The love scene is so slutty, who has never met a few scumbags? The workplace is so cheap, who hasn’t met a few idiot bosses?
Speaking of the bosses who were called "idiots" by us in those years, they should have had an unforgettable past. However, when recalling those "painful" and "torture" experiences, it is the most profound in the workplace process and the fastest stage for us to grow. Without them, and without you now, me.
Those "idiot" bosses who allow us to complain behind our backs and hate them are like our ex. Their mission is to let me grow, and our mission is to accompany us.
Now we each forget each other, I hope they can treat life gently.
I would like to dedicate this article to those "innocent" bosses who have been criticized.
You are fire, you are wind, you are the devil of weaving the net
@goHappY, 32 years old, foreign company HR
A few years ago, I worked as HR in a medium-sized foreign-funded enterprise. The company is not large in scale, but it is well-known in the industry. At that time, most of the company's senior executives were foreigners, and in addition to foreigners, some were foreign Chinese or overseas returnees. My straight line manager was a Chinese Canadian. She said she was a Chinese. In fact, she went to Canada to study and live when she was young, and then stayed to work to get a returnee with Canadian nationality.
It has black and shoulder-length curly hair, delicate eyebrows, slender eyeliner, high nose bridge and cheekbones, and always has a uniform and full aunt-colored lipstick on the lips. Although the figure is not tall, I walked into the office every day with 7cm high heels and a rich perfume with a little musky smell. In fact, if I don’t speak, she is the kind of person who can recognize that person in the crowd at a glance, especially a mature woman who is older, which reminds me of the sociable styles on the old Shanghai beach in the 1920s and 1930s. But when I was only 25 years old at the time, I looked at her in my eyes and felt like a lively witch...
She was indeed like a butterfly graceful waltzing on the stage of the Peace Hotel in the old Shanghai, flying among the flowers, melting and making grass. Not only did she like social, she also often formed cliques. Every day, I have to find a way to kill the manager of XX department. The director of XX department is my Alibaba (a alliance). A palace fighting drama of "joining the mountain and joining the mountain" is staged every now and then. Not only that, I also "instructed" me from time to time to help her stare at Manager XX's attendance, or to help stare at XX employees, and report to her immediately whenever there is any disturbance. My daily work is already very trivial, and I really don’t have time to pay attention to her. I feel like I've been to a fake company, and the boss forces me to be SPY every day.
Of course, I don’t want to be this "little spy". The department is so happy that I am willing to do it naturally and run diligently. I really disdain for the fight that the boss has to stage once a day. I can't do anything if I flatter or have a good relationship with the boss.
does a lot of work without being "respected" by the boss, and there is no need to mention promotion and salary increase. I don't have a job that flatters, but I have gained a lot of skills in my work. Later I left the company and came to this large foreign company that is now a global HR. There are obviously not so many distinct "office politics" here. But it also made me gradually understand that it is not a good deal to have a broken relationship with my direct boss. Not only did the work I did was thankless, but I also didn’t get the rewards I deserved, and the atmosphere at work was not happy. Therefore, following the right boss is very important, but if you really follow a "best" boss, you can teach you four words: "follow first and then lead", follow, then lead. Of course, you can also choose to leave. But in the workplace environment, you always have to adapt, and slowly, you must also learn to "discipline" your boss.
The daughter of Lao Wang, next door,
@Maomao, 28 years old, fast-moving consumer goods company marketing
When I just graduated, I worked in the Marketing department of a foreign company. I said it was a foreign company, but in fact I registered the company abroad. The big boss of the company is from Shanxi. When I chewed Shanxi people, I felt that the whole company had a strong smell of coal boss.
My boss at that time was a man, and I couldn't find a second adjective to describe it except Low. Relying on his own title, he is domineering in the office, not only to his subordinates, but also to his title, he will not look at others with a direct look. A big man talks about Hey in the office every day, do you know, I heard that Tina's family is very rich; and Lisa seems to have bought a house in Australia recently; I recently saw that Sabrina bought a new LV bag, and I don't know which wild man gave it to him. . . The little finger is slightly raised and the picture is déjà vu.
This boss has three catchphrases that he keeps talking every day, "It has nothing to do with me!", "You can never say no to me!", "You guys can't do anything, no matter how you do!" From this we can see that this boss not only likes to shirke responsibility, but also acts arbitrary and looks at people with his nostrils. It was so painful to be his subordinate at that time.
He also does things to me every day, picking on the bones in the eggs, and if he doesn't do it well, he will be caught and taken on the blame. At that time, I was looking for a job while working. During the months I was looking for a job, my hairline moved back anxiously every day.
After resigning, there was a dinner party and they went to the gossip with me. It turned out that my manager had cheated on me and wanted to help the mistress. Later, my wife got into the company, but the mistress turned out to be another colleague in our department. When I heard this, I felt my scalp exploded. I felt that there were ten thousand ants crawling on my hair. I was terrified to think about it carefully! At that time, my colleague and I were simply working best friends, having dinner, getting off work, shopping, watching movies, and having afternoon tea. Sometimes, in addition to saying some gossip, he will also complain about his boss. At that time, this colleague really felt that he was sharing the same hatred with me and calling that idiot. How could they know that they were in this relationship? It's really like it.
This incident made me understand that the office space is like a suspense drama that will not end. Ambiguity, interests, doubts, competition, speculation, frame-up, and watching... all kinds of strange factors are floating on this stage. If you are not an audience in the audience, you can never see the full picture of the stage and the entire plot. Anyone may be a transfer station for information. If you accidentally become the best friend who once ate the same bowl of rice, it turned out to be the mistress of the boss. If you ask you to take the blame, you won’t know how you die.
You are unkind and I am unrighteous
@Ms Miao, 28 years old, account manager of a public relations company
Before doing public relations, I worked as a secretary for 1 year. He is a secretary of the VP of the Public Relations Department in a foreign-funded company in a family-owned company. After being a secretary for this year, I firmly believe that I want to serve such a boss. There should be no boss that is difficult for me.
This is a 40-year-old woman. She should be considered a young man who is highly valued by the boss of the company and has become a VP.
can simply describe her as a "goblin". A cone-shaped face and a coquettish voice. When you are good to you, you can hold you to heaven and when you provoke her, you can put you on the ground. I'll describe it to you and you'll know.
She often goes to face-slimming injections, hyaluronic acid and the like. Every time she comes back from the injection, she will say, "Oh, do you think I'm beautiful?" I just finished playing recently, don't make me laugh~ The tone of that voice is no different from the vixen in Journey to the West, just like everyone below to bow to her and pay homage to the queen~
This is a good time. When it's bad, you're like a witch.
Once I got the pickup time at the airport and asked her to wait for half an hour at the airport. So she started scolding me in the elevator in the company's public place, with all kinds of rude words, probably like "You don't look in the mirror to see what you do." Blabla, cursing from the first floor of the elevator to the 20th floor of the elevator, regardless of the surrounding people. It is really accurate to say that it is a swearing to death. In fact, speaking of aura is really amazing. Did she cry when scolded? That's for sure. But I endured it.
What hit my bottom line was during the Chinese New Year last year. A person involved in a foreign affairs crisis was hospitalized. She actually asked me to go to the hospital for the night during the Chinese New Year and asked me to pay for medical expenses first. I immediately refused. Unexpectedly, she started to curse on the phone, like a hysterical crazy woman.I pressed the phone and turned off the phone throughout the Chinese New Year. As soon as I started working, I mentioned resigning. Unexpectedly, she even asked me to keep it and said, Xiao Zheng, you see, it’s hard to find people during the New Year. I know that I have a bad temper during the New Year. Can you wait until I find someone before leaving?
I felt dizzy at that time and my stomach was overwhelmed. Seeing her aggrieved face, I wanted to vomit. I refused. I used many years and sick leave, and I forgot the resignation period together, and stayed for a week before leaving. After
left, I did one thing. I wrote all her "evil deeds" to the president, the president of the Asia-Pacific region, and the boss of the global headquarters, and copied all the VPs.
in China in one breath.
This woman is not stupid, she is vicious. She let me know that if you don’t resist, she will only bully you more fiercely. If you repeatedly lower your bottom line and boundaries, she will be fearless. That's what I mean when I ride on you.
There are many things that a boss will teach us. Whether he is "good" or "bad". We have posted an article before. Have you found the "Negotiable" around you? It also mentioned that the reason why he has become your boss is that at least his height or pattern will be a little higher and larger than yours. This is very important. It will reach the top of the mountain and overlook all the mountains. So, if the former boss is at an age, his work experience (I use experience, not experience here, but experience, there is a difference. Experience is like age, and when you grow older, you may not have more experience. Different experiences represent different attempts and experiences. If you are lucky enough to have followed a boss who has experienced a lot, it is your luck), and you have a mature personality, or a successful boss in a relatively sense. This person's advice is still very useful.
And the same is true for those "bad" bosses. The places that make us suffer and feel uncomfortable are places that will make us grow.
Thanks to any boss who once took me to show off and take me to fly.
May life be well with you.
Source: LadyQuarter (ID: ladyquarter)
