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01 2 experiences "awakened" by Uranus
Accident & shock: After 20 years of marriage, showdown extramarital affairs
38's marriage life made Shirley convinced that she knew this relationship well.
However, one day, her husband returned home and told her that for the past 20 years, he had had an extramarital affair with another woman and even had a 15-year-old son. The reason I told Shirley was because it was difficult for him to secretly fulfill his financial obligations to his son, so six months later, Shirley divorced.
Uranus is like a bolt of lightning, which can break a relationship without warning . Even those who take the initiative to break up will be surprised by the speed of the incident. It is very likely that everything will be the same today, but tomorrow they have parted ways. Like Shirley, they didn't know what would happen.
Many relationships end in surprise and shock. We often rely on the sense of stability brought by relationships, so even if the situation has deteriorated, everyone will still feel a little uncomfortable when it comes to the end.
And Uranus is such a planet that can make one or both parties in the relationship suddenly make up their minds and act decisively.
is like a thunderstorm - a weather with a lot of Uranus - you will find that the initial sparse lightning and thunder are always accompanied by a series of thunder roars. During the Uranus transit , it is almost impossible to return to a normal and stable state.
In that year, you will face a changing situation, and the best way to deal with it is to maintain a flexible attitude . The signal Uranus wants to release is not just to tell people that there are better choices, it is more to hope that people can make changes, constantly try, and be flexible.
If there are many fixed zodiac elements in the horoscope, people may want to stabilize as soon as possible; while people with more basic zodiac elements are more able to adapt to this state of continuous transformation and facing new things or new relationships.
When you are in the Uranus-like changes, can only grow by learning to accept the unknown. This experience is priceless.
Quickly divestiture: Decisive divorce, say goodbye to past life
Alison is a mother of two children, living a comfortable suburban life on Long Island. Her husband has a good job in the city, and the children also attend junior and high schools respectively. This leaves Alison with plenty of time to shop, have dinner with friends or participate in community work. More than 0 years later, she recalled that critical day: "I was watching the New York Times business edition, and then I suddenly felt that this was what I should really do, so I let go and left."
A year later, Alison has gone to another state to study. Not only did she divorce her husband, but her relationship with her children has also become increasingly tense in those years. At that time, Uranus was in the middle of her chart. Combined with the energy of the ninth and tenth houses, it echoed the decisions made by Alison.
is almost the same moment, and Uranus triggered her ascendant point, which helped to make changes in her life.
In fact, the relationship in the seventh house was also affected, but Alison did not realize this at that time. Even when he recalled it later, Alison did not express any regrets about the end of the relationship.
Alison's story is quite dramatic and cannot be regarded as a typical Uranus-style breakup. In Alison's case, she pays more attention to self-needing (first house), career (twent house) and education (ninth house) , and emotional relationships are not that important.
Under the influence of Uranus, the "self" often occupies the first place, and coupled with the determination to truly change, everything happens very quickly. Staying away from an unsatisfactory relationship is likely to be the main purpose of many people, but people still hope to take this to embark on a self-realization path in life.
. From the perspective of priority, relationships are often placed in a secondary position . Breakups are not the core for people who are experiencing Uranus’ transit, but just a side effect of their changes .
Emotionally, Uranus-style breakup may be more indifferent. Just like in Alison's case, she didn't spend much time on sentimentality, and even her mother's nature could be left behind. They separated so quickly that neither side had much time to experience and taste the pain of loss.
If the party who broke up is also someone affected by Uranus, the situation will be even more exaggerated. If your client is experiencing the Neptune fortune in the water sign, and her other half is influenced by Uranus, then she is likely to be confused by the other party's sudden indifference and change.
Uranus's indifference also has its positive side, which can help people put plans into practice . Sometimes people realize it’s time to end a relationship, but they still consider their partner’s feelings, their impact on family and friends, etc., and eventually even give up the decision to leave.
Uranus will not give people the opportunity to hesitate. Although it is difficult to make up your mind and others may be hurt by it, this is a necessary process to move forward.
02
Uranus's trap:
Is fresh the good?
When people's hearts are filled with the idea of changing themselves, pursuing personality and independence, emotional relationships can easily become limiting factors. Getting away from old relationships may bring positive effects to us, but if starts a completely new relationship during the Uranus cycle, it is more likely to fall into the hidden trap .
Uranus can highlight the value of differences. Many people attach great importance to the stability of their relationships because they try to rebuild the sense of security they have or have not had during their growth.
Under the influence of Uranus' transit, people will be willing to try to deal with different types of people, or try new relationship mode . In itself, it was definitely a positive experience.The problem is that Uranus will cause people to break up impulsively and invest in a new relationship too quickly without reflection.
Janet and Kelly are a couple who have been dating for 5 years and lived together for 4 years. Recently, because Kelly's Uranus and Venus are in conflict, she suddenly decided to be with others. Unlike hardworking and serious Janet, Kelly's new partner is a tough and material businesswoman.
Janet was very injured because of this sudden breakup, and was also surprised by Kelly's choice. Because of the influence of Uranus' transit, Kelly's new partner is actually not suitable for her. Kelly also briefly considered reuniting with Janet, but eventually gave up.
After Uranus passed, Kelly changed her partner, but this time she was more or less independent.
Actually the problem is not who proposed the breakup, but the relationship itself has come to an end. Kelly is ready to start a new relationship. She doesn't think she's found true love this time, but she believes that she has indeed obtained a better and more satisfying relationship.
Uranus makes people feel cold . When Kelly left Janet, she had no regrets or thought about Janet's feelings; and when she found that her new relationship was not satisfactory, she simply chose to break up. What disturbed Janet was that Kelly was thinking about their reunion as if she was trading.
In this example, my client is not the Kelly who has experienced Uranus’ transit, but Janet. She accepted Uranus' energy more than released it, so that she had to face the sudden indifference of her lover who had been with her for 5 years.
It may be difficult to explain to Janet what Kelly is experiencing, after all, Kelly's indifference is entirely caused by Uranus' transit.
If you meet customers who are who are experiencing Uranus transit, they can be encouraged to think more about others' feelings about before making changes.
Don’t try to stop them or slow them down, but remind them to reflect on themselves in time and tell them the truth that “all things are left with a thread”. After all, they may regret the overly intense way of ending in the future.
If your client, like Janet, is the party affected by Uranus' transit, then he may be puzzled: why his partner suddenly becomes another reckless and indifferent person .
03 Free or Destruction: Challenge every 21 years
Uranus' orbital period is about 84 years, so will have a penalty for the natal chart every 21 years (the error is 1 year). This has been a very long time for the duration of a relationship.
So in most cases we will focus on other time nodes (but 21 years is exactly three quarters of the Saturn cycle, and then we will have to face double pressure from these two planets).
More likely situation is that when a person is 21, 42 or 63 years old, Uranus and natal Uranus form a difficult aspect, and causes partner relationship problems .
At the aforementioned age stage, people's desire for freedom and independence is magnified by , and instead regards emotional relationships - even if the relationship is harmonious - as a burden, and people will be eager to move forward and try something different.
42-year-old Uranus and his natal Uranus will force people to face the midlife crisis. Other planetary movements with the same weight include Neptune's opposition, Saturn's opposition and Pluto's opposition in recent years.
Several types of planetary movements mentioned above are famous for their destructive power that disrupts the status quo. Among them, Uranus opposition has the most profound impact on . If Uranus is in the relationship house, or is in phase with the main star of the relationship house (whether it is the natal chart or the fortune chart), then the possibility of a breakdown of the relationship is extremely high.
04 What should I do when Uranus impacts the partnership?
However, even if there is no direct connection with the seventh house, affected by the Uranus cycle, people will be forced to leave their comfort zones in various areas of life, including partnerships.
Uranus-like relationship breaks down The most obvious manifestation in the transit market is the difficult aspect between Uranus and Venus, and Uranus appears directly in the seventh house. The difficult phase between
and the seventh house main star may also have the same effect, but it does not necessarily bring about the same degree of pressure. In fact, this indicates that the other party expects a change in the relationship. Similarly, the difficult aspect between Uranus and the sun and the moon will also make people want to change, which indirectly affects their relationship.
If Uranus happens to be in the rising sign, it will naturally hedge against the relationship house, causing shock in the relationship. Unlike Uranus that appears directly in the seventh house, people's relationships will not break quickly, but they will plant the seeds of change.
According to different tolerances, it takes about one year for Uranus to pass through . During this period, it will bring people three accurate impacts on . Unlike the other three exoplanets, any impact of Uranus implies the possibility of triggering changes.
reversal may also occur. For example, people choose to separate during the first impact, but they will start to consider reconciliation in the subsequent impact (or choose to give up another relationship).
Because Uranus' planetary energy is unstable, predictions often fail to achieve the best results. What's more, we need to encourage customers who are experiencing planetary movements to face changes and not be afraid of decisions.
The point is that when faces Uranus’ transit (or partner-to-transit), people need to open their arms to everything possible. The less they know, the less they prepare, the better .
When any planet in the chart forms a harmonious phase (such as the trine and the sextile phase), it usually means a peaceful breakup or a calm end.
If travel is Uranus, it means that one or both parties in the relationship are ready to try a brand new experience . Neither side will resist the separation, and will even take the opportunity to turn this into a period of testing before the complete separation. The only problem is that everyone may hesitate about the actual breakup.
Generally speaking, the harmonious phase of Uranus in is also the most obvious among all exoplanets. This is not only because the transit in a harmonious phase will be relatively stable, but also because there will be more temperatures that are not available in other phases. In any case, harmonious or difficult phases cannot change the fact that Uranus is relatively cold.
This can not only promote the development of the situation, but also create opportunities for regret afterwards. However, the regret here is not regretting being separated, but more about regret not saying goodbye to a relationship without a sense of ritual.
05 How to face the "awakening" of Uranus?
Accept a new experience while staying aware of
Uranus may knock us down heavily, but we can also take advantage of the opportunity to fly again. Although Uranus-like separation is unpleasant, it also gives us the opportunity to change and revive .
Although most people desire the stability of their relationship, Uranus-like separation will also allow them to see another possibility of emotional relationships. In fact, the greatest gift Uranus gives us is to learn to change perspectives and adjust positions in the realm of relationships.
The key is to constantly try and experience new things . From being used to living a single life to having a love relationship with someone who is completely different from you. The courage to try is the key to making good use of Uranus' energy, but we must first understand what we should try.
The attempts encouraged by Uranus firstly, requires people to have the ability to completely accept a new experience from the conscious and emotional level . At the same time, in order to observe and evaluate, people also need to maintain a relatively independent consciousness during the attempt.
You should know that not all attempts can achieve results that meet expectations. At some point, appropriate adjustments, variables may be required, or even choices to give up. It is difficult to maintain a detached attitude when you are immersed in your passion for someone or something, but you must do this if you want to make the most of Uranus’ power.
Generally speaking, people who broke up with Uranus's transit have long changed their expectations for relationship patterns , and they are sure that the new pattern will be better and more satisfying.
It is almost certain that they are deeply attracted by the freshness brought by changes: women who have only come into contact with serious partners will fall in love with bad boys on a bike, good men at home suddenly start to stay at night, and women who always think they need a stable relationship can also turn to love without a future.
However, such an experience—while looks great and exciting —is often a compensation for past emotional patterns by , not necessarily the true correct pattern of . What we need to understand is that there are many different relationship models in the world, and we don’t need to set limits for ourselves, we can choose from it at will.
Maintain a flexible attitude towards experience
I have a customer with a strong water sign element, which is particularly influenced by Pisces. It can be predicted that she is very sensitive, compassionate, and often feels a little emotional when it comes to life.
She experienced Uranus opposition at the age of 42, and fell in love with a man with Uranus traits (Sun Aquarius, and almost all the planets in the horoscope are in the air sign). His free and easy lifestyle is nothing short of an exciting fresh air for my clients.
This is actually an example of a complementary relationship, but the relationship pattern of also implies many problems . After all, this relationship is established under the influence of exoplanets.
This man would leave home for several days without informing him in advance. He runs several successful companies, but they are all long-distance business and are not very concerned (his success can be said to be not very troublesome).
As the relationship develops and the influence of Uranus fades, my client begins to feel dissatisfied with his indifference and evading commitments, and she is very aware that the relationship will not have expected results in the long run.
However, she also learned a valuable lesson because of this. Although she is more accustomed to the way of getting along with water and earth signs, this experience also made her realize that she can relax her choices and try and experience completely different feelings of heart movement.
Uranus teaches us not to be too obsessed with the most preferred items, but to try appropriately in the field of relationships. It’s like you don’t have to focus on just one TV channel, and occasionally you can change the channels and discover new programs.
It should be clear that after the first attempt brings great excitement, what we may leave us with nothing disappointment (or eternal happiness), or it may make us feel hurt in the initial stage.
However, compared to the correct method found in one step, adapting to the logic of Uranus is more in line with Uranus' logic.
06 You can do these 5 things
Uranus-style breakup is often so fast that there is no time for us to react, which also brings many challenges. Fortunately, our brains operate as quickly as possible, allowing us to deal with various sudden possibilities. Here are a few things that customers can recommend to do:
1. Review your own feelings . Uranus' transit may not be accompanied by emotions, but it will definitely increase the speed of thinking. When you cannot experience it intuitively, you can first imagine how your behavior will bring you and others, which can effectively help you pay attention to emotions that are easily overlooked.
2. Keep a try-through mentality . You need to realize that change does not mean eternity, and the idea that you think is great today may not be suitable for tomorrow. You must let some of yourself move forward, rationally and objectively evaluate the progress of things, think about whether the plan is effective, and constantly explore new possibilities.
3. Count from 1 to 10. Actions are needed during Uranus’ transit, and staying still is not a good response strategy. But Uranus' power may make us impulsive, so it would be better to leave some time to think calmly between planning and action.
4. Do something else to divert attention .Uranus-style breakups are as hard to defeat as other types of breakups, but the advantage is that they can push us forward. There is no need to immerse yourself in the emotions of regret - do something that has nothing to do with your feelings.
Spend time alone, partying with friends or trying to start a new, moderately-scale project at work. This is not to ignore or suppress your emotions, it is just to give you a temporary break from the stress brought by Uranus.
5. Pay attention to things that have not changed . During Uranus' transit, many things changed, but some of them remained the same. Maybe you broke up, but your work is stable, your family life is as usual, and your friends and family are also by your side as usual.
You have to try to find the unchanging island in the changing ocean and avoid the edge when things become too tense.
