Author丨Aunt Jiang
This is the 464th night when Jiang hangs you
The girl in junior high school should have enjoyed good education and wanton youth.
But Xiao Meng, who is only 16 years old, has encountered the darkness that life should not have experienced.
On May 24, with the baby crying, Yunnan girl Xiaomeng gave birth to a child in her dormitory.
The child's father is actually Xiaomeng's father, Cai, who is a man with a human face and beast heart, sexually assaulting Xiaomeng three times, causing a tragedy.
If the dormitory manager had not heard the baby crying, perhaps this ugly sin would have been buried.
Usually, several children in the village would take Cai’s van to school. They are all from the same village. Everyone knows each other well, and no one expected that Cai would commit such a crime.
Xiaomeng is no exception. Xiaomeng respects the "Uncle Cai" in her eyes.
Until July 2021, Xiaomeng was on the 6th level at that time.
As usual, Xiaomeng took Cai's van. On the way, other children got off, but only Xiaomeng was left by Cai on the grounds of "sending another trip".
She was sexually assaulted by Cai.
Xiao Meng was frightened, and with Cai's fierce threat, she dared not mention it to anyone.
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, and Cai, therefore, became more unscrupulous and committed three sexual assaults against Xiaomeng.
It was not until the birth of the child that Xiao Meng revealed the truth under the questioning. The police compared the DNA identification results and interrupted Cai's crime.
Looking back at the entire incident, there are a few details that are even more incredible.
16-year-old girl is pregnant. As the school teacher she comes into contact with every day, she doesn’t know at all?
Can’t parents see the changes in the face of girls?
Why did Cai do such a crazy behavior towards a minor girl?
Aunt Jiang wants to say a few words to this.
First of all, Zhaotong, Yunnan, where the girl is located, is a relatively underdeveloped place.
The girl's family is in a difficult situation. Her parents do farm work every day. Under the pressure of livelihood, she obviously cares for her daughter. Not to mention the popularity of sex education .
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Secondly, when Xiaomeng told the truth about being sexually assaulted, her subsequent experience may be more thought-provoking and reflective.
Xiaomeng's cousin said that because of Xiaomeng's incident, their family was controversial in the local area.
Cai, who infringed on Xiaomeng, was not spit on the contrary. Xiaomeng's family was criticized and scolded by local villagers, and even spoke so fiercely that it was a shame for raising a daughter like Xiaomeng.
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At present, Xiaomeng's cousin said that he was considering changing Xiaomeng's name and surname, and that the family would live in a place where no one knew him.
is so heartbroken.
Perhaps it is the surrounding misunderstanding and the theory of guilt that Xiao Meng dared not tell the truth after being infringed on her.
In this regard, " China Women's Daily " commented:
16-year-old junior high school girl gave birth at school. It was not the victim's fault, but the perpetrator's crime.
Looking forward to the police and the school working together with their families, they will spare no effort to protect their children more thoroughly and meticulously.
further compiles a safety net for rural girls living in schools, so that those who are waiting for opportunities can take advantage of the opportunity and keep children away from danger to the greatest extent.
is far more than Xiaomeng, because of the "victim theory of guilt" and the "slut humiliation theory", many victims can only choose to remain silent and blame themselves after being sexually assaulted.
Some time ago, the well-known public welfare person Lei and environmental protection public welfare person Feng shocked the society on suspicion of sexual assault.
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Because of a girl's brave report, victims have been constantly jumping out to speak out.
These victims also include well-known writers and artists.
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Even women with certain social status still have concerns, let alone ordinary victims who are nameless and have no rights.
Some people say, why don’t you resist after being violated?
Someone said, why don’t you infringe on others and choose you? You're not so decent?
It is these stigmatizing women that make the victims collectively silent.
These spectators tend to regard the actor itself as the cause of his behavior, and ignore the possible impact of external factors.
There is also a heartbreaking scene in the recent popular drama " Hunting Crime Picture Book ":
The girl Liu Xiaoye was violated by three people after a party. Afterwards, the girl suffered severe psychological trauma and became autistic and self-resentful.
Actor Dan Jianci The policeman played by this sentence:
In fact, many girls will rinse their bodies crazily after experiencing this kind of thing, wanting to wash away traces on their bodies.
But in fact, what he left on you is not shame, but handcuffs.
Taiwan female writer Lin Yihan , was once seduced by a tutor for a long time.
More than ten years later, she tried hard to forget and start a new life, but the nightmare of childhood has always become an indelible psychological shadow that she dreamed of midnight.
In the book " Fang Siqi's First Love Paradise ", she could only rationalize the behavior of sexual assault by herself and convince herself with love.
However, as she grew up, she could no longer deceive herself and could only choose to end her life at the age of 26.
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Pain. Wandering. helpless.
The victims have experienced too much.
Please remember that those who do wrong things will always be the perpetrator, not the victim.
Don’t doubt yourself, and don’t give up on yourself in order to be sexually assaulted.
Every child should bathe in the sun and enjoy the air, freedom and happiness.
together.
