In 2016, Alan, a young man from Shandong who worked as a flight attendant at Air China in Beijing, met Olga, a Ukrainian beauty studying in Beijing through the Internet. After in-depth communication and understanding, the two finally became lovers. In March 2018, Allen took Olga to obtain their cross-border marriage certificate at the Qingdao Civil Affairs Bureau of Shandong Province. In April 2022, Olga gave birth to a mixed-race son for Allen. It has been 4 years since they got married. Is their marriage still happy? The most famous character in this issue will take you into Allen's cross-border marriage.
Allen and Olga
990 , Alan was born in an intellectual family in Jimo District, Qingdao City, Shandong Province. Both parents were civil servants, and they responded to the call of that era and only raised the child Alan. As an only child, Allen was highly expected by his parents since childhood.
After going to school, Allen's academic performance was also good, but since he learned English, his grades have declined a little, especially in junior high school. His overall ranking is often not ideal due to the expansion of English scores.
Allen's family of three
In order to make their son's English scores meet, Alan's father personally checked his son's English homework and asked his son to speak English in front of him. During that time, the father supervised his son to learn English every day. Gradually, Allen's English scores caught up and developed the good habit of learning language. It also provided great help to his later life development.
In 2006, Allen was admitted to Jimo No. 1 Middle School with excellent results, which is a key high school in the district. Since high school, Allen has the ambition to get into a good university, but an accident has changed Allen's life trajectory.
One day in October 2006, Allen and his classmates were having physical education class together. In order to show that they were strong, a male classmate picked up Allen directly, but did not hold on to the ground, and threw Allen heavily. This caused Allen's waist to be injured.
In desperation, Allen had to take a break from school. In the next year, Allen was seeking medical treatment everywhere and cooperated with the treatment through traditional Chinese and Western medicine. This made Allen a little depressed, and those days were very dark for Allen.
In September 2007, Allen returned to school, but this time he could only go to the first year of high school again. This time when I returned to campus, Allen's ability to accept knowledge and learn had declined. He was a little unconscious about studying, and even fell in love early, and fell in love with a girl in his class.
When I reached my second year of high school, due to the bias in subjects and other reasons, Allen's overall grades were not ideal. In his own opinion, it was probably impossible for him to pass the cultural course to get into college. But if you can't go to college, what can you do when you go home?
Allen participated in the flight attendant training
In the second semester of the second year of high school, an art school in Qingdao came to Jimo No. 1 Middle School to recruit students, and the head of the admissions group promoted the students of Jimo No. 1 Middle School. Through this art school, Allen learned about flight attendant major . He found that the flight attendant major is good at finding employment and has high salary. Moreover, this major only requires students to have excellent English proficiency.
has learned so much, Allen feels that this university is simply tailored for himself. After discussing with his parents, he finally chose to take the path of artistic student.
In June 2010, Allen took the college entrance examination. Although the scores in the college entrance examination were average, they were enough to enter Civil Aviation University of China . Graduation means breaking up, and for Allen, he is going to Tianjin to go to college, and the girl is going to other places, so the two broke up.
Alan who went to college. First row right 1
After going to college, Alan also had a relationship. They were a professional. Love is sweet, but it cannot stop the graduation season.
When I was in my junior year, Allen went to Beijing and started an internship at Air China. His girlfriend went to Shanhang . The two broke up for a long time after a long time.
Allen started flying international flights since the internship and has been to many countries.
Allen after joining the work Right
As a Shandong native, before he was engaged in the service industry, Allen was carefree and a typical straight man.But when he met all kinds of people and encountered various difficulties, he quickly grew into a qualified flight attendant. So he also successfully passed the internship period and eventually became a formal employee of Air China.
After graduating from university, Allen and two friends spent more than 3,000 yuan to rent a house in Beijing, and officially started their life as a drifter in Beijing.
Eren in life likes fitness
In the fall of 2015, Allen met a Spanish girl studying abroad at Beijing Language and Culture University through a friend, and the two fell in love at first sight. Afterwards, Allen talked to a Spanish girl. The relationship was pure and the two had a great time. However, Allen is too busy with work and rarely has time to accompany each other. The two are far apart, and because of cultural differences, the relationship lasts for less than a year.
The days of a broken heart are not easy for Allen. When she is on vacation, Allen will be very lonely. He had to lie flat in the rental house, and he would also turn on his mobile phone and chat software, wanting to find some foreign friends and practice his speaking English. It would be even better if I could have a foreign girlfriend.
Beautiful and charming Olga
On September 2016, when Allen opened her social software, a photo attracted her attention. And this photo comes from today's heroine Olga.
Olga, born in June 1994 in the western Ukrainian city of Ternopol , and his parents divorced since childhood. My mother married in Italy after her second marriage. When she was a child, Olga almost grew up with her grandparents.
Olga
However, every year during the winter and summer vacations, Olga would go to Italy to find her mother. Her mother also took her to many places and wandered around so that Olga mastered many languages, including Italian , English, Ukrainian , Russian and Chinese.
In 2011, Olga was admitted to Kiev State Language University , majoring in English. After going to college, Olga studied very seriously, and her comprehensive scores have always been among the top in the class. When I was in my sophomore year, the professional organization asked students to take a second language. At this time, most students in the class took German , but Olga has not liked to follow the crowd since she was a child, so she wanted to be different.
At this moment, the professional teacher suggested that Olga challenge more difficult Chinese. In this way, Olga took Chinese elective.
Learning Chinese is not an easy thing. At the beginning, Olga was exhausted. From pinyin to Chinese characters, to idioms, ancient poems, and classical Chinese. In short, if you want to learn Chinese well, it is definitely not possible to stay in Ukraine.
So Olga won the opportunity to study abroad in the school, and finally she came to China in August 2015.
Beijing
When Olga came to Beijing for the first time, he felt that Beijing was a modern metropolis, and it also did not lack the sense of historical heaviness. In short, she liked it very much.
After arriving in China, Olga entered a homestay family, where she was responsible for tutoring the children of the homestay family. This host family needs to support her in the fees required to study abroad. The university where Olga studied is Beijing United University . There are a large number of international students here. Olga majored in Chinese, and many of her classmates are Korean and Thai. It is also very difficult to find a Chinese classmate.
So in order to learn Chinese well and find Chinese friends, Olga chose to make friends online. She registered an account on the social software, introduced herself on the homepage, and attached a photo of herself, which happened to be seen by Allen.
Olga and her mother
When Allen first saw the photo of Olga, he found that the girl in the photo was very beautiful. Through the information introduction, Allen learned that this Olga was from Ukraine and happened to be studying in Beijing. Not only that, Olga also left a WeChat account. In this way, Allen added Olga's WeChat account.
waited for less than 10 minutes, and Olga passed Allen's friend request. In this way, the two started to communicate in English. Because Allen is busy with work, Olga has to attend classes.The two of them did not chat frequently, they would just exchange a few greetings occasionally, and the topics they talked about were not in-depth.
Allen and Olga date
Half a month later, Allen met the weekend and she made Olga appointment via WeChat. The two went to a tea restaurant together and met Olga offline for the first time. Allen felt that the other party was very beautiful and had a good figure. He was the image of a Ukrainian beauty in his impression.
While having dinner, the two began to communicate, but what made Olga speechless was that Allen’s problems were very strange. I don’t know if they were misled by domestic self-media or what happened. Allen always asks Olga: Are there many Ukrainian beauties? Do Ukrainian women all like China? Do Ukrainian women all want to marry Chinese men?
It is obvious that these questions made Olga feel very awkward. She explained it to Allen, but it also made her have a bad impression of Allen.
After they were separated quickly, the two never met again, and Allen thought there would be no chance like this. After that, he did not chat with Olga too much, but would only say hello occasionally.
On the evening of December 31, 2016, it was New Year's Eve, and Allen was on holiday. He found that all his colleagues were going out to celebrate the New Year with his girlfriend, and she was the only one. Boring things, Allen thought of Olga. He mustered up the courage to send a WeChat message to Olga: Are you busy? Should I come out to celebrate the New Year together?
In fact, before sending the message, Allen had no hope, after all, he hadn't seen him for more than three months. But who knew that Olga actually replied in seconds: Yes!
Just like that, Allen drove to Olga, and the two went to the cinema together to watch an action movie. In fact, Allen wanted to watch a romance movie, but unfortunately there was no screening that day. After watching the
movie, Allen couldn't bear to part, so he planned to continue to have an appointment with Olga the next day. Olga told him: "I have to do my homework on New Year's Day, but I don't want to stay in the host family."
Allen then said, "Then come to my house to do your homework, I can also help you correct your homework."
Olga agreed.
Early the next morning, Allen took Olga to his home, and Orgas finished his homework. In the afternoon, she started a heart-to-heart talk with Allen. The two of them talked a lot, shared their own life experiences, and talked about their own future ideals.
In Allen's opinion, Olga is very real and his views are very consistent with himself. As he chatted, he became moved, so he couldn't wait to say to Olga, "How about you be my girlfriend."
Olga said cautiously: "I'll think about it for a while."
When it was over 6 pm, Allen suggested taking Olga to the gym because there were many of his friends there. He wanted to introduce his friends to Olga. He heard that he could meet more Chinese friends, and Olga agreed happily.
Allen drove Olga with
That's it, Allen drove Olga with olga. On the way, Allen asked Olga, "What should I say if my friend asked me to introduce you?"
Olga said directly, "Then just say I am your girlfriend."
Just like that, two young people from foreign countries were officially together.
In March 2017, Olga's study abroad ended, and she and Allen rented a two-bedroom and one-living house again. She found a job online herself, mainly teaching some Ukrainian children to learn Chinese. Allen continues to work on Air China and always flies around the world.
After falling in love, Allen was very romantic and caring. He would bring gifts to Olga whenever he went to a country. He bought Olga's cosmetics and some clothes.
Allen and Olga's stepparents
April 2017. Olga's mother and stepfather came to China for a trip. Alan drove the car and took their family around, visited the Forbidden City and climbed the Great Wall. Olga's parents also successfully inspected this Chinese son-in-law while having fun. They felt that Allen treated Olga very well and was a person worthy of entrusting, so they tacitly agreed to their daughter's relationship with Allen.
In September 2017, Allen took Olga back to Qingdao, Shandong.The foreign daughter-in-law met her parents-in-law for the first time. Olga was nervous, but Allen's parents were very kind and they welcomed Olga friendly. Allen's mother also made a large table of seafood. During the conversation, Allen's parents found that Olga was very well-educated and gentle, and they looked very good at tutoring. In addition, Olga's Chinese has made great progress and can communicate with his parents-in-law in Chinese without barriers.
Allen and Olga’s wedding photos
In March 2018, Allen took Olga to Qingdao Civil Affairs Bureau to get their cross-border marriage certificate. From this moment on, Olga officially married Allen and left his life in China.
At the end of August 2018, Allen and Olga held a traditional Chinese wedding in a hotel in Qingdao . Olga's parents also came from Italy. In addition, some foreign friends also rushed to the wedding scene from Beijing. More than a dozen foreigners attended the wedding that day, and the scene was very grand.
Olga wore a bridal dress
while Olga appeared at the wedding in a red dress. According to the traditional Chinese wedding procedures, Olga persisted step by step.
After getting married, Allen has been thinking about the future of the two. He has been working hard in Beijing for many years, but he doesn't have a household registration in Beijing, let alone buy a house. In addition, his parents are getting older and he is an only child, so he will be back to his parents sooner or later, so Allen feels that it is meaningless to waste it in Beijing.
Alan on the plane
In October 2019, Allen finally decided to return to Qingdao. He quit his job at Air China, joined an airline in Qingdao, and started a new life. At the beginning, the couple rented a house in the city, and Allen started working again, earning tens of thousands of yuan a month. Olga was still working before, and both of them had a good income, so they wanted to save some money and buy a house.
After the outbreak of the epidemic, Allen's aviation industry suffered a huge impact, which caused Allen's income to be cut in half, and he and his wife had to tighten their belts to live.
In 2021, with the help of his parents, Allen and Olga bought a house in the downtown of Qingdao. After the two moved to their new home, they also started preparing for pregnancy. Because Allen's parents had long wanted to hold their grandson, for the couple, they were actually looking forward to the arrival of the mixed-race baby.
At the end of February 2022, the Russian-Ukrainian conflict broke out. Olga, who was already in the late stage of pregnancy, was very worried. She was watching the news every day and contacted her family, fearing that her family would become refugees and accidents would occur. Sometimes, Allen would find that Olga was crying secretly, but seeing his wife like this, he seemed to be unable to help, and could only pray for world peace silently.
Olga and her child
In April 2022, Olga gave birth to a mixed-race son in a hospital in Qingdao. That day, Allen took leave to accompany his wife to give birth. When he heard that the mother and son were safe, Allen also shed tears excitedly. Alan, who is already 32 years old, finally became a father, and for him, this is a new beginning in his life.
Nowadays, Allen is still working on an airline. Due to the epidemic, Allen mainly flies some domestic routes, and the workload is not large. Although he earned less, he had more time to spend with Olga and his children. Olga has been in China for 7 years. She has long been used to life in China and has mastered Chinese. Because he has to take care of his children, Olga now has no job and is a full-time mother.
However, due to the epidemic and the conflict between Russia and Ukraine, Olga has not seen his relatives in nearly three years. Sometimes she is emotionally unstable, which is what Allen is most worried about.
