Author: Yiduo
Picture: From the Internet
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Four great things in life: a long drought meets sweet rain, meets old friends in a foreign land, bridal night, and the third bridal night is something that everyone has to experience in their life. Some people say that marriage is the second life of a woman. Whether a woman lives well or not in the next forty or fifty years depends entirely on marriage.
For men, marriage also plays an important role. The original intention of everyone to get into marriage is to find a physical and spiritual soul mate, encourage each other, survive the ups and downs together, and go through this long life together.
When it comes to weddings, the first thing that comes to mind is a couple with smiles on their faces, loud and festive music and various relatives gathered together. The wedding is the beginning of a married life and the first time a woman enters her husband's house. If the first day is not smooth, it will be even more messy in the future.
Subella Leonidova once said: "The basis of marriage is love, attachment, and respect."
But some people regard marriage as a transaction and do not talk about love and respect at all. Opening their mouths and shutting up means money. Generally speaking, no matter how unsatisfied the wedding day, it will not be reflected. After all, relatives gathered together on that day. In front of the relatives, it is difficult to be petty, so they can only endure temporarily and resolve the problem later.
But Chen Huan did not have this awareness. She was always straightforward and unforgivable. On the wedding day, she did another eye-catching thing, and directly sent her mother-in-law to the hospital.
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Chen Huanhe’s husband met through blind dates. He had been in love for more than a year and they were very in line with each other. So they found someone to make up the auspicious day and set the wedding date. Chen Huan is a face-loving woman. According to the local marriage standards, the bride price was only about 100,000 yuan, and Chen Huan deliberately asked the man’s family for 200,000 yuan.
The man's family also agreed happily. Anyway, the dowry will come after marriage, and the man's family does not feel at a loss. The bride price made Chen Shang see clearly the character and attitude of his husband's family. He was bullied by good people. Chen Shang tested the bottom line of his husband's family and felt that the man's family was easy to talk to, so he began to act aggressively.
On the wedding day, when the wedding was blocking the door, Li Shang indulged his relatives indiscriminately. After the man gave twenty or thirty red envelopes, he still refused to open the door, forcing the man to buy red envelope paper outside temporarily and stuffed 20,000 yuan into it. Only then did he stop.
finally got on the wedding car, but when he arrived at the man's doorstep, he insisted on getting off at 66,000 yuan, otherwise he would not get off. Before this, the two families reached an agreement on the matters related to the departure fee, and only gave 6,000 yuan. In order to make up enough money for the bride price and wedding room, the man's parents had spent all their savings and borrowed money from relatives and friends. Now there is really no money in their pockets.
If it was agreed in advance, the man's family could find another way to borrow money and get enough of the fare. Li Yan had a sudden idea and insisted on embarrassing the man in front of the relatives. The man's parents were already groom's face and could no longer smile. Fortunately, there was a generous relative present, who took someone to the bank in the town to withdraw money, and the woman got off the car.
The wedding ceremony, which was originally scheduled to be held at 11:30, was delayed by Li Shang until 2:00. All the relatives were so hungry that they were rumbled.
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When giving tea to parents-in-law, the man’s parents would give a red envelope for the change of words. The moment Li Huan received the red envelope, he opened it in front of everyone, and there were only two paper tickets worth one hundred yuan. Li Shang took out the two pieces of money, raised his arm, and shouted to his relatives: "Look at it, this is too stingy! Who gave the 200 yuan change fee? This is deliberately trying to kill me!"
After saying this, Li Shang threw the 200 yuan on the face of the man's parents, and it was silent in an instant. Even the emcee who presided over the wedding was at a loss for a moment. The groom's mother quickly got up and pulled the bride's arm, trying to explain the reason to her.
The woman asked for 20,000 yuan to pick up the bride, and the fee for getting off the car to change the bride was 66,000 yuan. The man's family really couldn't afford the extra money, so I gave so much for the time being. After the wedding ceremony was held, it was still time to make up for it. But Li Shangcai didn't care about that much, she asked the man's family to pay the change fee of 88,000 yuan now, otherwise the wedding would be cancelled.
"When you were engaged, you didn't say that. You said that you should just give one or two thousand yuan to get off the bus. As for the change fee, you also said that you would give a thousand yuan. Now you are unwilling to give up and insist on 66,000 or 88,000 yuan. Since you have already made up your mind, why didn't you make it clear?" groom couldn't help but roar.
"I made it clear before, will you still marry me? Anyway, you only have two choices now, either give me an 88,000 yuan change fee, or I will go home, don't expect me to surrender!"
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ml0 The groom was also angry. He wanted to reason with Li Shang, after all, today was a happy day. In front of the relatives, it was really embarrassing to tear the face apart. He came to the bride's ear and begged hard, wanting the bride to hold the ceremony first.
Who knew that Li Shang refused to give in. At this moment, the groom's mother's blood pressure soared, she fainted and fell heavily to the ground. The wedding scene became a mess. The groom quickly made a call and the groom's mother was taken to the hospital. Some were accusing the bride and some were talking about the groom. A good wedding has now become a farce.
Fortunately, the groom's mother was not seriously injured. She woke up again in the hospital and treated the infusion. The groom was excited. Then she remembered Li Shang who was still at home. She called Li Shang directly: "Get back to your house, the wedding was cancelled, and I will return all the money I spent on you tomorrow. Otherwise, I will meet in court."
Li Shang felt very wronged. The groom's mother was not seriously injured. As for the crime of provoking such an army? Is it appropriate for the man’s family to give a change fee of 200 yuan? The man's behavior was that he didn't take her seriously. If she complained a few times, what happened?
Now Li Yan is in a dilemma. She thought that no matter what request is made, the man would agree. Now the wedding is cancelled, and she returns to her parents' home in shame. How can outsiders laugh at her! But the man's attitude was firm and he was not joking with her at all. Li Huan refused to bow his head and admitted his mistake, and wanted to save the marriage. I wonder what to do?
In fact, Li Yan's wedding was cancelled, which was completely done by her. If I want to make a high-priced change of words and get off fees, I can agree to the man's family in advance that on the wedding day, I have to force the man to withdraw money and borrow money. This behavior is very naive and domineering, and will only make the man's family disgusted.
None of the money in any family is blown by the strong wind. It is not a long-term solution to just squeeze the man’s parents to fill their own small treasury. People live a life, spend money earned by their own hands to be comfortable. Marriage is not a transaction. If you treat it as a transaction, don’t expect happiness to be related to you.
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