The crow feeds back, the lamb kneels to breastfeed, let alone the human being, but the 73-year-old mother's crying and bloody call on the hospital bed still failed to recall the child far away from a foreign country, and finally passed away with longing for the child.
And her child Wang Yongqiang is a Peking University doctoral . He has been studying abroad for more than 20 years without any news, no contact information or address, and he has never returned home again.
Wang Yongqiang It’s not that he didn’t know that his mother was critically ill, but he just didn’t want to come back to . Even if he was contacted with the help of netizens, he still insisted on not being willing to go back.
Because in his opinion, is not his family, but the vampire lying on him, and he is the biggest victim.
What's going on?
Wang Yongqiang was born in a remote mountain village in Jiangsu. As the youngest child in his family, he also has an older brother and sister. The family makes a living by farming and has a meager income. What made things worse was that Wang Yongqiang's brother fell seriously ill.
In order to treat the child, Wang Jisheng and his wife chose to let their daughter, who was only 16 years old, go out to work and make money. Wang Yongqiang, who is only 7 years old, has to take care of his paralyzed brother while taking care of his paralyzed brother.
At the age when Wang Yongqiang was supposed to go to school, Wang Jisheng and his wife once wanted to stay at home for and kept it at home . After all, studying is another expense, but in the end, the teacher came to the door to persuade them to go back.
, and Wang Yongqiang also cherishes the rare opportunity to study very much, and his grades are always among the best. The teachers once told Wang Jisheng and his wife that as long as the children are allowed to study, they will definitely be able to get out of the mountains.
Despite the teacher's words, Wang Jisheng and his wife still felt that their eldest son was paralyzed in bed and studying was a lot of money. They couldn't even eat at home, so they stopped Wang Yongqiang from going to school.
Faced with all kinds of obstacles from their parents, Wang Yongqiang knelt down and begged his parents to give him a chance to study . He said that he only wanted to study, otherwise he would have to make money by selling labor in the future.
Facing the child's begging, his father Wang Jisheng was not moved. Instead, beat Wang Yongqiang hard and said that he could study, but the family would not give a penny.
Faced with this situation, Wang Yongqiang saved money by doing odd jobs, and with the help of kind-hearted people, he barely stayed in school. He knew that only by studying can he change his fate of digging food in the soil.
1987, Wang Yongqiang successfully passed the Suzhou University , becoming the first college student in the village. But just when Wang Yongqiang received the notice, his parents were planning to sell his son's admission notice to make some money. was discovered by Wang Yongqiang, and he secretly hid the notice.
Wang Jisheng and his wife were not happy about their son being admitted to university. In their opinion, going to college is another big amount of money, and the young man in the same village did not study so many books, so he could still make money after going out for a year.
They want their youngest son to go out early to make money. In this way, they can live a retirement life early and rest at home. After his son went to college, he became farther and farther away from him, and it became increasingly inconvenient to ask for money.
Even in the face of all kinds of obstacles from parents, Wang Yongqiang still insists on his dream of studying.
After entering university, Wang Yongqiang was busy doing part-time jobs to make money while studying. Due to his excellent grades, he received scholarships every semester. At the same time, the school also provided him with scholarships after learning about his situation.
After Wang Jisheng and his wife knew that the school could still send money, they kept calling Wang Yongqiang to ask his son to send money to him to get money back for him. From the beginning, they said they wanted to see a doctor to threaten his son to send money, did everything.
At first, Wang Yongqiang was unmoved to face the threat from his parents and did not send money back, but soon Wang Jisheng and his wife rushed to school in big and small bags. They did not care about their son's health and their children's studies. They only wanted money.
couple cried and made a fuss at school, accusing Wang Yongqiang of " is unfilial, not a human being, and he doesn't care about his family when he goes to college." . Faced with such a situation, Wang Yongqiang had to send the money he saved every month home, even if he couldn't have enough food.
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This incident also made Wang Yongqiang see his parents' cruelty and coldness, and his heart slowly cooled down.
After graduating from university, he was admitted to Peking University for a doctorate and postdoctoral fellow. At this time, he met his beloved person, and he was with his supervisor's daughter and was about to get married. My parents knew that Wang Yongqiang was about to get married, but they were not happy at all, but instead tried their best to obstruct him.
In their thoughts, as long as Wang Yongqiang gets married and has his own small family and children, he can no longer send so much money to go home. Therefore, they have no blessings for their son's marriage and are more opposed to them.
For the necessary dowry for marriage, is even more and has no money. Fortunately, Wang Yongqiang's fiancée values this person more and does not have too many requirements for dowry. After his parents "exploited" for many years, Wang Yongqiang could only take out the money for the wedding.
On the eve of the upcoming wedding, although Wang Yongqiang knew his parents' reluctance, out of his inner longing for family affection, he still called and invited his parents to Beijing to attend the wedding, but his parents' words made Wang Yongqiang fall into the abyss.
"Take out 1,000 yuan travel fee, we will come to your wedding. If there is no, there will be no talks." It would be 1999, and 1,000 yuan is not a small amount of money, and Wang Yongqiang really can't afford it.
, but Wang Jisheng and his wife, who didn't get the money, did not actually go to Beijing to attend their son's wedding. Faced with the questioning of their father-in-law and mother-in-law, Wang Yongqiang could only let go.
From this time, Wang Yongqiang learned that in his parents' hearts, money is the most important thing.
After getting married, I was worried that my son would no longer pay money, so Wang Jisheng and his wife asked for money more and more frequently. After sending it to their family every month, there was almost no amount left, and the expenses were almost borne by their wife.
Once Wang Yongqiang sent less money, his parents would take turns bombing the phone, and even insult his wife on the phone. All of this made the couple extremely tired.
Under the endless entanglement of parents-in-law, the two finally chose to divorce in pain, and this short marriage was marked with a rest.
For so many years, Wang Jisheng and his wife lived a very comfortable life by relying on their son to make money. When they had no money, they asked their son for it. The two are like parasites lying on their son sucking blood . People in the same village also envied this couple who relied on their son to support their elderly care.
But Wang Yongqiang lost his marriage and lover, and even under the entanglement of his parents, he did not achieve any academic achievements. Under great pressure, decided to go abroad in order to escape from his parents' pursuit.
In July 1999, Li Yongqiang called his parents for the last call and said that he was going to work abroad and could not come back for a while. Wang Jisheng and his wife were very opposed, They were worried that after their son went abroad, they could not ask their son for money.
Faced with the questioning of his parents, Li Yongqiang hung up the phone and boarded the plane to Japan. has never contacted his family again.
In a comfortable life, Wang Jisheng and his wife have not farmed for many years. Without the financial support of their younger son, their eldest son is still paralyzed in bed, and their lives are becoming increasingly difficult.
, and Li Yongqiang, who is far away in Japan, no longer sucks his parents' blood. With his own abilities, he found a high-paying job and re-established his family, and lived a very happy life.
When he was frequently exploited by his parents and his family was destroyed, he had to choose to disappear. In the 20 years of disappearance, Wang Yongqiang got unprecedented happiness.
Wang Jisheng and his wife waited for their son to come home for more than 20 years. Even at the last moment when their mother was critically ill, they still did not wait for their son. After netizens with great powers found Wang Yongqiang, he just said lightly "It is difficult for a clean official to make a decision on family matters, and I will not go back."
If these parents could be more considerate of their children, things might not have turned out like this.
If these parents can care for their children more, the direction of things may be better.
The harm caused to him by Wang Yongqiang's original family followed his life, and he could only use his disappearance to avoid his parents' relentless entanglement.
