Zhang Ailing said that meeting the right person at the right time is fate; meeting the wrong person at the right time is unfortunate; meeting the right person at the wrong time is helpless...
Emotional matters have never been done whatever we want. When it wants to happen, it often catches you off guard and is even very different from what you set.
It is a wonderful thing to fall in love with someone. But not everything can be fulfilled.
There are always some feelings. When you are already deeply trapped, you realize that it is too difficult for two people to be together, and the price they may have to pay is not something that each other can bear.
Even if your relationship has crossed the line, if you don’t have the chance to be together, no matter how heartache, the best solution is to do this. Just leave and have a good time.
Xiao Li's marriage came from blind dates, but she was not happy after marriage. The life she wanted was not like this.
Marriage is just because both parties have become older young people. The two families are generally equal, and they really can't find any special conflicts.
So with the joint support of relatives, we completed the major life events of getting married and having children. But Xiao Li's heart is always empty. Her husband is honest and has no interest, which is too different from the lover she wants.
In the first half of the year, a new colleague was transferred to the unit. He was humorous, had high emotional intelligence, and could take care of everyone's emotions. Because she often works together, Xiao Li's heart is in trouble.
The family of colleagues is still in another place and the transfer is not done well. As a result, the two of them slowly sparked.
Xiao Li thought about divorce, but she couldn't give up her child. After all, the child is still young, and her husband has nothing wrong. My colleague had no plans to divorce, and as the family members were about to come, he proposed to sever the relationship with Xiao Li.
However, Xiao Li refused. She thought she had given too much affection to the other party. She knew that it might not be realistic to stay with the other party for life, but she wanted to keep such a relationship.
Unexpectedly, her colleague blocked her. When she met her at the unit, she bypassed her far away and even transferred her to a department that had nothing to do with her.
Xiao Li couldn't figure it out. She felt that she had regressed so much, but the other party ignored her true feelings and eventually did a foolish thing. The relationship between the two was well known.
In the end, the unit could not stay there, so she applied to transfer to another office. Although her husband forgave her betrayal, she found that her days would never go back to the past.
Because of this, Xiao Li's mentality collapsed and suffered from severe depression .
Although there is no right or wrong in the relationship, Xiao Li's approach is not worthy of sympathy.
Originally, her life might have been dull, but at least she could still move on with peace. But she made a fatal mistake in marriage and found that the problem between husband and wife was not actively trying to solve it, but negative confrontation.
There was a distracted marriage, but if she knew that the cliff would stop, it might be another rebirth, but she chose the most extreme way to deal with it.
All these misfortunes were caused by her. You must know that feelings that do not belong to her can't be kept, and they will even ruin everything about her.
Not everyone can be lucky enough to meet the most suitable person. Life may not be able to go well, but the decision of life is ultimately in your own hands. Life is not easy, so don’t be unable to live with yourself.
Zhang Li and her boyfriend lived together for 3 years, but in the end they did not achieve their goals.
In fact, this is a very normal thing in love, but Zhang Li can't overcome this threshold and is immersed in the pain of breaking up love for a long time.
Later she chose the decisive way, and she said that the other party would always remember that she had lost to her. But she didn't know that after only half a year after she left, her ex-boyfriend married another person.
Writer Wu Danru said that what should be yours is yours, it is not yours, and it is useless to keep it.
There are regrets everywhere in life. The person you fall in love may not love you; the person you have loved for a long time has abandoned you; you have given all your youth for the other party, but he married someone else...
However, we cannot punish ourselves with these mistakes and ruin our lives.
You should know that the beautiful scenery in this world is not one place, and it is not only one person who will love you.
Writer Sanmao said that promises are originally a struggle between men and women. Sometimes everyone is happy, but in most cases, both sides suffer losses.
There are many people in this world who are destined to be without separation, and not everyone can meet the right person at the right time.
And we must learn to accept reality and face all this bravely. You should know that it is this constant setbacks and pain that allows us to grow up little by little and make us invincible.
Love is always a small part of life, it cannot replace all of us.
Both of them are in love and have a happy ending. Although everyone yearns for it, when they can't get it, you must know how to let go, learn to let go, take a long-term vision, and become bigger.
Only in this way can you truly have happiness.
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