15 years ago, a fire took away Fu North Korea's beloved parents and caused 70% of her skin to burn. After the fire, economic difficulties, ridicule around him, and lack of confidence in his appearance allowed Fu North Korea to spend several years of darkest time.
Today, Fu North Korea is already a girl in her 20s and is studying electronic information engineering at Zhengzhou University of Light Technology . Due to his outstanding professional ability and comprehensive quality, Fu North Korea received the national scholarship last year.
From inferiority complex to sunny and confident, from "dirty" in the school to being admitted to college with great enthusiasm, as he grew up, Fu North Korea realized that no one was perfect, and these imperfections were the motivation for her to work hard.
Fu North Korea told The Paper that the kindness from around him and his gradually stronger heart healed her little by little. At the class event of
, Fu North Korea took the stage to give a speech as a volunteer. All pictures in this article are provided by the interviewees.
"After the college entrance examination, I firmly told my family that I will never go to Beijing again. But now I think Beijing still attracts me. Although there are memories of my unhappy, I don't think it should be rejected." Recently, Fu North Korea is fully preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination. "I also want to go to Beijing, hoping to successfully get into Beijing University of Technology ."
Survivor in the fire
In July 2001, Fu North Korea was born in Xinyang, Henan, and then she went to Beijing to live with her parents. Her father was a decorator. At that time, there were many new houses in Beijing. He was responsible for installing anti-theft windows and anti-theft doors, and the business was very good. My mother opened a small supermarket in the community.
"To be honest, our family's financial conditions were pretty good at that time. My family had two cars, and my dad wanted to buy another excavator. Our family was also very harmonious." However, just when Fu North Korea was 6 years old, her peaceful and beautiful childhood came to an end.
A certain day in December 2007, North Korea can’t remember the specific date, but the fear of that day is still clear.
It was a night that was no different from usual. Fu Chao-ho was having dinner with his family. When she raised her head, she saw the fire full of the room. Fu North Korea only remembers that he was very scared at the time and fainted without realizing it.
Later she found out that the fire was because the gas tank was burning. At that time, a family in North Korea lived in a small house, with the kitchen and gas tank outside the house. When the fire broke out, the living room door blocked, and the family was trapped in the sea of fire.
"Dad passed away in gas poisoning in the fire. My mother and I were transferred to intensive care unit . At that time, 70% of my body burned , but my condition was still a little better than my mother. She had been in the intensive care unit for a long time and had not improved. My family saw that there was no hope, so they took her back to their hometown." In March of the next year, Fu North Korea's mother also left her forever.
After this, Fu North Korea continued to receive treatment in Beijing. Due to the failure of the operation, Fu North Korea had one hand that could not move at all. Grandpa and grandma took out all their savings and borrowed a lot of money, but still couldn't afford the expensive medical expenses, so they had to transfer their payment to North Korea back to their hometown hospital.
Complete treatment from the fire to the North Koreans, 9 months passed. Due to financial conditions, she was unable to do any nursing care in the later period and did not go for a review.
"Dirty" in school
70% of the skin on the whole body is burned, and there are scars on the face from above the chin. Although Fu North Korea's treatment has ended, life's torture and test of this little girl can't see the end.
When Fu North Korea returns to school, those ignorant and naughty children will joke about her scars and sometimes make pranks. Fu North Korea admitted that those ridicule and teasing had a great impact on her. To this day, "For example, I still feel scared when I see children."
From then on, Fu North Korea has been alone every day, and has no friends, and has become sensitive and withdrawn. When he was in the fifth and sixth grades of elementary school, Fu North Korea gradually became a "stubborn" who was punished by his teacher.
"Actually, I would write every exam question at that time, but I just didn't. I would do the homework left by the teacher, but I didn't do it either.I felt that I could not integrate into the group, and later I didn’t want to integrate into it anymore. "Fu North Korea recalled that she was very rebellious at that time, and she even felt that everyone was hostile to her.
After going to junior high school, Fu North Korea gradually opened her heart and could look back on the past calmly, and people became cheerful.
Fu North Korea, who participated in volunteer activities in the library.
At that time, Fu North Korea's head teacher, Teacher Qian, took special care of her and arranged two deskmates for her. One was more powerful. If someone in the school bullied her or laughed at her, he would stand up to maintain it. The other was very gentle and would take Fu North Korea to study with him every day.
"When I was confused, they would encourage me. The head teacher often talks to me, and we always have a happy and relaxed chat. I've been in touch with the three of them until now. I will talk to them about any confusion in life. "Fu North Korea feels that it is these kindness from around her that allows her to get out of the haze faster.
"I want to become better"
After the fire, Fu North Korea has been living with her grandparents, and the old couple relies on farming to support the whole family. One day, Fu North Korea's grandfather picked her up from school. She noticed that her grandfather saw a two-dollar razor on the street stall. After picking it up, hesitated for a long time, and then slowly put it down. The scene in front of her hit her. At that moment, her eyes were wet and she made up her mind to study hard and have the ability to protect the person she loved.
"We turned on the lights at 5:30 in high school, and I usually get up at 5:00. When the lights were turned on at 5:30, I had already gone to the classroom. When the lights are turned off at night, I will continue to secretly learn until twelve forty. "From the third year of junior high school to the third year of high school, Fu North Korea has lived a two-point and one-line life, "I admire myself at that time now. "
The persistence and hard work of several years was not in vain. North Korea was admitted to the School of Computer and Communication Engineering of Zhengzhou University of Light Technology as it wished. The reason why she chose the major of Electronic Information Engineering was because she learned that this major had good employment prospects and high salary in the future. She just hoped that she could make more money and change the status quo. "I want my grandparents not to farm, and I want to take them out to see it so that they can live a better life. "
In college, Fu North Korea joined the school's student union and became the deputy director of the party member office of the college, mainly responsible for holding some red volunteer activities. At the same time, she is also the deputy secretary of the school's flower art club, planning many cultural and sports activities for the whole school.
Fu North Korea told The Paper that the reason why she participated in so many clubs was due to a compensation mentality, which was a compensation for her childhood: "Because there were many activities I wanted to participate in when I was a child, but I had a strength in my heart that prevented me from taking that step. I felt that I shouldn’t be able to participate and I couldn’t fit in, so I missed a lot, so I really wanted to make up for it when I went to college. "
Fu North Korea admitted that at first she would have some concerns and would worry that everyone would stare at her scars. But soon she felt that everyone was kind to her and had no strange eyes.
This year, Fu North Korea has entered her senior year. In three years of college, she won seven provincial awards and more than 30 school-level college awards. Fu North Korea has successively won the provincial second prize in the "Da Tang Cup" National College Students 5G Technology Competition, the third prize in the National College Students Embedded Chip and System Design Competition, and the third prize in the Henan College Students Robot Competition. She said that the reason why she worked so hard to participate in the competition is because she wanted to become excellent.
Fu North Korea 20 The national scholarship certificate obtained from the 20-2021 academic year. When he was in his freshman year, Fu North Korea set a goal - to get a national scholarship. When he was in his sophomore year, Fu North Korea devoted his extra time and energy to professional courses, spent in the laboratory when he had time, and actively participated in various competitions. In the end, Fu North Korea's professional scores and comprehensive qualities were both high scores. After the defense, Fu North Korea won the national scholarship last year.
"I am still a beautiful little girl"
Fu North Korea told The Paper that everything has passed. Now she can accept herself and have expectations for the future is the best thing.
At first, she couldn't accept the conspicuous scars on her face. Sometimes when she looked in the mirror, she felt a little scary. "No wonder everyone was afraid, I felt scared."
"Later, I often looked in the mirror and felt that I was pretty. Before the fire, I thought I was a pretty girl. After the fire, I might be a little unacceptable at the beginning, but slowly, I felt that I was still a beautiful little girl." The optimistic personality made Fu North Korea slowly get out of the haze. Now, like other young girls, she loves outfits and beauty, and will also put in some things within the economic scope she can afford.
In the dormitory, the roommate took photos for Fu North Korea.
Fu North Korea hasn't been in love yet. She thinks love is just to let things go. She wants to stabilize her work first and then consider these things later.
"I think I can make money first when I was young, so I can take my grandparents out to play and see some things. In a few years, I want to take the civil service exam, which can be considered a contribution to the country." Fu North Korea said that no matter where he goes in the future and what job he does, he will continue to study hard, continue to be warm and kind, and uphold the school motto of "it is easy to do, but it is difficult not to do it." She also wants to use her own strength to bring care and help to more people, and to make her life more colorful.
