Parents of the Chinese nation have a common wish - to make their children become successful. Chapter 36 of "The Legend of the Heroes of Children": "Nothing is as good as hoping that your child will become famous, which is several times more important than your own fame." It deeply reflects the parents' expectations for their children. Since ancient times, many powerful parents have appeared in the history of the Chinese nation. Among the Chinese, who is the most powerful parent to educate their children? You want to know what's going on? The editor will reveal the secret to you.
Literary achievements, and the family is a representative of bachelor's degree - Su Xun father and son. As a father, Su Xun was very talented. He also had a very successful education in educating his eldest son Su Jingxian (who died at a young age), his second son Su Shi , and his third son Su Zhe. "A father and son are three poets, and four masters of the eternal articles." This is to describe their family. After all, Su Xun, Su Shi and Su Zhe, the three fathers and sons of Su family, occupied three seats among the Eight Great Masters of the Tang and Song Dynasties, and their reputation was passed down through the ages. Who doesn’t admire this kind of literary achievements?
However, compared with the Su family's education, the Li Hongzhang family is not much inferior. Because of their family, they have educated 2 governors and 4 first-rank doctors. It is said that Li Hongzhang's grandfather is a farmer from Hefei, Anhui Province. He has a lot of fertile land and knows some medical skills. His family is relatively wealthy. One winter, Grandpa Li went home by practicing medicine, but picked up an abandoned baby. She was dying from the cold, but struggled and sobbed. Grandpa Li felt compassion and picked her up home to raise her.
The baby girl is growing up gradually and is very sensible and filial. But she looked numb and didn't wrap her feet around her, and she was often disliked by people around her. The Li family never cared about this, and Grandpa Li’s son Li Wen’an also sympathized with the girl, so Grandpa Li decided to let them get married.
Li Wen'an was originally an ordinary talent. When he was 13 years old, his peers passed the scholarship. He had just finished the Four Books and Mao Shi, and he failed the exams every year. After getting married, under the supervision of the virtuous wife, he suddenly had a smooth journey. He passed the scholar at the age of 21, passed the imperial examination at the age of 33, and passed the imperial examination at the age of 37. After taking up the Ministry of Justice, his career was smooth.
This lady is in a strong state and gave birth to six boys and two girls for the Li family. Under the guidance of a good tutor and virtuous mother, six men and two women gradually became talented. They are the famous Li Hanzhang , Li Hongzhang, Li Hezhang , Li Yunzhang , Li Fengzhang , and Li Zhaoqing brothers. Among them, Li Hongzhang's name is well known. The Li family has produced 2 governors and 4 first-rank doctors. The two daughters, the eldest daughter, married Zhang Shaotang, the same county, and the second daughter, married alternate prefecture of Jiangsu and Fei Riqi of the same county, and both married very gloriously.
Although the education of Li Hongzhang's family is very successful, they are also slightly inferior to the education of Wang Xizhi and . Because when Wang Xizhi educated Liu Zi, he not only was the great " Saint of Calligraphy " in the Eastern Jin Dynasty, but he also trained Wang Xianzhi to become a calligrapher who was comparable to himself. After he was as famous as his father, he was known as the "Two Kings". This kind of artistic genius is truly a rare example in the world.
After reading the education of the Su family, Wang family and Li Hongzhang family are very successful. When we look at modern educators, the first thing that comes to mind is Liang Qichao . Because Liang Qichao not only cultivated all his nine children into talents, "three academicians in one family, and nine sons are all talented" refers to Liang Qichao's nine children. Moreover, he is also a very famous thinker, educator, and politician. He has imparted a lot of educational ideas and is still applied to the education community today. For example, "Don't cramify" education, such as "being friends with children" and other advanced educational methods. It was passed down by Liang Qichao. Educators above
are very successful. However, people agree more with this lady - Wang Shuzhen .
Because she gave birth to 13 children, she trained 13 doctors, the most powerful of which was the world-famous detective - Li Changyu .
Why is Wang Shuzhen so successful? In fact, Wang Shuzhen was born in 1897 and was born in Rugao Town, Nantong County, Jiangsu Province. During this period, many people could not afford to go to school and could not have enough food, but she went to girls' middle school and wrote good articles, which was simply a knowledgeable woman in the new era.However, in that era, even the most educated woman had to get married early, so when Wang Shuzhen was 19 years old, she married Li Haomin, a rich second-generation local man.
Because people like family prosperity, Wang Shuzhen gave birth to 5 sons and 8 daughters, and Li Haomin was very happy. Unfortunately, life is full of surprises. Because of the war, the Li family moved to the bay with all their property in 1948. In 1949, in order to do business, Li Haomin went to southern Jiangsu to buy a batch of fish fry. He was unfortunately killed while riding the Taiping Round. He was about 50 years old at the time.
news came, and Wang Shuzhen almost fainted. But she endured the grief and went to the scene to search in person, and then she decided to stop. But there are 13 children waiting for her to raise. The pillars of the family are gone and there is no one to support the family's property. What should Wang Shuzhen do, a widow? All the 13 children at that time went to school in the city, and it cost a lot every day, and no one could help her. Some people advised Wang Shuzhen to let her children drop out of school. After all, in that era, few people could support their children to study all the time, and poor children even took over as the family, but Wang Shuzhen refused.
In order to support the 13 children's food, drinking and going to school, she started working as a "maid" and "subordinate" as a "maid" and "subordinate" in order to support the 13 children's food, drinking, cooking, and tutoring music from the past. Although it is very hard and the quality of life has plummeted, Wang Shuzhen smiles and often tells her children: "Be good at treating people, be focused on doing things, talk less, and do more." In a hard-working environment, she still insists on a helpful personality and allows the children to be good.
However, in terms of academic performance, Wang Shuzhen is very strict. At that time, after Li Changyu graduated from the police officer school, he became an inspector and his salary was good. Li Changyu wanted to work early to supplement his family income. However, Wang Shuzhen disagreed with her son's approach. She said to Li Changyu: "You have to continue studying. If the master's degree is not enough, you have to read a doctorate." In this way, under Wang Shuzhen's firm request, all 13 children became doctoral students.
The eldest son Li Changquan became an excellent businessman after graduating from Shanghai Business School. The second son Li Changduo is engaged in scientific research at the Agricultural College, , New York University, and New York University. The third son Li Changgang works as an African farming consultant at the United Nations and is also an American environmental protection and water conservancy engineer. The fourth son, Li Changxin, is a Ph.D. at the University of Maryland in the United States and later served as deputy dean of the University of Virginia Research Institute. The fifth son, Li Changyu, studied for a postdoctoral degree at New York University in the United States, served as the Director of the Connecticut Police, and is also an internationally renowned "detective". Even those who are not interested in the case may have heard of Li Changyu's name.
Wang Shuzhen's daughters are also very successful.
The eldest daughter Li Changyun graduated from the Central Political School and worked in an American stationery company. The second daughter Li Changlong graduated from Shanghai Housekeeping School and designed in the United States. After graduating from the Department of Agrochemical, his third daughter, Li Xiaofeng, studied for a master's degree at the University of Edward, and a doctorate at the University of Pittsburgh, and later served as a tenured professor at New York University in the United States. The fourth daughter, Li Chang-san, was from , Soochow University, and later graduated from New York University in the United States. She served as vice president of Berlin Securities and president of American Petrochemical Corporation. The fifth daughter, Li Changxia, graduated from Trudeau University in the United States and designed computers in an American insurance company. The sixth daughter, Li Changping, graduated from the Law Department of Soochow University and served as a judge in the court. The seventh daughter Li Changru graduated from medical school and engaged in nursing work. The eighth daughter, Li Changzhi, graduated from the School of Journalism and the American Fashion Advertising Academy, and later became a well-known American advertising design expert.
Wang Shuzhen achieved the ultimate success whether she was a wife or a mother. It is her tenacious and optimistic personality and tolerant and harsh education that set an example for her children that she has achieved success with her 13 children. She is such an amazing mother.
Although most ordinary people cannot achieve such a successful education method, parents all over the world are the same, and they all want their children to have a future. It is really pitiful to the hearts of parents all over the world.
Wen Xiucai, editor-in-chief of Wen Lan Hairun Studio, this article is written: Special History Writer: Feng Doudou
