12 years old and weaned his son. He only slept with his son in separate beds at the age of 15. He spent seven hours watching his son eat every day. Can you understand such a "loving mother"?
Doing son is not a good idea
Previously, when participating in " Kangxi is here ", Di Ying was exposed by the host. Every meal, 11-year-old son Sun Anzuo will eat the food of an adult. In response, she explained: "Because he wants to eat very healthily, because he wants to be a pillar of the country."
Di Ying answered
Then Di Ying said something amazing:
"I stared at him for seven hours a day, and I would sit with him for seven hours, and I would raise him to gain 5 kilograms in a month during the summer vacation."
Di Ying answered
If her son was going to go to school, she would ride a motorcycle to deliver food to her son on time, and deliver it every two hours. Di Ying also made regulations for her son that if she couldn't finish her meal, she could not get off the table, so her son could eat for two hours at a meal.
. In terms of academic performance, she also has extremely strict requirements on her son. It was too difficult to get the questions in one exam, and his son's score dropped sharply to more than 60 points. Di Ying was shocked and immediately called the teacher to ask the other party about the specific reasons.
Di Ying spoke
She also once said harsh words to her son: "If you fail to score 80 points, I will hit you until your butt blooms."
In addition to the grades, Di Ying also asked her son to sleep on time every day and not go out alone before the age of 18. If you are busy with work, you will call and control his behavior remotely.
Di Ying's self-deprecating
If it is just a strict requirement, then Di Ying's educational method is understandable. But she was completely overwhelmed in controlling the intimacy of mother and son.
As the saying goes, "Men are too young to avoid mothers, and women are too young to avoid fathers." No matter how much parents love their children, they should start to avoid suspicion after the children enter puberty and sleep in separate beds with their children.
Di Ying spoke
However, Di Ying said proudly in the show: "My son doesn't want to grow up until now. You absolutely cannot imagine that my son really loves me. He still has to sleep with me until he is 11 years old. He must hold me before he falls asleep."
Di Ying asked a masseur to go to another place for massage, and left the house before his son woke up. As a result, as soon as she lay down, she received a call from her son. Although the child's father was by his side, he still cried and ordered Di Ying to go home immediately, which was surprising.
Di Ying self-talk
Di Ying once took his son Sun Anzuo on another show when he was a child. At that time, she revealed that her son likes to smell her feet and said, "Mommy's feet are so warm."
But at that time, Sun Anzuo was just a innocent child of four or five years old, and it was understandable that he was so intimate. But the experience of he was weaned at the age of 12 and sleeping with his mother at the age of 15 is very unacceptable.
Di Ying and her son
What's even more strange is that Di Ying took her husband and children to participate in a kissing marathon.
It is speechless that her kissing partner turned out to be her son Sun Anzuo. At that time, Di Ying carried her son to her thigh and kissed him for more than three hours. In the end, her son was so tired that he fell asleep on the spot.
Di Ying and her son participated in the kissing competition
It has to be said that Di Ying was a Taiwanese song drama days later. After changing careers and filming films, she also achieved great success. She and her husband, Sun Peng, broke up and reunited. After storms and storms, she still remains unfamiliar with her.
It can be said that Di Ying is the pride of heaven with both family and career. However, when it comes to educating children, she has made mistakes again and again, becoming a complete loser. In fact, Di Ying's love for her son is related to her own life experience.
Di Ying and Sun Peng
Excessive indulgence leads to a big mistake
When the boy made horrible remarks such as "I want to destroy the school" in public, his mother Di Ying did not expect that he would spend 100 million to settle the matter.
Di Ying was born in Taiwan Province, China. Her father died young and her mother was the leading actress in the opera troupe. Because my mother is cowardly by nature and has to pull a few children alone, she is often bullied.
Di Ying
In order to help her mother share the pressure of life, Di Ying dropped out of school before she graduated from elementary school and started to learn singing opera.
This troupe career has made her develop a bold and generous personality, so she has been helping her mother and sister since she was a child, and even used martial arts knife to chop people everywhere. This kind of habit in the world has not decreased until later.
Di Ying stills
After several years of hard work, Di Ying became the leading actress of opera and opera, and began to move to the film and television industry.
Because she is famous in the drama and song opera industry, she was invited to star in the TV series "Bao Qingtian: Thunder Rage" in 1993, and became famous for her pure and sweet appearance.
Di Ying stills
In the TV series, Di Ying is a gentle and passionate classical beauty, but outside the play, she is a hot-tempered social sister. On a variety show, Di Ying proudly showed off her experience of beating Lan Jieying to everyone.
Di Ying was famous at that time, and she was generous and bold, and she would revenge her enemies. She was recognized as the elder sister in the circle.
Lan Jieying
During her filming with Lan Jieying, Di Ying came to the set early to put on her makeup, but Lan Jieying did not appear for a long time. Unable to bear it, she stood up and rushed to the hotel where Lan Jieying lived, and saw the latter near the hotel lobby.
So Di Ying went up and kicked Lan Jieying in the stomach. The latter was so painful that she couldn't get up, but Di Ying cursed unyieldingly.
Di Ying burst into self-destruction to beat Lan Jieying
Not only did she not feel guilty about this matter, she also used it as a topic of conversation and showed off her on the show.
And Lan Jieying is not the only one who was beaten by Di Ying. Xie Lijin also said that she was slapped by Di Ying during filming, and even had a psychological shadow.
Di Ying self-destructed to beat people
However, Di Ying was proud of this and even revealed in front of the media that he had beaten many artists in the circle, and said, "Artists who have been beaten by me will become famous."
As the saying goes, birds of a feather flock together, Di Ying's husband Sun Peng is also a person who doesn't know how to judge. He once admitted in an entertainment program that he had plucked other boys' pants in front of everyone, got the female teacher drunk, and lifted the bottom of the other party's skirt.
Sun Peng burst out of self-examination of lifting the female teacher's skirt
Xiao S asked him if he felt inappropriate about this behavior, but Sun Peng thought that he would be able to mess with others, which is a pity that people nowadays don't play this trick anymore. Perhaps it was the bad character of the couple who laid the root of disaster for their son Sun Anzuo's future encounter.
Sun Peng and Di Ying got married in 1998. Two years later, 38-year-old Di Ying became pregnant through medical treatment and gave birth to her son Sun Anzuo.
The family of three
However, the two parted ways because of disagreement of ideas.
5 days after the divorce, Sun Peng found a new girlfriend in anger, which made Di Ying curse. She also made a new love a few months later. As a result, it was Sun Peng's turn to sit still and took the initiative to call Di Ying to admit his mistake.
Di Ying and Sun Peng
In 2007, the two reunited and decided to remarry in Guam. Their son Sun Anzuo is the flower boy at the wedding.
I thought the family would live happily like this. However, the couple only cares about spoiling their son too much, but ignores cultivating their son's character and morality, and does not help him establish a correct concept of right and wrong.
Di Ying and Sun Peng’s wedding
When Sun Anzuo went to the United States to study, all these hidden dangers broke out.
Sun Anzuo has liked machinery and gunfire since he was a child, and when he grew up, he couldn't put down all kinds of guns. After studying in the United States, he completely let himself go.
Sun Anzuo was arrested
When he said in front of his classmates that he wanted to destroy the school, he was successfully arrested by the US police on charges of intimidation and other charges. Police also found military items such as guns and ammunition and homemade pistols at his residence.
After learning that his son was arrested, Di Ying and his wife rushed to the United States and asked a lawyer to help their son defend.Later, they sold their luxury house and raised a huge amount of money, which finally shortened their son's sentence to 9 months.
Di Ying and Sun Peng save their son
Education failure is thought-provoking
18-year-old Sun Anzuo could laugh when he was arrested, maybe he was thinking that his mother would definitely save him.
In order to help Sun Anzuo whitewash, Di Ying and his wife repeatedly emphasized to the outside world: their son was bewitched and went astray.
Sun Anzuo was arrested
However, not long after, Sun Anzuo slapped his parents in the face. Because after he was released from prison, he did not reform himself, but instead boasted about his life in prison, made various remarks without any lower limits, and gained more than 40,000 crazy-dead fans.
On the other hand, Di Ying and his wife were still spared no effort to whitewash their son and pulled him to shoot various public service advertisements and movies, and it seemed that some of them were developing in a good direction. Unfortunately, Sun Anzuo's dog couldn't change his shit, and soon he became cute and started to make trouble again.
Sun Anzuo
019, a female internet celebrity named Misha revealed that she had an abortion for Sun Anzuo and had an artificial abortion four months after she was pregnant.
The two met at a comic exhibition and had a relationship with Sun Anzuo. Di Ying couldn't believe that her son would do such a thing, and threatened to hold Misha legally responsible in the future.
Misha leaked
Success As soon as Di Ying finished speaking harshly, Misha revealed more insider information about the two dating.
Not only did she announce that she was forced to have an abortion at Sun Anzuo's strong request, she also accused Sun Anzuo of frequently having sex with her if she had a genuine girlfriend.
m sand leak
In the face of the iron-like fact, Di Ying still stubbornly protected her son and told the media: "It's all my fault that my son is too handsome and attracts so many girls."
's implication is to clear the relationship for Sun Anzuo and tell everyone that his son has not made any mistakes. It was Di Ying who blindly protected him without distinguishing between right and wrong that Sun Anzuo failed to establish a correct concept of right and wrong.
One thing
Now Di Ying is no longer young, and it is difficult for her to continue to shelter her son from the wind and rain like before. If Sun Anzuo cannot take the initiative to make changes, what awaits him will definitely be an even worse ending.
As the saying goes, "If you raise a father, it is the fault of your father." As children grow up, it is necessary for parents to educate and restrain their conduct. Otherwise, the incident of Di Ying saving her son for 100 million yuan would be the best negative textbook.