: Do you know how to give? If you don’t know how to give gifts, don’t give it a few times. What should we do at this time?
changes the form, is straight and cannot change the curve . The essence of giving gifts is that you are giving gifts. He refuses you to persist once and once. "Thank you very much." He refuses you to persist once and once, "This is my little intention." He refuses you to persist once and once, "If you don't do the next example, then you won't do the next example", and it will be done four or five times. You understand his self-righteousness, he understands your gangster .
So what kind of etiquette is considered a bent? Give relationships, networks, and hobbies. Don’t give money directly. Giving money is equivalent to sending people to the bureau.
What the leader likes to do, then you like to do. If the leader likes feelings, then you give feelings. People will never be trapped by a few words, and those who can be trapped are always three melons and two dates.
Never make such a low-level mistake. My colleague Xiao B gives gifts to the leader, afraid that the leader will not be at home. Every time he calls the leader and says, "Leader, are you at home or not, I will give you something." The leader also says, "No, you have to go out if you have something to do."
can call and say to visit. If you say you go to give gifts directly, anyone will say that you are not at home. If you have something to go out, no need to come over...
You can't see your little thoughts as a leader, and no one wants to cause trouble . Everything is an equivalent exchange. What people need is the value of security, not a time bomb.
offended the leader, what should I do? Don’t wait, go and apologize immediately, be thick-skinned, find the leader’s hobbies, send them big bags and small bags, twice if you don’t have it once. Don’t wait until you get out of here before you know your regrets…
What is the most taboo thing about giving gifts ? That is to cram the moment. The more anxious you are, the less you won’t help you. Why do you dare to take the hot potato? In this case, you can only find an intermediary, and the intermediary must be an acquaintance of the leader, so please ask him to help introduce him. Bring gifts and double portions to give the middleman enough face. If things are done, those who are useful to us must be diligent in maintaining them. Everyone who can help you can pull you and push you.
Now I am chatting with strangers, and I will say whatever they want to hear. I am different from the previous ones. I have to give a reason, that is, I have grown up with a bad guy. , the worldly style, and the unspoken rules are all for dealing with strangers, because most of the problems we encounter can be solved by strangers. What should we do if the child’s school relationship? Strangers do it. Who deals with the problem of parents' shelter insurance? Strangers do it. Who did we give to? stranger. Why can’t some people solve the problem if they spend money? Because we won't upgrade our relationships to strangers.
Lao Li is a close friend of mine. It is easy for him to make money when he does things. When others give him gifts, he will do things immediately. never drags on the . The things are done beautifully. clearly marks the price of . Everyone likes to ask him to do things because there are not many people like him who abide by the rules. He said I didn't understand what it was to deal with the world, what it was to be a human being, how to make a fortune, and then I learned to give gifts. It was a plenary session.
He also said, don’t make any requests for gifts. Once you make a request, the person will run away. What is the difference between
and kidnapping?
People have been in their entire lives, and they don’t give gifts or accept gifts. It sounds beautiful when they look down on everything, but when the real problem falls on their heads, they start to get confused.
first give gifts and then maintain relationships, and then make requests. This is the basic common sense of gifts for . If anyone wants a 100% return rate, his mind will definitely be funny.
The most terrifying thing about students who have just graduated now is their thinking , idealism, society is not as beautiful as you think , but the so-called lessons can only be understood by yourself, as if it is like friends who have read my articles. Some of them think it is nonsense, and some of them think it is deeply touched.
I just want to say that it is understandable, it is priceless, and I don’t understand. There is no need to read it. Don’t read it in the future. You will always understand and come back. Some of my bullshit remarks will one day become your real problem.How to get to know the secret? Only by following the person who has already learned the secret will give gifts to . Follow the person who has learned the secret will give gifts to you. Just walk forward with the person who has learned the secret. Be a grandson first and then a grandson, wear pants first and then shoes. In pursuit of reward, all noble people will leave you. If you dare to take risks, the person who helps you will naturally come out.
Habitual praise and praise everyone is the most effective way to communicate with , but this most effective and simple way is often not simple to do. Many people want shame, but they are shameless, and some people are shameless, but they are very shameless.
is willing to spend money to solve 99% of the problems, but not willing to spend money. Many simple things will be handled surprisingly difficult.
