The most painful and happiest moment in a girl's life is the moment she becomes a mother. It's just that some girls are lucky, and getting married and having children is a matter of course; while some girls are extremely unlucky, and whether they get married or have children, it

The most painful and happiest moment in a girl's life is the moment she becomes a mother. It's just that some girls are lucky, and getting married and having children is a matter of course; while some girls are extremely unlucky, and whether they get married or have children, it seems like they are "going down to earth to experience calamity."

is like actress Zhao Xiaoqiao . Many people may not be familiar with this name, but her works are memories of countless people's youth.

Especially in "The Prince Turns into a Frog", which was broadcast in 2005, Fan Yunxi played by Zhao Xiaoqiao is still the "White Moonlight" in the hearts of fans of the drama after many years.

Although in TV dramas, Zhao Xiaoqiao plays mostly the unlovable second female lead, in real life, Zhao Xiaoqiao herself is a young lady that people have to love.

In addition to her beauty, the most attractive thing about her is her attitude towards love and life.

Unlike other actresses who are greedy for rich families, Zhao Xiaoqiao neither seeks rich families nor looks for handsome men. Instead, she married a middle-aged uncle who can be her father.

If you have watched Taiwanese idol dramas, you may be familiar with it. This uncle often appears in idol dramas, guest starring in some middle-aged and elderly characters.

This uncle's name is Liu Liangzuo . He is 12 years older than Zhao Xiaoqiao. He is neither a wealthy businessman nor an industry leader. He is also divorced and has a teenage son.

Then why did Zhao Xiaoqiao marry such an ordinary uncle? Explain in her own words: This is love!

Before marrying Liu Liangzuo, they had been in a stable relationship for 6 years, so although they were not suitable in the eyes of outsiders, Zhao Xiaoqiao finally married himself to Liu Liangzuo.

They registered their marriage in a low-key manner in December 2016, and held two additional weddings in Okinawa and Taipei the following year.

At the wedding, Zhao Xiaoqiao expressed excitedly that she wanted to be a mother as soon as possible and planned to have three children in the future.

But she never imagined that getting pregnant and giving birth would become an unattainable dream for her.

Because she was never able to get pregnant naturally, Zhao Xiaoqiao had to start trying in vitro fertilization in the second year after her marriage.

Zhao Xiaoqiao can no longer remember exactly how many medicines she took and how many injections she received. She only remembers that she would feel dizzy after taking the medicine and her belly was "full of holes."

Even though he suffered like this, Zhao Xiaoqiao faced three consecutive failures.

Every time the doctor told her that there was no success, Zhao Xiaoqiao described herself as "completely out of control emotionally, often crying at night for no reason.

After crying, she still had to continue taking medicines and injections the next day. This was also because she continued to With constant medication and injections, Zhao Xiaoqiao's figure and appearance have also changed.

Although she still looks like a goddess in the eyes of outsiders, Zhao Xiaoqiao jokes that she has become so swollen that she can only cover her face with her hair, and now she looks like an aunt.

When a reporter recently asked Zhao Xiaoqiao about her progress in seeking a child, the 42-year-old Zhao Xiaoqiao said for the first time that if there is still no good result this year, she will not force her fate with a child. After all, besides being a mother, her life has There are also other important things.

And Zhao Xiaoqiao’s husband also said that he does not want to see his wife’s pain of injections and medicines, so he fully supports his wife’s decision.

Some people may think that if there is no biological child, Zhao Xiaoqiao’s life will definitely be different. Full of regrets.

But it is not necessarily true, because the relationship between Zhao Xiaoqiao and her stepson is better than that of an ordinary biological mother and son.

After Zhao Xiaoqiao decided to be with Liu Liangzuo, she treated her stepson as her own. At the wedding, his stepson not only served as the best man, but also personally wrote a letter to thank Zhao Xiaoqiao for giving him motherly love.

Especially the last sentence in the letter was "Thank you, mom", which offended Zhao Xiaoqiao and the guests at the wedding. They all had tears in their eyes.

In the past five years after her marriage, Zhao Xiaoqiao has accompanied her stepson from adolescence to adulthood. She supports all his hobbies and decisions, works as his assistant, stays up late to accompany him in filming, and gives all her maternal love to this step-son who has nothing to do with her. A blood-related son.

Therefore, every Mother's Day, his stepson will prepare gifts and gratitude cards for Zhao Xiaoqiao. He even said to Zhao Xiaoqiao, "If you have a child in the future, I will bear half of the child support; if not, I will be your only child."

Perhaps it was the company of her husband and stepson that made Zhao Xiaoqiao willing to "give up" on having children.

Although Zhao Xiaoqiao is still working hard to have a child, apart from these worries, she and her husband's family get along happily. She and her husband go outing and fishing regularly, and her life can be considered happy and contented.

Those friends who were not optimistic about Zhao Xiaoqiao's marriage in the past are now envious of her marrying for love. Indeed, marriage is like a person knowing whether he is warm or cold after drinking water. Zhao Xiaoqiao can still live as simple as a girl now. Isn't it love that gives her the greatest confidence?

Maybe Zhao Xiaoqiao will have regrets and flaws in her life, but she will eventually live a happy little woman!