discovered a strange phenomenon!
The "baby-posting maniac" who once dominated the circle of friends has gradually disappeared. From "posting more every day" to just posting once every few days, now, he simply stops posting, and even sets it to be visible for 3 days. Later, When she opened her WeChat Moments, what came into view was "a bar"...
I don't know since when, showing off babies has become a trend, and many mothers enjoy it. We can see one after another through WeChat Moments. "Cute baby", but as time goes by, we slowly lose sight of it, just like a pebble dropped in the water. At first it made beautiful ripples, but as it sank into the water, it became silent as before, and it seemed that everything had changed from Nothing has ever happened!
Many friends are curious, what exactly did a mother go through from being a "baby-showing madman" to being "Buddha-like invisible"?
The history of changes in the mother's circle of friends - first-time mother, ecstatic
A philosopher once said: No matter how much a woman dislikes children, when she goes through ten months of pregnancy and gives birth to her baby, they will still care about it. , ecstatic, and this is an instinctive reaction of maternal love, independent of human will.
So when we become mothers for the first time, as mothers, we have awe and emotion for life. Looking at the cute baby in the swaddle, we sigh from the heart for the wonder of life, so at this time, we often want to think about this joy, The excitement and excitement are conveyed to more people.
In addition, every child is the mother's heart and soul. Accompanying the child's growth day by day and sharing the child's joy and happiness are the things that mothers care about most, so for some novice mothers, showing off their children is tantamount to "Expose yourself" and express your hard work, excitement and excitement through your children.
According to research statistics, mothers who enjoy taking care of their children often have an optimistic and positive attitude. They are relatively stable both mentally and emotionally, and the probability of developing "postpartum depression" is relatively low. Professionals explain: Sunbathing is also a way for today's mothers to express their emotions, which can help reduce the anxiety of novice mothers.
However, as the baby grows up, the group of mothers is divided into two camps. The first is "full-time mothers" and the second is "working mothers". This is also the beginning of the "Buddhist invisibility" in the circle of friends!
The history of changes in the circle of friends of mothers - the "history of blood and tears" of stay-at-home mothers
As time goes by, the presence of full-time mothers and their children in the circle of friends becomes less and less, until one day, the circle of friends becomes a bar.
It's not that mothers have seen through the world of mortals, but that they really "can't show off"...
Some male friends said with disdain: Why don't you just take care of your baby? Is it so tiring? Glass-hearted or pretentious?
Actually, it is neither. If you know the "history of blood and tears" of my mother 24 hours a day, 365 days a year, or if a male friend goes to the battle to experience it for himself, you may be slapped in the face by your own "contempt"!
A stay-at-home mother may seem relaxed, just raising a baby, but she works 24 hours a day and has to take care of her children's eating, drinking and grooming. Sometimes she can't even find time to eat by herself. When her children cry, she immediately goes online, no matter whether she is sleepy or not. , you have to brace yourself up 20 minutes, the baby cries at night, breastfeeds immediately, there are endless diapers to change, endless clothes to wash... No wonder some mothers lament that raising children is not as easy as going to work! Don't make a fuss about showing off your kids. That's what novice mothers do. Senior full-time mothers don't have time at all!
@happybaby: Since I became a mother, what I have been missing the most is "sleep". I have dark circles under my eyes from early morning to daytime. Day after day, I dare not take pictures or show off my baby. I am afraid that the beauty camera cannot save me. dark circles under eyes.
@布布丁丁: As a full-time mother of two children, I would like to say that I am unkempt every day. I used to always want to dress myself up as a super hot mom, but now I think I am too naive, and I have a lot of time to show off my children. Show off yourself and forgive me for not being able to do it!
The history of changes in moms' friend circles - the "point of no return" for working moms
The opposite camp of stay-at-home moms is the working moms. The two look at each other. It makes everyone feel relaxed, but neither of them has it easy. The daily life of stay-at-home moms There are a lot of trivial matters in life, and working mothers have to juggle their children and work, which can be called a "point of no return."
In a working mother’s day, half is occupied by work and half is occupied by children. One mother laughed and said: It’s not the clients or the alarm clock that wakes her up every day, it’s the children!
Working mothers seem to be active in the workplace, but in addition to having to worry about work, they also have to pay attention to their children's movements at all times. They are going crazy every minute. There was a colleague who worked with me before who suddenly started crying at work. Everyone Everyone asked what was wrong, and she said that the child had a cold...
So, from the time the child is born to when he starts school, many, many things happen every day. Working mothers have to be occupied with work while at the same time worrying about their children. , why do you still have a leisurely and leisurely "circle of friends"?
@小江马: Every day, Xiaobao wakes up and makes breakfast. After breakfast, he sends Dabao to kindergarten. Then he drives to the company and sits in the office. He has to calm down for at least 10 minutes before he can be resurrected with full blood. Wearing no makeup, stepping on the sky-high sky, passing day after day, the circle of friends is full of work, children and myself, can only appear in the cracks!
Some netizens said: The biggest difference between working mothers and stay-at-home mothers is that one goes to the vegetable market and the other goes to move bricks. Although the directions are different, the "tiredness" is the same. So, the history of the changes in the circle of friends of mothers, from "baby-showing mania" to "Buddhist invisibility", actually tells the story of the unknown hard work and care of mothers!
So here, I also hope that male friends can participate in the process of raising children, and share more with women, so that they can live the way they want in the process of raising children!
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