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Interview | Feng Qi
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Everything in the world is rising and falling, how can you live a young man in life? ——Yu QianHi Hello everyone.
Today is the Chinese Valentine's Day. We were thinking about talking to you two weeks ago.
Thinking about the emotional views of children born in the 1995, you can discuss them.
This batch of generations of late 90s and early 00s
is the generation of Uranus entering the Aquarius!
Uranus is so unique
and is in the position of entering the temple
…
They must need space.
We enthusiastically interviewed a group of children born in the 1995
and then...we were slapped in the face...
Who said that they are not in love?
Who says they don’t want to get married?
Who says that people don’t understand feelings?
is reversed, it is really a reversal.
If that is the case, where is the temple prosperity of Uranus?
"Marriage is no longer essential"
@Qiuqiu
Gender: Female
Age: 22 years old (real age 18)️
Occupation: Accounting (new job)
Number of loves: 0
Love status: Single, calm, can't be calm anymore
ex-boyfriend is Eddie Peng . He just broke up two days ago because he met the gun god. The reason for being single in is very simple. I haven’t met someone who likes me, I haven’t met someone who likes me, I have never met someone who likes me, and I have also liked me.
I am both expecting and afraid of love. Looking forward to meeting someone, I sincerely take each other to heart. As long as I see each other, I will feel at ease. I will hold hands until I grow old. I feel very happy when I think about it.
But it seems that I am looking forward to it, which makes me less daring to start a relationship.
As for getting married, a Aquarius like me is really not very good at thinking about things that will take a long time later. I always feel that the marriage is very far away from me. After all, marriage belongs to two people, and that person doesn’t know where to stay. If you are going to fight or not, let’s talk about it when he appears.
But for people today, marriage has long been no longer an indispensable thing in life.
If you meet someone who wants to get married, then get married! immediately! immediately!
But if you really can’t meet it, there is no need to let yourself down. There is no need to enter a marriage that you don’t even expect because of public opinion or parents’ urging.
right.
"Only by living your life into boiled water
can you never get tired of it"
@yuqi
Gender: female
Age: 22
Occupation: Master's degree
Love status: in love for 2 years (note, he Pisces, I am Scorpio )
Do you have any plans to get married: I hope to put it on the schedule as soon as possible
He and I were together when I was a bachelor's degree. At that time, we met every day and joking and eating and drinking all day long. After graduation, I started a foreign relationship. The happier I was together, the more painful it was. I started crying three days before each separation until I got in the car and couldn't see anyone. I realized that I could have so many tears.
Long-distance relationship is really difficult, but we are all working hard to accompany each other. I accompany him to eat chicken and play Onmyoji, and he will also play various childish games with me. Every day, good morning, noon, good night, dinner, class, shower, and sleep. Countless plain words make us sure that we can be with each other for the rest of our lives. Because only by living your life into ordinary boiled water can you never get tired of it.
The biggest feeling in the past year is that I have experienced the loneliness I have never felt before. It's the kind of ghost that even though there are people around me, I always feel that it's a little bit short, like a soulless ghost. Only when he returns to China for a month to accompany me every six months will the feeling disappear.
He always says that I have become his relative now and can be free to be myself when I am with me, but for me he is not a relative, he is another me. When I was single, I never knew that there would be someone so fit with me. In front of him, I could put down all the burdens and tell all the anxiety. Even if I was cowardly and timid, I would look forward to a future with him.
We said early that whoever finds a job first after graduation will go to that city unconditionally. We are not that great and do not want to sacrifice one party to fulfill each other's dreams. Compared with job opportunities, we are more reluctant to let go of each other's hands.
I feel sweet when I eat a small candy with him. When I am unhappy, I will lie on his stomach and cry. many moments make me feel glad that I have him.
"Sensual and rational combination
can only be done well"
@Lao Wang
Gender: male
Age: 22
Occupation: digital self-operated employee
Number of love times 3
Love status: 59 days of love
Do you have any plans to get married: take it slow, but there is no end
Now we are both in Shenzhen. When we were together at school, we were more casual. We usually didn’t plan what we wanted to do in advance. Instead, we would give each other some suggestions such as where to go to play when making decisions. Coincidentally, we thought of one another almost every time.
Because we just graduated, we are busy with our own things now. We haven’t met for 10 days and we are still a little uncomfortable. She may be transferred from Shenzhen due to work reasons in a while. Although I am very confident about this relationship, I am still a little afraid of a different place.
Currently, I feel that this relationship still has a long way to go and I have to overcome many difficulties, so I must be patient, solve problems together, enjoy happiness and management together. I feel like I have met the right person, so I cherish it very much. Now we are discussing to try to better solve the problems we may face.
She is now fighting for the opportunity to stay in Shenzhen. She is very hard and annoying every day. She calls me. I can only comfort and inspire her here, but it is just in terms of language. I feel very weak and the effect is not very good. I can't tell her about my hard work here, because I'm afraid of putting more pressure on her. Every day I'm adjusting myself and the pressure is also very high.
When I feel that each other is giving something to their relationship, I will be very tired. If I were alone, I wouldn’t think so much.
But think about it, the hard work now is also the fertilizer for the future love to bear fruit. Only with hard work can there be rewards. Our values are quite consistent, but sometimes there are different opinions in terms of relationships. At this time, both parties will calm down and chat slowly, and talk about each other's views and seek common ground while reserving differences.
I know she is a Leo and sometimes she doesn’t make sense, so in some cases she will give her a lot of space to make her feel comfortable so that she won’t hurt her feelings. But she is still very rational in most cases and respects my point of view. I think relationships must also be combined with rationality and sensibility to manage better.
Oh, right, I am Gemini.
"What are you doing in love so seriously?
Just be fine"
@Yanyan
Gender: Female
Age: 21
Work: Student
Number of love times: 2
Love status: 681 days of love
Do you have any plans to get married: If there is no accident, you won’t change people
We usually go shopping, eat, chat, quarrel and fight each other hahahaha. I called him Xiao Wang. In addition to his bad temper, Xiao Wang always makes me angry, he is also a good boyfriend in other aspects.
Many moments of being with him impressed me, such as when you want to go anywhere, you have someone to accompany you when you go home on weekends, when things are heavy, you don’t have to take them by yourself, when you are sad, you can tell him your emotions, there is always someone who will think of me unconditionally, and so on.
I remember one night I suddenly wanted to eat Haidilao and called him and he would agree: OK.
The two years I spent with him often had various conflicts, both big and small. Some will compromise, some will tolerate some, but more will sit down and have a good talk. Although some problems cannot be solved, in love, so why are you serious about it? Is it enough for two people to make up in the end? No matter how he solves it, time will eventually sweep away the contradictions, and only the two of us are simple.
"Without touching the principle,
I try to let her"
@Taichu
Gender: male
Age: 21
Work: Student
Love status: 115 days in love
Do you have any plans to get married:
Because you are still a student, most of the time you spend in class and study together. Sometimes I would go out for a walk together at night. If I had a favorite movie, I would watch it together. I would often go to the gym together. When I encountered anniversaries, I would find a place to play together for a whole day, doing pottery, amusement parks, aquariums, etc.
will find a place to travel together during holidays, and stay for a few days before going home. After I get home, I will chat and make a phone call, and share with each other if I see something interesting.
feels pretty good. We have a good view of the two of us, and later we have more and more tacit understanding. Usually, she says half of the sentence, and I will say the second half. I am usually very happy, laughing and laughing every day together.
Of course, there are also times when one person is better than two, it is because she has a bad temper and can't coax her. I thought there would be such a difficult person to coax, and I was inexplicably angry. I had a good temper before falling in love, but I never got angry. Then when I coaxed her, I didn't give her any chance, I didn't reply to anything, and I didn't answer the phone, but I was also angry, but I still had to coax her.
If we have conflicts, I will try my best to let her go before not breaking the principle.
"He became a dead fat man,
I think this is happy fat "
@Xueer
Gender: female
Age: 21
career: graduate
relationship status: 2472 days in love
Do you have any plans to get married: We have penetrated into each other's lives
We are junior high school classmates, but we only started dating in high school. The time I got to know him is half of my current life, and the time I was in love is also 1/3. When we were together in high school, we just studied without interrupting each other, and we didn't even have a chance to go out alone.
performed well after the college entrance examination, so I decided to stay in Harbin together. The past four years have been ordinary. I went out for two trips, and saved up almost a small bag of movie tickets and tickets to various amusement park attractions.
both said that if two people are suitable for marriage, they have to go out for a trip, and the result proves that we can do it. Now it's like an old husband and wife. He turned out to be very handsome, a storied figure in our high school, and now he has become a fat man. I personally think this is a happy fat person.
Even if two people have conflicts, they can still survive it relatively smoothly. We all have troublesome personalities. I think this is the most important reason why we have never had a big fight or said we had broken up. Find someone again, from familiarity to falling in love is too troublesome.
"Long-distance relationship is sweet, but behind
is the persistence when separated"
@Zhang Zhang
Gender: female
Age: 22
Zodiac sign: Aries
Occupation: graduate student
Emotional status: long-distance relationship for one year
He is working in Guangzhou now, and I am studying for a postgraduate degree in the UK. Because it is a long-distance relationship, I usually do video chats. I meet you every half a month, and I often prepare for a long time, such as planning where to go after meeting, which restaurant to eat, what movies to watch, etc.We also had a trip to Shanghai where we saved money, which was super unforgettable.
The biggest feeling that this relationship gave me is hard work, especially during quarrels. In fact, as long as he is by my side, he can get better by coaxing him a few times, but when he is alone, all kinds of grievances will appear in his heart.
Usually when conflicts occur, I will be very angry, and it is common to block him. He would come to me in various ways and send me messages. I had basically figured out his tricks. No matter who is wrong, he will admit his mistake first. If I feel a little better, he will judge the matter and analyze the reasons for the quarrel between us.
In fact, in most cases, it is because of me. I am a person with extremely no position. At this time, I usually lose. I still feel it makes sense to hear him talk freely, and of course I make up in the end.
When we meet in a long-distance relationship, we need two people to be persistent and sincere about their relationship when we are separated. Although he is not there when I need him sometimes, I feel at ease because he makes me feel that I am willing to go down there with him.
Although many people think we have no hope, we have always insisted. I am not in a hurry to get married, but I must marry someone who has experienced some ups and downs with me. I always feel that such a relationship is stable. Sometimes we will discuss housing prices in Guangzhou. I will also go to Guangzhou to develop when I return to China, so I think we have the possibility of getting married.
You said Uranus entered the temple, where did the temple go?
Transportation Water Bottle, the strengthened Uranus
1995-2002 is a special generation.
After 84 years of cycle, Uranus has arrived in the sign of Aquarius he guards. In astrology, Uranus, which guards Aquarius, represents an abnormal change, a psychological drive that crushes outdated structures or restrictions. Uranus expression is usually rapid and unconventional. It is full of originality and forward-looking, and is always connected with innovation, technology and invention technology.
When it returns to its own guardian sign, the intuitive flash of will be particularly strengthened, and the characteristics of Uranus will be more obvious. There is a school of modern astrology that as the Aquarius era progresses, more and more souls will be influenced by the Three Kings (Uranus, Neptune, Pluto ), and they are inspired to evolve towards a higher level.
Because of this emphasized Uranus characteristics: personality, innovation, maverick, and rapid change... Before the interview, we thought that most children born in the 1995 would be happy to be single or have a spiritual relationship. Unexpectedly, they have a very comprehensive understanding of their own feelings.
Singles also have a yearning for love, and they will temporarily turn to their path because their focus is not here; they have partners, and they will also look forward to marriage, and they also have their own understanding of the roles from love to marriage. Almost all interviewees mentioned the word "management" when describing their relationship.
This is much more mature than we think.
The temple of the Heavenly King is prosperous, and it penetrates into the bones of growth
Since this is the case, where is the temple of this generation of Uranus who entered the temple?
The answer is that is not through emotional relationships, but has long been integrated into the way of growing up - an understanding of the world.
Someone asked this question on Douban: Do you think the post-95s are precocious and can you analyze the reasons from the astrological chart? The answer to the top of
is as follows: is too developed, you can see everything, and kindergartens want to see everything, and the adult world is easy to imitate.
1995, Uranus changed from Capricorn to Aquarius.
That year, Sohu was established, and then Sina and NetEase followed, and three major portals were established;
1999, QQ, the OICQ at that time, became the collective memory of a generation;
1999, Alibaba was established, needless to say, you may have read a lot today;
2000, Baidu became the world's largest Chinese search engine;
...
...
Detailed these pasts, it really changed the times like Uranus. And these late 1990s and early 1900s who grew up under the wave of Internet information, their way of knowing the world is no longer book notes and magazine columns, but their world comes from computers, mobile phones, and the Internet.
is not difficult to understand. Uranus is already called "high octave Mercury" , which means that the impact of on us starts with the way of information intake. And this is the beginning of our self-aware construction: by constantly absorbing information, we understand what kind of person we are and what kind of talent we have... and constantly define ourselves.
According to Aruoyou, "The Three Kings will immediately affect the deepest aspects of personal spiritual life, but these huge forces originally burst out from the supernatural dimension and enter the material world, so they will also show changes in the material world."
In this way, , whether it is a portal website, an e-commerce platform, a search engine, or the post-95s shaped under the Internet trend, or even their choices born in this era, are part of the "change of the material world."
This generation of children who entered the temple showed us the gifts given by the time when the heavenly king entered the temple in another way - they understood the world faster and more, and were also digging themselves from a richer perspective.
It turns out that the generations wrapped in this information bring us not only the development of technology. There is also a mental maturity faster.
Prelude to the King of Heaven, Saturn's experience
is just, borrowing the answer from Douban netizen, "The adult world is easy to be imitated." This is very similar to Uranus' warning: Before using my power well, please do your homework for Saturn first. Before entering Aquarius, we must first experience Capricorn. Children born after
95 may still be following the seniors and seniors of the King Capricorn and the seniors in the workplace to learn the rules and learn the premise of originality, and mastering skills first. The genius's existence not only requires a flash of inspiration, but also requires accumulation of time.
Just like in the interview, those born in the 1995s who say "management" are also working hard and moving forward step by step for the fruit they long for. Although it is a bit awkward and still has a little thin step, , who has not walked through this? After Uranus's rampage, he finally integrated Saturn's shoulder responsibility, making every step he took is confident and affirmative.
Love is like this, and so is life.
Perhaps those labels that put them are just the prejudice of our generation.
The previous generation always thinks that it is right for the next generation to live their way, but how could it be? Just like the famous idol ranking battle not long ago, the sunset fans who are now snatching parking spaces at work and taking care of children after get off work, who has never posted idol posters all over the entire wall of their homes in youth? The era of idols is real, and a generation will eventually go far, but some are still young.
Think about it like this,
knows that we will entrust our future to
, such as
, who have originality and changes in their bones,
, think it's a cool thing,
, right?
Are there post-95s around you?
Did you feel that the king of heaven on them has entered the temple?
Where is your Uranus falling again?
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Shepherd
Astrology enthusiast and inner wisdom explorer. In 2012, he started his astrology journey and graduated from Renmin University of China's Master of Philosophy and a mainstream media practitioner in China. Later, he turned to inward exploration and practiced art healing such as dance and drama.
Feng Qi
Soaked in the rich astrological atmosphere of the crescent moon, the new generation of power is working hard to grow. College majors are related to biology and like to explore the meaning of life; daily entertainment, dramas and news gossip, and like to watch entertainment events with an astrological perspective. Astrology, I've been on the road.
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