In addition to receiving the education of Empress Xuan, the heroine Shao Shang in "The Legend of Stars" has another person who has influenced her a lot, that is, her third uncle, Sang Shunhua.

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Bai Luomei said that in this bizarre world, no one can live a smooth life. But I always believe that those who have experienced the mist and rain of Pinghu, the mountains and rivers of time, will be more vivid and cleaner.

The third uncle is the woman who lives vividly and cleanly.

In this drama, whether it is Shao Shang, her mother, or even Yue Fei, there are many times when life is unscrupulous, and there are times when passive choices and acceptances, but only the third uncle always takes the initiative of fate in his own hands.

can prevent the four words "destiny" from appearing in your life dictionary, which is also a kind of ability.

uncle did not appear much, but it could leave a stunning impression. Her name is Sang Shunhua, and she is the daughter of the Lord of Bailu Mountain.

There is an academy in Bailu Mountain. In the play, it is a place where scholars all over the world learn. Yuan Shanjian, a talented man in the capital, is a student of Bailu Mountain Academy. Lou Yao also studied here. The second uncle of Shaoshang was not good at his legs and feet, so he had to study here. The owner of Bailu Mountain is equivalent to the current president of the university.

She had a engagement since she was a child. Her boyfriend was Huangfu Yi, a student of her father and Yuan Shanjian's teacher. It can be seen that this marriage was made because of the reason.

However, Huangfu Yi didn't think so. She was first-class in appearance and talent, but her fiancée was mediocre. This is a very important signal, which shows that when he was studying in academy, he was indifferent to his fiancée.

For people in love, you can guess eight or nine points if you love one expression or one look or not. Sang Shunhua could understand Huangfu Yi's knot, but he did not explain it.

Because she knows that men have the naughty nature of men, as long as Huangfu Yi doesn't say it, it's not a problem.

For Sang Shunhua, before these days had begun to pass, he first gave her a bizarre and let her experience all the disasters.

Huangfu Yi's family was destroyed by the previous dynasty Emperor Li. He wanted to avoid disaster and go away from home. He left for seven years. Seven years are enough to change many people and things, not to mention that it was a few years of war and dispute.

Sang Shunhua has not changed. Her clan members asked her to break the engagement. She sticks to the engagement and stands out to take care of Huangfu Yi's family. Not only that, he also has to endure the difficulties caused by Huangfu Yi's mother.

Do she feel wronged? In her eyes, perhaps this is not grievance or unfairness, it is her own choice. Because she could choose to break off the engagement, but she didn't, she chose to wait for Huangfu Yi to return.

After becoming the third uncle, she never mentioned the hardships and efforts of the past seven years, but her husband stood up for her.

Respect your choices and be responsible for your choices, so you won’t feel so much grievance and entanglement.

years later, the world is peaceful, and Huangfu Yi also made a return date agreement, and he would celebrate his birthday and get married to his teacher, Sang Shunhua's father. Everyone thinks that Sang Shunhua has not paid in vain for the past seven years.

But, as Shao Shang said, did Sang Shunhua wait for Huangfu Yi for seven years just to move him and let him get married? No, in Sang Shunhua's opinion, she and Huangfu Yi were engaged. When he was in trouble, she wanted to fight side by side with him. She did all the words "family" between husband and wife.

However, my father's birthday party was held as scheduled, but Sang Shunhua's wedding was not held because Huangfu Yi did not arrive as scheduled.

Sang Shunhua waited for a day and a night. She must have thought about a lot of things during this day and a night. The most important thing is that she thought clearly what kind of future she wants.

So, when Huangfu Yi returned and wanted to explain everything to her, she was no longer willing to listen. It can also be said that there is no need to listen. Sang Shunhua must have known the reason why he returned as promised.

What Huangfu Yi couldn't understand is that Sang Shunhua could wait for him for seven years, so why can't he wait for the last few days when he was late?He thought about this matter for many years but couldn't figure it out until Ling Buyi told it out for Sang Shunhua. The reason for being late is also very simple. For Huangfu Yi, it was an accident that his savior's daughter had to stay and take care of him, which delayed his wedding date. This was a dilemma, and he chose to repay his kindness.

Huangfu Yi's choice seems to be full of human feelings, but in fact it is cold and selfish.

He believed that Sang Shunhua was too confined to the form and could not understand Sang Shunhua's choice, but in fact he kidnapped Sang Shunhua with morality.

Fate is to tease Sang Shunhua, but Sang Shunhua was not at his mercy and she jumped out. First, he refused Huangfu Yi's explanation, then broke up with the engagement, and then found a suitable person to get married.

A series of operations made Huangfu Yi not only unable to understand it, but also caught him off guard, and he lost a good story of marriage. Perhaps at the beginning, Huangfu Yi just couldn't figure out why Sang Shunhua didn't listen to his explanation, but later he became obsessed with Sang Shunhua's decisive break-up.

After listening to Ling Buyi's analysis and Yuan Shanjian's persuasion, he regretted it even more. If he had made a decision earlier, he would have a happy future with Sang Shunhua.

However, Yuan Shanjian's words made him even more heart-wrenching. Sang Shunhua's current life is happier than being with Huangfu Yi. This is true of

. Sang Shunhua thought of one thing clearly that day and night, that is, this orphan was an accident created by himself, and Huangfu Yi chose to stay and take care of .

once thought that no matter what, you should be explained clearly in person, and you must get a sentence from the other party to see clearly. But later I found out that this is not the case. Many things do not need to be said, just look at the actions and the results are enough.

even if Huangfu Yi cried and told her about the orphan's accident in front of her, he had no choice but to do it. Even if Huangfu Yi repeatedly stated that he was going to marry Sang Shunhua, he would not care about her appearance from now on.

As for Sang Shunhua, should he believe it or not? I believe that it is understandable that Huangfu Yi’s failure to make a promise is understandable. If I don’t believe it, what’s the use of listening to these explanations?

So Sang Shunhua chose not to listen, she only looked at the results, and the result was that Huangfu Yi chose to postpone the return of the orphan, and the orphan's accident was caused by herself.

Sang Shunhua's choice to break off the engagement was not the result of emotional manipulation. If she was angry with Huangfu Yi, she could choose to listen to the explanation and express her grievances; it was not for any reason. If she wanted to save face, she could let Huangfu Yi give him enough face when he came to the door again. What is that for?

is to stop losses in time and prevent love and marriage from becoming sunk costs . Because Sang Shunhua saw that she had no confidence in the relationship between them and had no right to choose.

There is a saying on the Internet that you can’t hold the sand, so just lift it.

Sang Shunhua not only needs to break off the engagement, but also choose a good marriage for himself. She married Cheng Zhi not for impulse or because of her loss after breaking off the engagement. On the contrary, she chose the right person.

Why is Cheng Zhi the right person?

Cheng Zhi said that he married Sang Shunhua not because of his appearance, but because of what? Of course it is Sang Shunhua's talent. Sang Shunhua must have felt this point and Cheng Zhi’s appreciation for her.

Only with appreciation can you develop love. Only with love can you put it in your heart. Only with love can you put it in your heart and feel distressed. This is all about love.

Although Huangfu Yi said that disliked Sang Shunhua's appearance was the idea of ​​her youth, we knew it as well as Shaoshang. In the end, he was moved and loved her. Sang Shunhua saw this more clearly than anyone else. Huangfu Yi’s breakup appointment only proved again that Sang Shunhua was not that important in his heart . Such a person is not worth marrying.

Sang Shunhua has the ability to see through all this, and it is not rare. Her talent and wisdom are enough to support all this. What is rare is her ability to always take the initiative in her hands.

Seven years ago, she resisted the opposition and took care of her fiancé's family on her own, which she could take; seven years later, she decisively retreated from this relationship, which she could let go.

Those who can take it and let it go will not feel wronged, will not be confused, and will not let themselves fall into a passive state. It’s a pity that Shao Business learned how to take on my third uncle’s, but he didn’t learn how to let go.

You see that the third uncle chose to marry into the Cheng family. Facing the stupid third uncle mentioned by Shao Shang, she can live a vivid and clean life.

Facing love, pick it up high, let it go gently, find the right person and walk through three meals and four seasons together, watching the sun rise and the moon set.

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